Kutheni amadoda atshatileyo kwaye uyisidenge

"Iimpumba zithatha inhlanhla," "zitshatile kuphela izilumko" - ezi nkcazo sele ziba ngu-axiomatic. Kodwa ngaba kunjalo ngokwenene? Kwaye ukuba kunjalo, kutheni amadoda atshatileyo kwaye uyisidenge, ngoxa ubuhle kunye namantombazana anengqiqo ayawuphepha? Oku kuya kuxoxwa ngezantsi.

U-Ivan akayisidenge

Iqhawe eliyintandokazi yeengoma zabantu baseRashiya ngu-Ivanushka the Fool. Uvila: ulala esitofu yonke imihla kwaye uhamba ngeempukane. Unengcamango eqondileyo: "Ukuba ihashe inemilenze emine kunye neetafile zinezine, ke itafile iyahamba." Kodwa ekugqibeleni u-Ivan ufumana intombi yobukumkani kunye nesiqingatha sobukumkani ngaphezu koko. Abaninzi bethu sele beseneminyaka yobuntwaneni baqikelele ukuba le hero hero-tale hero is not a fool. Okanye - kungekhona isidenge. Ngoku ngoku uya kufumanisa ukuba: I-Asperger's syndrome. Lo luhlobo lwe-autism, xa i-social naivete idibene neengqondo eziphezulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, le syndrome yahlushwa uAlbert Einstein noIsake Newton. Ngoko u-Ivan uyisidenge kuphela ngokwemvelo yakhe emnyama. Yaye ukuba ulinganisa i-IQ, bekungekho nto.

Ngokumalunga nabafazi abavela kwiindalana zabantu baseRashiya, i-duras (kunye neyimpumelelo) ayifumanekanga emini ngemini. Bonke Banobuqili, Ubulumko -Bulumko, Abachwepheli, bangathethi ukuba bonke bafana neyodwa - Mhle. Inkcazelo yamanqaku malunga nendlela u-Masha-osisidenge etshata ngayo inkosana etshatileyo, into ayiyikhunjulwayo. Ngoko ningacingi ukuba uthando lwezilumko luyinto yabantu bethu ...

Amadoda athetha ama-blondes?

Iphi na i-anecdotes malunga ne-blondes kwaye ivela ngcamango yokuba ibhinqa kufuneka libe nzima, kuba indoda ishada nje ngokubi nesisidenge? Bathi kwenzeke kwiminyaka engama-60 yekhulu lokugqibela, xa uMarilyn Monroe ekhanya kwiikrini. AmaMerika ayefuna ukumxelisa aze athengwe kwii-stroke zonke iindawo zokugcina i-hydrogen peroxide, ukukhupha izinwele. Ngoko umfanekiso we-blonde wakhiwa: unobungqina kwaye uthembele, uqonda yonke into eyiyo-njengokuba u-Ivanushka isidenge. Kuphela ngokuchasene neqhawe lomdlali, ongenalo ifihliweyo okanye ingqondo evulekile.

Bathi amahlaya malunga nama-blondes akhiwa ngama-brunette ngexesha lobusuku obude bodwa. Enyanisweni, abalobi bala mahlaya baninzi ngabantu. Ngokukodwa ukuhlaziywa kweengxelo ezinjalo kwilizwe lethu kwiminyaka eyi-10-15 yokugqibela, xa lo mfazi waqala ukudala ukhuphiswano lokwenene ngesondo esinamandla kwishishini. Kwaye ukuze sizikhusele ekubeni sisongelwe ukukhutshwa kuzo zonke izikhundla ezibalulekileyo, umzingeli wethu, umkhuseli kunye nesondlo saqala ukudala inkolelo: "Bonke abafazi bayisidenge." Kwaye akuyinto eyisiyatha, inesidima kwaye ingonwabanga.

Ubomi bentliziyo

Kodwa ngaba ngokwenene abantu bathanda abafazi abangenangqondo? Ngaba zifuna ukuba ziphulaphule, zivule imilomo yazo, zifake ngezihlandlo ngezikhathi ezithile: "Ewe, kufuneka! Ewe ukuba wena! Ewe uya! "? Ngenyanga okanye ezimbini, ngokuphendula, ufuna ukumemeza, njengeqhawe likaRaikin: "Vala umlomo wakho, uyisidenge, ndithe ndathetha yonke into."

Hayi, ngokusobala, phantsi kwegama elithi "sidenge" amadoda ayaqonda enye into. Yintoni e mtsalane? Uqikeleleka, zonke iingcamango zakhe zisesandleni sakhe (ngaphandle kokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, le yimeko yeklinikhi). I-Dura ayiyi kuzenza ngathi konke kulungile, kwaye - bam! - "Ndikushiya!"

Akuyithinteli, akuyi kuthi: "Uya kuqala nini ukufumana i-Petrov?" Ngaphandle kokuba ilahleke: "Ndifuna ingubo efanayo noMas."

Ujonge umyeni wakhe njengothixo: akazami ukufundisa kwakhona, ukubuyisela. Yintoni ekhulile, ikhule. Kulula ukuxolela nokulibala izikhalazo, kunye nokunyaniseka, ukungaqondiyo akuqondi nto nhlobo.

Isisityebi sinemvakalelo, esilula kwaye singenasiphelo, njengomntwana - uyavuya kakhulu kunye nebhuyilethi yangasese indlu yangasese.

Uyisilumko-akakwazi ukuqonda imiyalelo elula, ngokukhawuleza ubize indoda yakhe.

Ukuba unenkathazo embi, akayi kumfundisa ukuba angayenza njani, amhlambele, anike iingcebiso, indlela yokulungisa yonke into. Ngaphandle kokuba akhuphuke ngeenyawo zakhe kwi-sofa, uya kufakraza ekhaleni lakhe. Kwaye mhlawumbi, shiya indoda yakhe yedwa.

Ngamanye amaxesha unokuzenza

I-Dura ilungile kuba ikhuselekile. Amadoda ayesaba ngabafazi, nangona kunjalo, abayi kuvuma nganoma yiphi indlela. Xa bebefana namakhwenkwe bedlala "imfazwe", amantombazana sele sele ahlakulele intliziyo kwaye afunde ukuphatha oontanga nabadala. Amadoda ayazi ukuba umfazi unamandla kwaye unamava enzululwazi, intuition, ebudlelwaneni. Yaye, ukuba uyayithanda, unokuguqula ubomi bethembekileyo esihogweni. Kwaye umfazi onobuqili - ngakumbi.

Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi bayacetyiswa ukuba bazenze njengesidenge ukukholisa indoda. Bacinga ukuba ke ngoko amadoda atshate-ababi nabangenangqondo banamathuba amaninzi. Kodwa, okokuqala, ukudlala ngobuqhetseba kuyingozi. Okwesibini, kakuhle, kuvela, mna, ukhaliphile kwaye ufundisiwe, kwaye awukwazi ukuthanda? Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zingaphi ukuzenza, "awukwazi ukufihla le ngxabano". Kodwa kukho enye indlela: ungabonakali loo mntu ubulumko bakhe, umqhelise kumgangatho wakhe ngokuthe ngcembe. Ukuze unqobe othandekayo, mxelele ukuba akudingeki ukwesaba, ukuba awusoze uqondise ingqondo yakho nolwazi ngaye. Oku akusikho ukuzenzisa, "kukufihlwa kwemininingwane". Uhlala esisidenge. Ohlakaniphile unokuba yinto ayifunayo.

Iingcebiso:

Musa ukumbamba umntu ngokukhawuleza yonke ulwazi malunga neempumelelo zakho: zingaphi amaziko aphumelele, indlela yokuguqula ishishini, indlela yokucinezela abasebenzi. Ungalokothi wenze oko ummeli wesondo esinamandla kunokwenza kuwe: ungazityheli iwayini etafileni, ungashenxisi usihlalo.

Ukukhokelwa ngufakelo: emsebenzini Ndiyindoda, njengowomsebenzi, onzima. Kwaye ekhaya - obuthathaka, othenda kwaye kufuneka ulandelwe kum. Ungalokothi ukhankanye indoda ukuba yenze njani - makumfikele ngokwakhe ngengqondo yakhe.