Enyanisweni, kulula kakhulu ukwenza umntwana ahloniphe wena. Kwanele ukugcina imithetho emininzi, kwaye uza kubonakalisa inyana yakho igunya langempela.
Abazali mababe ngumzekelo omhle kumntwana wabo
Abantwana, ingakumbi abo baselula, bathambekele ekusebenziseni izenzo ezingabonakali. Ngokuqhelekileyo abakwazi ukuvavanya imiphumo enokwenzeka yezenzo zabo. Ingakumbi imeko ingaba nzima ngakumbi xa umntwana eselula engena kwinkampani embi, ekhetha ngokwakhe njengomzekelo wokulingisa abalinganiswa abangcono.
Yingakho abazali bamele bathathe uxanduva lwabo kumntwana ukususela kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi bakhe. Umntwana kufuneka abe nekratshi ngabazali bakhe. Kuphela ke ufuna ukulandela umzekelo wakho omhle kwaye uqale ukuphulaphula icebiso lakho.
Kuyo yonke intsapho kufuneka kube nokuqeqeshwa. Zibuze, njani abantwana bakho abaqeqeshwayo? Cinga ukuba bahlala bethetha ngeenjongo zabo? Yile ndlela okufanele ibe ngayo.
Abantwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bangenakuthathaka kangakanani ekuqaleni, badinga ishedyuli ethile, kunye nabantu abadala. Ngokunika ixesha lokukhuliswa kwabantwana, abazali badala uhlobo lwesiseko somlingiswa wabo.
Isiyalo esifanelekileyo sisiseko sophuhliso oluhambelana nomntwana. Abazali bafanele banikele ixesha kubantwana babo imihla ngemihla, ngaphandle koko bayayeka ukuva uthando lwabazali, ukuba i-modernity iya kuthintela uqeqesho kunye nemfundo ngokubanzi.
Funda ukubonisa abantwana bakho bathande
Cinga, ungabonisa uthando lwakho? Uthetha kaninzi kangakanani kubantwana bakho ukuba uyabathanda kwaye ubonise iimvakalelo zakho? Ngelo xesha, uthando alufuneki ukuthengwa. Kumele kuhanjiswe ngokuchitha ixesha kunye nomntwana kwaye ubeke ingqalelo kuyo.
Ngelishwa, ihlabathi lanamhlanje kukuba abazali, ukuba bafuna ukubonelela intsapho yabo, baninzi ixesha lokuchitha emsebenzini, oluchaphazela ngokusondeleyo ubudlelwane babo nabantwana. Ngenxa yoko, abaninzi abantu bazama ukutshintsha ixesha elilahlekileyo kunye namayeza axabisekileyo kunye nezipho ezilungileyo. Ewe, kulungile xa umntwana efumana into emilindelwe ixesha elide, nokuba bhetele ukuba abazali bayakwazi ukuyifumana. Kodwa asimele sithathe indawo yothando kunye nokukhathalela ngezinto ezahlukeneyo.
Okungangoko awusebenzi, ngokuqinisekileyo, unempelasonto. Yenza umyalelo kuwe: ubuncinane kanye ngeveki, unike ixesha kumntwana. Ngelo xesha, akukho mzini omele akuphazamise: akukho msebenzi, akukho bahlobo, abaqhelana naye, akukho khomputha.
Abantwana bathanda ukuchitha ixesha nabazali babo, ingakumbi ukuba babonisa uthando, inhlonipho kunye nomdla kwimicimbi yabo kunye neengxaki. Qinisekisa ukuba ubuze ukuba izinto zinjani nomntwana esikolweni, oko wakwenzayo, oko akwanelisayo ngoku. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba i-hobby yakho ingabonakali kangakanani, zama ukungena ngaphakathi ngokunyanisekileyo.
Ukuba uyabathanda abantwana bakho, kwaye yile ndlela efanelekileyo, kufanele uzive iimfuno zabo kunye neengxaki kwaye uziqonde izinto zokuzonwabisa.
Ungesabi ukuthi "hayi"
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana baziphatha ngokuzikhethela ukuze bavele kubazali babo "cha", ngoko bajikelele. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba abazali abanomdla ngokukodwa kwimpumelelo yabantwana, kodwa xa kukho imeko engafanelekiyo, bakhawuleza bayeka yonke ishishini labo. Yingakho abatsha baqala ukutshaya, ukusela, ukuthetha neenkampani ezimbi. Bakwenza ngokukhawuleza kubazali babo, abangayi kubaphulaphula.
Khumbula, uthando luyinto yokuqala ebantwaneni bonke abayidingayo. Izinto eziphathekayo ziyadingeka, kodwa zikwindawo yesibini. Musa ukuvumela abantwana kuphela ngokunyanzelisa ukuba bafumane ingqalelo kwixesha elilindelekileyo. Nika abantwana ixesha. Ukuqonda iingxaki zabo. Ngaloo ndlela, ugijime ukhwelo kunye nokukrokra, kwaye nangakumbi ungayinaki iingxaki zabo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunelungelo lokuthi "hayi" kwaye unike umntwana ithuba elide. Ndikholelwe, uyayixabisa oku.
Funda ukunika omnye nomnye
Kwintsapho ephumelelayo akukho ndawo yokunyanzela. Onke amalungu omndeni kufuneka athethelelane. Umfazi kufuneka anikezele kumyeni wakhe, umyeni kumfazi, abazali kubafundi kunye nokunye. Kwintsapho apho umntu ehlonelanayo aze amkele, ukuzola kuya kulawula, ukwaneliseka kunye nolonwabo lwentsapho.
Yenza abahlobo nabantwana bakho
Enyanisweni, abazali kufuneka baqale babe ngabazali kubantwana babo, kodwa oku akufanele ukuphazamise ubuhlobo bakho nabantwana. Ukuba ufuna abantwana bakuthembele, kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba ebomini babo. Musa ukuyihoxisa, ungalilahli kwaye ungadumisi abantwana bakho! Abazali bafanele babonise abantwana babo inhlonipho. Kule ndlela kuphela kunokwenzeka ukufumana inhlonipho ngokubuyisela.
Ungaze ukohlise abantwana
Abantwana bathembela kakhulu, ngoko banokuxinezeleka kakhulu xa bekhohliswa ngabantu abasondeleyo. Ukuba ulibale nje ukuzalisekisa isithembiso sakho, silinganiswa nokukhohlisa. Ungaze unike abantwana bezithembiso ezingaqinisekanga, kwaye gcina igama lakho.
Uthando kunye nentlonipho yabantwana kulula kakhulu ukunqoba. Khumbula, abantwana bayayithanda baze bahlonele abazali babo. Akukufuneki nje ukuphazamisa ukuthembela kwabo ngezenzo ezimbi okanye ngokukhawuleza!