"Awuqondi mna !!" - ngaba abantwana kunye nabazali babo bakuva njani eli binzana lisuka komnye nomnye !! Kodwa ngokwenene nje nje le ntombazana enezintlungwane ezintle kunye neengqungquthela ze-pigfish zathi: "Mama, ungcono kakhulu!".
Ngoko kwenzeka ntoni? Kutheni ulwalamano lwethu nonina luguquka kwixesha lobomi bethu? Kwaye akusoloko kulunge ngakumbi! Ungazikhusela njani kwiingxaki ezimalunga nolwalamano "uMama kunye nentombi", kwaye ufike endleleni efanelekileyo yabangani bakho, uthemba omnye nomnye zonke iimfihlelo?
Iingcali zengqondo zixela ukuba zonke iimeko ezimbi ebomini bethu ziyakubeka impawu zabo kwimpilo ekhulileyo. Kwaye ngokwenene, ngokwenene, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, ukukhula, siya kuba oomama.
Kwaye senza iimpazamo ezifanayo malunga neentombi zethu, ezenzayo kuthi. Yintoni ebangela iingxaki phakathi koomama neentombi zabo? Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ivakalelwa njani, kodwa iingcambu kufuneka zikhangelwe ebuntwaneni.
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Ngamaxesha amaninzi umama athi kuwe: "Unjani intombazana!" U yinkwenkwe! Ewe, ungubani na? "Ngoko yintoni? Ewe, uya kucinga, ingxaki - ingubo iqwengile kwakhona i-коленки iphukile! Kodwa ngeli thuba uloyiko lokuqala luya kungena engqondweni yengqondo - andinjengomama, kungekhona njengowesifazana, akunjalo. Xa uneminyaka yobudala, uloyiko luya kuba yinto ephosakeleyo. Kwaye uzama okusemandleni akho ukuba ube "mhlophe kwaye uhlutha", nangona ungafuni nhlobo, kodwa uMama uthe ...
Ixesha lamantombazana aseMarhmallow adlule! Ngoku ke bonke abafazi bahluke ngokupheleleyo, kodwa oko kukuhle! Unokuba yingelosi namhlanje, kwaye ngomso ungenakulungeleka! Makube le nto ibalulekileyo. Emva koko, singabesifazana, sinjalo, kwaye ngoko nathi sinomdla kakhulu!
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Ukufuna konke okusemandleni, unina engazi (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngokukhethekileyo) udala ingxaki ethile ebuhlotsheni bakho. Ufuna ukuba ube ikopi yakhe, uzama ukuqonda kuwe, kwintombi yakhe, zonke izifiso zakho namaphupha akho. Isikolo somculo, ukudansa, i-gymnastics, kunye nokunye okuninzi! Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba umama akazange akwenze oko ebuntwaneni bakhe! Kodwa awuyi kuzisa lo mncoko okhethekileyo ...
Qonda ukuba kuhlukile ukuba ube ngumama kwaye ube yikhonkco yakhe! Wena ungumntu! Yiba yedwa! Yenza iimbono zakho, zifake izifiso zakho. Kwaye makube yicandelo lebhokisi! Emva kwakho konke, uyayithanda.
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Kuba wethu umama, sihlala sisona sihle kwaye sihle kakhulu, kodwa kutheni sasiva amazwi angcikivo ngaphezu kweyodwa? "Unobuncwane!", "Uhlala ungekho ndawo," "Ziyintoni imilenze yakho ephosakeleyo." Ewe, ezininzi izinto! Kwaye ibinzana elithi "elona nqabileyo": "Ngubani na oyidingayo?!". Ngokukhawuleza kubonakala ukuba intombi - uhlobo lweQuasimodo-sloven. Kwaye akukho mntu oqhelekileyo uya kuvuma nawe ukuba afike kwibhasi enye, ungakhankanyi ukukwenza ukuba ube nesibonelelo sesandla kunye nentliziyo.
Yenza umsebenzi wakho ngaphakathi. Funda ukuzithanda, nantoni na abantu abasondezayo. Phakamisa ukuzithemba kwakho, phulaphule ihlabathi lakho eliphakathi. Yaye ukhumbule: bonke abantu ngabanye, akukho namadoda alungileyo kunye nama-freaks. Kuwo wonke umntu kukho into eyahlula kwabanye. Kufuneka kuphela ukufundisa lo mmahluko ekukhanyeni okulungileyo okunenzuzo kuwe.
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Uhlala ufunga, unyoko ugxeka ngenxa yokukhetha okungafanelekanga kwengubo, i-perfume, umsebenzi, njl. Akathandi abahlobo bakho, ikati lakho kunye (uThixo akwenzanga) umyeni wakho. Kwaye konke oku akubonakalisi kuwe kwitheksi ngqo, kodwa "ngokukodwa ngengozi"! Kodwa yonke imbonakalo yayo ibonisa ukuba ayifanelekanga kangakanani.
Ukuxazulula ingxaki : Thetha nomama wakho ngeenyawo ezilinganayo - malunga neemvakalelo zakhe, malunga nobuhlobo bakho, malunga neembono zakho ebomini. Ungesabi ukuthetha ukuba awuyithandi. Makhe ndiqonde ukuba ubomi bakho bubomi bakho. Ukunikela ukufumana indlela eqhelekileyo yokuphuma kwimeko. Zama ukwenza into kunye kunye-yintengiso, uye kwi-salon enobuhle. Emva kokuva kuMama nayiphina ingxaki - mnike icebiso kwiifomu ezingabonakaliyo. Zama uqonde umama wakho. Ayikwazi ukujamelana nale meko - uyazigxekisa, ntombi yakhe, ngelixa ekufunayo okulungileyo!
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Umama wakho uphila ubomi bakho. Konke okufuneka akukwazi ngawe. Usoloko uzisola, uvelwano kwaye ukhawuleze nasiphi na isisu sakho sengqondo - kunezizathu ezinokucasuka okukhulu! Kwaye xa uqala ukumthukuthelela - kubangele iinyembezi neemvakalelo!
Ukuqonda umama - ukwesaba ukungabi ncedi kwintombi yakhe, ngokuba wayeyiNkosi kunye noThixo njengomntwana. Kwaye ke kuvela ukuba ngaphandle kwayo uhlangabezana nayo! Ngomama, oku kukhwankqisa kakhulu! Thetha naye ngokuzimela kwakho, kwaye kukuhle kangakanani ukuba ukhona kwaye unokuthembela kuye!
Yaye ukuba yonke into ayinalutho ... Hayi, awufumani ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nonina, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzama kangakanani! Mthabathe ukuba ungubani, ukuba nje ngumama wakho - umntu ozalayo waza wakhupha ngokufanayo. Kwaye, okubaluleke kakhulu: khumbula ukuba nathi siza kuba ngomama ngolunye usuku, kwaye ayikaziwa ngendlela esiya kuziphatha ngayo neentombi zethu. Ngoko, ukukhulisa intombi, jonga emva kobuntwaneni bakho, kwaye uzame ukuphinda uphinde uphendule iimeko kunye namazwi aholele ukuba uthuthuke. Yiba ngumntwana wakho nomcebisi nomntwana. Kungenzeka ukuba ngeentombi zakho uya kuba ngabahlobo abangazange babe nonina.
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