Ukubonakala komntwana kukuvavanya kwabatshatileyo ababa ngabazali abatsha. Bamele bajamelane neengxaki ezintsha, basebenzise kwiimbopheleleko ezingaqhelekanga baze baqonde uxanduva olwandisiweyo. Iingqungquthela kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle zihlala kunye nabantu. Ziziphi iingozi ezixhamla kwimpikiswano "yeenyanga zokuqala" nendlela yokuhlangabezana nazo?
Ukusabalalisa imithwalo engafanelekanga yimpazamo eqhelekileyo yabamama abaselula. Ukukhathazeka malunga nosana, bathatha yonke ingxaki yokunyamekela, ukususa indoda yakhe nasiphi na isenzo. Oku kunokubangela umntu ukuba afune, angaqondi, kwaye emva koko kubanda kumntwana. Ungamangaleli umfazi ngenxa yeempazamo kunye neempazamo - uyazama ukunceda. Kubalulekile kuphela ukuyibeka ngenyameko ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Ukukhathala kudla ngokubangela abazali abangenalwazi ukuba bacacise ubuhlobo: ukucaphuka, ukunyanzelwa kweentlonelo kunye nokunganakwa kwenza kube lula ukwesaba. Indlela ehle kakhulu yokuphuma ingaba ishedyuli yokunxibelelana nomntwana kunye nokuhanjiswa kweembopheleleko-kuya kukuvumela ukuba uchithe ixesha lakho namandla.
Iimbono ezahlukileyo kwiinkathalo kunye nemfundo ziyisikhubekiso. Imibuzo enzulu malunga nokutya, ukulala ngokubambisana, iindlela zokubuyisela kufuneka zixoxwe ngomoya okhululekile, uzama ukufumana izisombululo.