Yintoni esiyaziyo ngamadoda angaphandle? Kukholelwa ukuba amaFrentshi angamaqhinga, amaTaliyane ayenomoya othukutheleyo, abafana abashisayo baseFinnish ... abashushu. Kodwa iingcamango zihlala zide kakhulu nenyaniso. Ngoko, ukutshata nomfokazi okanye umfazi waseRashiya ngaphandle kweso sihloko sentetho yethu. Ukuhlaselwa ngamaqhinga - sifunda ukuba yintoni na amadoda angaphandle.
Umqondiso okanye uMnumzane?
Kulo lonke ihlabathi, amadoda aseNtaliyane ayaziwa ngokuba yintliziyo engathandekiyo kunye nomoya onamandla. Ewe, ba. Ubomvu, umsindo, obalabala ... Akukho ntombazana ayiyi kuhamba esitrato, ingasiva emva kokumncoma "Bella!" Umculo waseItali kunye nomzwelo, uyamthanda kwaye uyamthaka .... Kodwa unina ukhetha umfazi. Kwaye kaninzi nakumntwana. Kwaye asisekho makhwenkwe, kodwa ngabayeni, abakwazi ukuthobela. Emva koko, intsapho yaseNtaliyane ingcwele kwiindawo zokuhlala. Akukho namnye kulawa mafutha ashushu aphelelwe yiminyaka eyi-90 yintando yakhe
ugogo. Ayikho nayiphi na into yokugaya Ingaba yiNdebe yeHlabathi okanye i-affair ene-blonde ekhangayo. Akunjalo ngenxa yokuba intsapho ayayiqondi le nto, kodwa ngenxa yokuba intsapho ibaluleke kakhulu.
Kwintsapho yeNtaliyane into ebalulekileyo, ayikho into encinane. Yonke into ngaphandle ... ngesondo. Iimpembelelo kuzo zonke izibonakaliso, amadoda athatha abafazi bawo ngokugqithiseleyo kangangokuthi abaqhelanga ukwenza izinto unogogo angabagweba.
AmaFrentshi nawo afakwe kakhulu kwiintsapho zawo. Baziqhayise ngeempumelelo zabantwana, bahloniphe isizukulwana esidala kwaye bahlala behlala kummandla: ootata kunye nobabamalume, oogogo nomkhulu, abazukulu nabazala abapheli nje kuphela ixesha labo lokukhulula kunye, kodwa bahamba kunye neeholide ndawonye. Enye yezinto ezivuyisa kakhulu kwiFrentshi yidlo edibeneyo, eyaba yeholide yangempela. Baqokelela ubuncinane izizukulwana ezintathu zentsapho kwaye banandipha ukuzonwabisa kumsebenzi wokutyela okanye kwindlu yomntu.
Amadoda aseFrentshi abathanda ngokunyanisekileyo abafazi. Bayibukeka ubuhle babo, banakekele, bavule iingcango ezibanzi, banike i-manto ngenzondelelo, okanye bazise umbane. Abayithandi into enye - ukuhlawula. I-Skopidomstvo - umgangatho wesizwe, kwaye ithemba lokuba nobubele bobuFrentshi buyinyumba.
Ngokumalunga nobuFrentshi, akuyiyo into abayifumayo. Ubulili ngabo bobugcisa obukhethekileyo-intandokazi. Kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, ukukrexeza kuqwalaselwa eFransi ... into engcolileyo. Ngoku, ngexesha lehlabathi, imeko yatshintshile. Kodwa ijuba lokuthembeka kwiParis lifanele lingalindelwe. Uthando kunye nobuchule - ngaphezu kwazo zonke! Kuyathakazelisa ukuba ngesiFrentshi akukho ntetho engcolileyo okanye isiqalekiso ehambelana noluntu lwesimo. Eyona nto ihlukile kwihlobo lwayo.
Intsapho yaseScandinavia
Amadoda aseScandinavia athandwa kakhulu. Ubude, obunamandla, obunemisonto kunye ne-blue-eyed, abagcinanga kuphela i-genotype yamaqhawe abanesibindi, kodwa banothando lwabahedeni, uthando nothando kwabo bafanele ukukhuselwa - kubafazi babo, abantwana, iintsapho, abahlobo.
AmaSweden, amaDani namaNorwegi anyanisekileyo. Kwaye, njengawo nawuphi na umntu onyanisekileyo, bathanda amaqela anomsindo, iinkampani ezivuya kunye nemihlangano edibeneyo kunye namakhandlela kunye neengxoxo ezide malunga nenjongo yobomi. Kakade ke, iimbuthano zihamba kunye neglasi (kwaye ayikho enye) yewayini okanye iglasi yezinye izidakamizwa zaseDenmark vodka - izithambiso ezinamandla kwiingca zengca. Ngaphambi kokuba uphuze elinye iglasi, kufuneka ... ucule ingoma! Ukuba i-toast yomculo ezayo izandi izandi kakhulu kwaye ziphefumula ngaphezu kokudlulileyo, ngoko umthendeleko ubutha ukukhula. Kubonakala ngathi umfanekiso uyaqhelana, kodwa umfazi waseRussia uya kumangaliswa kwindlela iqela liphela ngayo: nokuba "ukuhlambalaza" iSwede okanye iDane, ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kunye neendwendwe, kuza kukhitshini ... uhlambe izitya. Yiloo nto uhlobo lwakhe olukhulu "abahlobo baseRussia" aluyikulahlekelwa yintlanzi yile viking, uyasusa etafileni, atyike ngokucophelela ukutya okuseleyo kwifilimu aze ayifake ngokucophelela efrijini. Kuba oku akusona isono sokutshata ...
Abantu baseSweden, baseNorway naseDanes ekhitshini abanamandla nje ekucoceni. Uninzi lwabantu baseScandinavia lulungiselela kwaye luthande lo msebenzi. Ngaphezu koko, bacinga ukuba yinto ehloniphekileyo yokuqonda kuphela iintlobo zewayini zewayini okanye i-brandy, kodwa kunye neengxaki zokupheka.
Nangona kunjalo, abantu baseSweden banomzwelo kunye neengqondo. Bathandekayo abanomdla. Ulwalamano olusondeleyo lomtshato kubo alubalulekanga kunobusondelelo bokomoya okanye uluntu lweembono. UThixo abe nabo, ngokubukeka! Ekugqibeleni, wonke umntu ukhululekile ukuba abe nembono, kwibhedi lomtshato akufanele lipholise! Kwaye ukuba umfazi usenokuba "intloko" ngokuphindaphindiweyo, indoda enomdla iya kucinga indlela yokukhupha intanda. Ngokomzekelo, ekunikezeni iveki e-Cote d'Azur, uhambo oluthambileyo lweNice okanye iinqanawa zokuhamba ngeenqanawa ukuya kwinqununu yommandla oselumelwane.
Kwaye nokuba iSweden ithathwa njengesisu saseYurophu sothando lwamahhala, "abazithandayo abakhululekile" ngokwabo banomona nomntu onomsindo, kwaye abaxoleli abathengisi. Intsapho yaseSweden isakhiwo sokwakha indlu. Makhe umfazi akanalo inkululeko enkulu, kodwa umyeni ubonisa uxanduva olungapheliyo, ukukhusela nokukhusela isidleke sakhe. Izithethe zentsapho kunye nelizwe zigcinwe ngokugqithiseleyo, kodwa inkokhelo ethembekileyo neyomeleleyo ifumana kumyeni wayo unobunzima obungapheliyo: ukunyamekela, ukunyaniseka nezipho ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Owonwabileyo nabangenangqiqo kwabasemntla baseNorway . Nangona amanani athi ipesenti yokuzibulala eNorway yiyona ephezulu eYurophu ngenxa yokungabi nelanga kwelanga, isizathu sokuba, ngabahlali bendawo, balala kwelinye. Enyanisweni, amadoda aseNorway ayilungelelaniswe kakuhle. Umnqweno wabo wokungafumaneki unamandla kangangokuthi iingxaki eziqhelekileyo zemihla ngemihla ziyawaphula. IsiNorway ihoxisa kuye, ishintshe umfazi wayo, intsapho yayo, iqala ukuthatha iipilisi ekudandathekeni ... kwaye ukuba konke oku kusebenzayo, kuyomeleza izibalo ezibuhlungu.
Into efana neJamani. Bobabini abagcini nje kuphela ukuthanda ubhiya kunye noqoqosho, kodwa banokuxabisa ixabiso leentsapho ... kakhulu kangangokuthi bavame ukuphela phantsi kwesithende somfazi. Kanye kunye nabatshatileyo, baya kuphucula ngokungapheli indlu yabo, ingadini kunye negadi, benze i-design yangaphakathi, baxhome imifanekiso uze ukhethe amakhethini kwiitoni zeehlalo. Kodwa ukuthetha ukuba indoda enjalo inyanisekileyo "kwizinto ezithandwayo" iya kuba yinto yokunyaniseka. Kwizibonda zomthonyama uzinelisekile kwaye uhlaziye, ucelile kwaye unobulunga, ubale imali kwaye uzama ukuvula ukukhanya kwakhona kwakhona, kodwa, xa esindile "kwisihlamba esithambileyo", uyahamba. Iibhotile, iivenkile, ii-casino - yonke into eluhlu olukunceda ukulibala malunga nosapho olusinyanga ebusuku.
Inkululeko, i-Dane yabuyela ngokukhawuleza kwisimo sayo saseScandinavia-idlulisela imali ekunene kunye nekhohlo, iqhutywe kwiingalo zamanye amaqabane atywalayo, ihamba kunye nabafazi ... kwaye xa ebuyela ekhaya, ubeka i-slippers kunye "nekhumba lemvu" ye-Herr egcinwe kunye neyinyanisekileyo. Ubundlobongela njengokucinywa komnqweno unomdla kuye ... kuphela kwicala, kuba abafazi baseDenmark bayathandana nothando lwabo ngamaProthestani - kuba "kubasebenzi" egameni lokuzala.
EMpuma
Wonke umntu wase-Arabhu, nangona uhlaya imini nobusuku i-kebabs kwisitrato sesitalato, emphefumlweni uvakalelwa njengekhulu le-sheikh. Kwaye ukunyamekela "idayimane yamehlo akhe" uya kuba sebukhosini. Intombazana engenangqondo inokuva izinto ezininzi ezithakazelisayo ngeentsapho ezicebileyo kunye neefom kunye nezityalo emhlabeni jikelele okanye amabali amnandi malunga neenqwelo zeoli kunye neentaba zegolide. Ngokudibanisa kunye nokukhanya okubonakalayo kwamehlo omdaka obomvu, konke kuza kuvakala kakhulu. Ekuqaleni. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza kuyacaca ukuba umalume wakhe, umgidi-mali, ungumthengisi wezimvu okanye umnikazi we-kiosk nge-shawarma kwisitalato esiseduze.
AmaArabhu azinqabileyo ebhedeni, nangona atshisa ngomlilo wezimvo zabo, engakwazi ukugcina intshutshiso yexesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, ubomi obusondo bobulili bukhuthazwa yiKoran, kunye nabantwana, ngobuninzi ... leyo intloko yentsapho iyakwazi ukuyondla.
Kodwa amaArabhu abheka abantwana njengempahla yabo, kwaye oomama abanalo lungelo kubo. Ngenxa yoko, abafazi be-"sheikhs" baseYurophu nabaseRussia bavame ukugwetyelwa ngenxa yabantwana abaneminyaka engama-ndoda baze bafune ukuvakalisa uphando: akuqhelekanga ukuba oobawo babathabathe baze bawathathe kwilizwe labo eliphambili.
American Dream
Enyanisweni, amaMerika atsha abafunekayo ukuba baninzi kakhulu. Ukunqoba kuyisiseko seengqondo zeMerika. Oku akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu, kodwa into ephambili. Ngako oko, umgca wobuchule bomntu waseMelika unesivakalelo sokungakhuseki. Uthoko lwangaphandle lufihla uxhalaba, kwaye kukho konke okusoloko kunokukhathazeka ngabantu baseMerika malunga. Emva koko, bafuna ukufumana ubomi obuninzi. Kwaye kwangoko. Kodwa bona bayesaba le mi nqweno.
Banoyika ama yuppies amhlophe-aphezu kwihlabathi lonke: baya kulahlekelwa yimisebenzi yabo, badilize umatshini okanye ubuthi bezilwanyana zaselwandle. Ukuba intombi iyakucasulwa ngesicelo sokwamkela i-pose kude nesithunywa sevangeli, kwaye unobhala uzakubeka uxanduva lokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini (ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo) ukumomotheka, okuncinane kunomsebenzi kunokoko. Ukuthi umfazi wazithethelela abantwana, kwaye umhlobo wabakhuphaza kwiinkantolo ngokukhawuleza ukuziphatha. Ngako oko, i-American "iya kulinganisa iphindwe ezilikhulu" ngaphambi kokuzivumela into encinci, kunye namawaka amawaka ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo ngothando lokuzonwabisa. Le nto ichaza indlela yokuphila kwentsapho. Ukuchaneka, ukuchaneka kwakhona kwakhona ngokuchanekileyo. Yonke into ifanele ibe "njengabantu": ukuhamba kwentsasa, umsebenzi ozinzile, i-picnic yeCawa kwintshontsho kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, i-baseball. Konke oku kuqinisekisiwe ngothutho oluziswa kwi-automatism.
Umfazi weMerika ngexesha elifanayo uphawu lokunqoba kunye neengozi yokutshatyalaliswa. Ngenxa yoko, amaMelika azama ukuba ngamadoda okulinda kunye nootata abanonophelo. Yaye yintoni enye into efunekayo ukuze uphile ubomi obusapho?
Ukuphupha ukuya ngaphandle kwiindawo zokuhlala unomphela, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba "kuhle apho apho singekho." Yiyo yonke into intombazana kufuneka icinge ngayo phambi kokutshata nomfokazi okanye umfazi waseRashiya phesheya uya kuba ngakumbi, kwaye ulonwabo luya kubakhohlisa.