Inkolelo yamandulo yamaGrike ithi unkulunkulukazi wemfazwe ehleliweyo, icebo nobulumko u-Athenabyl wazalelwa nguyise uZeus, kwaye waphuma ngendlela engavamile-ephuma entloko. Abadala baphinde baqaphela ukuba uyise ozayo wayeza kuba "ukhulelwe" entloko. Ukuba, ngokwenene, ukuqonda, indoda isoloko ixhatshazwa ngumbono wokuba kungekudala uza kuba nguyise, kodwa abafazi, ngokuqhelekileyo, banqabile ukuyijonga.
Umthwalo wengqondo okhupha ibhinqa ngexesha lokukhulelwa lukhulu kangangokuba indoda intuitively ithatha inxalenye yamava akhe ukuze ikwazi ukugxila ngokupheleleyo kwiinkqubo zomzimba. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, amadoda aziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kunjalo, kodwa sinokwazi ukubona iintlobo ezininzi zokuziphatha ezihambelana ngqo neemeko zabo "ezikhulelweyo".
I-Psychotype yamadoda "ukukhulelwa" - iHermit
"UHermit" uzama ukungaziboni ukukhulelwa komfazi wakhe, uya emsebenzini kunye nentloko yakhe, i-adoma kunye nokuzonwabisa ichitha ixesha kunye neTV okanye icomputer. Kwintsapho yakhe, kwakuyinto yesiko ukukholelwa ukuba ukukhulelwa kukukhutshwa. Uyayiphendula njani bhetele kule mpawu? Ndikhumbuze ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba "ukubhala" oshiye emva kwakhe kwaye umntwana, ngaphandle kokuzalwa, sele ebonakalisa iimpawu zikayise.
I-Psychotype yamadoda "ukukhulelwa" - iKlusha
"U-Klusha" uyakhathalela kakhulu umfazi wakhe, uzama ukumkhusela ngisho nakwiziganeko ezincedo ekuphuhliseni umntwana. Ekuqaleni, umfazi onjalo uyayithanda le nkathalo, kodwa ke uqala ukucaphukisa. Ekupheleni kokukhulelwa, ukuxhalaba komyeni wakhe kwanda kangangokuba kunokukhokelela kwisifo. Umfazi kufuneka abe yingcali yeengqondo, kwaye uchazele ngomonde kwaye ngokulula umyeni wakhe ukuba ukukhulelwa kuyimeko yesiqhelo yesiqhelo, kwaye uqaphele kwisimo sakhe.
I-Psychotype yamadoda "ukukhulelwa" - iGulyaka
"Gulyak" ufuna ukuhamba kancane, mhlawumbi uyasela kwaye akabonakali ekhaya. Uloyiko lokuba "ngaphandle kwesihloko", abe yinto engakwazi. Uloyiko lokuba akakwazi ukujamelana nendima kayise, uyamqhubela ekhaya ukuya kubantu abahlobo abasondeleyo.Ufanele ube nesineke, ngale ndlela umyeni "uyakuthwala" ukukhulelwa kwakho. Isiqubulo esithi: "Qaphela, kuthetha ukuthini -zixhobo" -kufanelekile kule meko njengoko unako.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi i-psychotype "yokukhulelwa" yindoda yakho, kukho indlela yendalo yonke-ukuyiqeqesha, ukuyilungiselela indima kayise. Amadoda ayilondoloze ngokwemvelo, ngoko indoda ayivumelani ngokukhawuleza ukuba ithathe inxaxheba nawe kwinkqubo yokufunda ngaphambi kokubeleka. Xoxa ngezifundo ezimnandi kwaye ezinomdla, ngoko ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi, bacele ukuba babambe kwaye bangalindelanga kwikorori, kodwa eklasini apho iiklasi ziya khona.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zibiza le meko yomntu "isifo sengqondo". Ixesha elizayo lepapa lingatshintshisa inani lamahomoni wesilisa - ngokuphindaphindiweyo abasindileyo besilisa. Wena, njengomgcini weentloko, kufuneka ukhumbule eli ngonaphakade. Kule ndlela kuphela uya kukwazi ukugcina ulwalamano oluthembayo kunye nomyeni wakho uze umazi kangcono.
Jabule!