Uthandane nomntu: imithetho yegolide
Khangela amehlo
Amadoda athande amehlo, ukuze atyelele ingqalelo kubafana - kufuneka ujonge i-100%. Kwakungekho malunga nokuguqulwa kwekhadi lomfanekiso, iibhola eziqhakaziweyo okanye ukugquma ngebilini elivulekileyo-oku kubonakala kunokwenzeka ukuhlaziya kunokutsala. Gqoka iimpahla ezintle, ezikhululekile kunye nezindlela eziphathekayo, apho uziva unesiqinisekiso. Yiba necocekile: i-rouge kwiamahlathini, iinwele ezikhanyayo, imimoya emihle-izcukacha eziza kukukwenza amaxesha amancinci ngakumbi, kwaye ngoko ke, unqwenelekayo. Yenza ukuba uyanconywa. Kule meko, indoda yakho iya kuba nekratshi ukuba eceleni kwayo, ubuhle obunjalo kwaye uvakalelwa nje njengomnqoli.
Smile kwaye ubonise isimo sengqondo esihle
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ubuchule bendoda kukusingatha iingxaki zabasetyhini, kuba uyokhuseleko lwakho kunye nenkxaso. Kodwa unokuyithatha kuphela emagxeni akhe ukuba ulwalamano olude. Okwangoku, kubalulekile ukubonisa ithemba kunye nokungakhathali! Kulula kubantu abathokozelayo kulula kwaye ukhululekile ukuba. Ukuba unengxaki - mphatha ngokuhlekisa, le mgangatho iza kukunceda kwikamva.
Into ephambili akuyikuyidlula! Amantombazana ahlala ehleka, abangela abantu ukuba bacaphuke, kuba kunye nabo akunakwenzeka ukuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo. Fumana ibhalansi: bonisa umntu ohlala kuluntu lwakhe ukuba akayikuvuyela nje kuphela, nguye okhanyisela ukukhanya okubangela ukukrukra ebusweni bakho! Uhleka ebusweni bakho - qiniseka ukuba uyamomotheka, nokuba i-anecdote ayimangalisi okanye sele uvile ngezinye izikhathi.
Bonisa u bubele
Ibhinqa limele libukele ulwimi lwakhe kunye nendlela yokunxibelelana nabanye abantu. Inyaniso yokuba ungenangqondo kumncedisi okanye ngokuzithemba uxelele iphini lakhe ukuba unobuncwane akayi kudibanisa amehlo kwindoda ethandekayo. Iimpawu ezinjengobugwenxa, ukuzingca kunye nokunyaniseka, musa ukuhamba nale ntombazana. Le ndlela yokuziphatha, ngaphezu koko, inokuyichukumisa umntu kwingcamango yokuba isimo sengqondo kwixesha elizayo simlindele, naye, kwaye yonke into enokuthi uyenze ngayo. Ayikho imbono enhle kakhulu, akunjalo? Ngoko ke, intombazana kufuneka ilawule iimvakalelo zayo kwaye igcine ingqumbo kunye nentlungu. Emva komsebenzi okhuni, phuma kwi-stread pillow, ubukele uchungechunge lwakho oluthandayo lweTV okanye uhambe kunye nabahlobo kwiimvakalelo eziphazamisayo ziza kuhamba, uya kubona!
Yiba nomdla kumntu oyithandayo
Iingxoxo ezinobungane ezintle malunga nantoni na - kunjalo, zilungile, kodwa loo mfana waqala ukukuthemba - uthetha naye kwiingxoxo ezibukhali. Hayi, kungekhona malunga nemarike yempahla kunye nokuthengiselana; ukubuza malunga nezinto ezithandwayo, uthande umdla kwiimbali ezithile, ngegama, bonisa ukuba umbono wakhe uthetha into kuwe. Abantu bathandana ngokukodwa nabasetyhini abakholelwa kubo. Akunakunzima ukuba umfazi anike naluphi na icebiso-sonke siyazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha abantu baphatha njani - baphulaphule, bajabule, mxelele ukuba yonke into iya kumsebenzela. Ukuba ukwenza okulungileyo, le ndoda iya kudlalana nawe ngokukhawuleza.
Bonisa uvelwano lwakho
Nangona zizinto ezininzi, abafana abayiboni kakhulu uthando lwabesetyhini kwaye phantse baqaphele imiqondiso ebhekiswe kubo. Enye into nokuba bafuna ukuphendula kubo. Kodwa ukuba wena kunye nomntu uphumelele ngokuphumelelayo kwimithetho emine edlulileyo, ngoko akakukhathaleli. Ixesha lokubonisa ukuba ungumntu okhethekileyo kuwe. Abasetyhini basebenzisa, njengomthetho, ukubonakalisa ubuso kunye nobuchule bokuthetha. Ukumamatheka, ukuncoma, ukuncomeka imibala (iindawo ezahlukileyo kuphela!) Ngaba uya kucinga kumntu malunga nento oyithandabuza ukuyithetha. Chukumisa, unciphise umgama, into eyintloko, yenze kancane kancane!
Mangaliswa ngumntu
Inyaniso ekhohlakeleyo ukuba kukho imfihlelo entombazana kukuba usebenza kunye namadoda. Musa ukuba yincwadi evulekileyo, shiya indawo yokufihla imfihlelo kunye nexhala. Ukwenza karate? Ewe, musa ukumemeza ngento yokuqala kwintlanganiso yokuqala, kungcono ukuphula izandla emva komva wakhe (kuphela chur ngaphandle kokulimala!) Ngomnye umphikisana. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumangaliswa ngokukhawuleza kwaye abuze: Ufunde phi le ndawo? Okanye mhlawumbi udibanise amathoyizi athobileyo kubantwana? Nasi, isipho esihle kakhulu sokuba unkulunkulu womntu wakho okanye umntwana womhlobo wakhe omhle!
Yifumaneki
Kwaye akufuneki ukuba uqhube amehlo akho emva kokuba ufunde ibinzana elingentla: ukubetha intamo ayikho inketho. Ezi ntombi zikhawuleza zikhuni. Musa ukulibala malunga nomoya wokuzingela, oqulunqwe ngamandla kubantu. Ngoko, yiba lixhoba lekhulu! Mkhuthaze, kodwa ungayeki yonke into. Khumbula ukuba sele ufune indawo, ngoku ngoku
Nangona kunjalo, oku akuwona onke amacandelo amabhinqa ngendlela yokuwa nomntu. Abafundi abathandekayo, babelane ngezimvo zakho kwiimvo :)