Ukuba sisebenzisa isilinganisi seshumi, ubuphakame kangakanani wena? Ndifuna nje ukubancoma bonke abo ngaphandle kokungabaza baya kunika zonke iingongoma ezilishumi. Kodwa kubo bonke abantu kukho intetho enzulu kakhulu.
Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kukuba yingxaki enkulu yengqondo. Iyakwazi ukuphazamisa ingxaki nje kuphela, kodwa ubomi buphela. Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kususa konke okuvela kuthi: inhlanhla, impumelelo, ukunqoba, uthando, ulonwabo. Indoda ayisoze yaba yintsikelelo aze yena ngokwakhe akholelwe ukuba kukho ubuchule namandla kuye. Kufuneka uzixabise. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ndikuxelele, kufuneka ube ne-self-esteem. Ngoko, namhlanje ndiya kutyhila zonke iimfihlelo zokuzithemba ukuba umntu wanamhlanje ufuna njengomoya.
Isimo sokungaphumeleli
Iingxaki? Yiloo nto esiyicinga ngayo. Impumelelo yangempela ikhula kwiimpazamo zethu. Ngoko ke, ukuhluleka kuyinxalenye yempumelelo. La akukhona nje amagama amakhulu. Enyanisweni, abantu abaphumelelayo benza iimpazamo ngokuqhelekileyo kunabantu abaqhelekileyo. Ndikholelwe, akukho ziingxaki ezingenako ukulungiswa. Ibonakalisa ubuso, obubonisa i-alamu enye, kodwa akukho mntu wayithandayo. Musa ukubuyela emva kokungaphumeleli kokuqala. Usadinga ukuthatha ingozi. Khumbula ubuncinci uTomas Edison. Ufumene iindlela eziliwaka xa i-bulb isebenza kwaye enye kuphela xa iya kusebenza. Abantu abangazange benze iimpazamo abanalo mpu melelo, ngoko musa ukuzithethelela ngokwenza iimpazamo.
Ukuzihlola nokuzivocavoca umzimba
Iingcali zengqondo zifumanisa ukuba emva kokuqala kokuzibandakanya kwimfundo yenyama nempilo, siqala ukuziva ngathi sibukeka ngcono, oko kukuthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba iziphumo zangempela, ukuzivocavoca umzimba okanye ukuzivocavoca ngokwabo zikhokelela ekubeni siphucula. Yiyiphi impilo enika impilo yethu yengqondo ibaluleke ngaphezu kokuzivocavoca ngokwabo. Ndiyathetha ukuba awudingi ukubeka phambi kweenjongo eziphambili zezemidlalo okanye ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca ukulahla iikhilogram ezingama-20 kwaye kungabi ngaphantsi. Vele ugqoke, kwaye uya kuziva ungcono. Yaye ifom ebonakalayo iya kutshintsha ngexesha kwaye kungekuphela nje uqala ukucinga ngawe ngokubhetele, kodwa kunye nabajikelezileyo, ngoko imilenze isezandleni zakho, okanye kunokuba izitya kwaye uye kwi-gym.
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Ukuzenzekela ngokuzenzekelayo akulula nje ngokuba ucinga, kodwa ndicinga ukuba emva kokuzivocavoca uza kuba lula. Ngoko, ngokuqhelekileyo uzijonga ngokwakho kwisibuko, kodwa ungagxininisi kwezo zinto ongazithandi kuwe. Nika ingqwalasela kuphela kwiimpawu ezintle kwaye ungesabi ukuzenza iziphakamiso ezinzima - kwisibuko. Kodwa kungekhona nje ukubonakala kwakho, oko ufumana kwi-gym, kodwa nangaphakathi.
Isimo sokugxeka
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ulungile okanye ungumntu ombi, kuya kuhlala kukho umntu ongeke anelisekile nawe. Njengomthetho, basisigxina ngenxa yezinto abangazange bazenze, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwinto esiyenzayo. Kuba xa siphula phambili, abantu abaninzi basemva kwethu kwaye wonke umntu uzama ukushiya amagama. Ukugxeka akusoloko kubonakalisa ukuba wenza into engalunganga, impela.
Ukuthelekisa nabanye
Le sinesono sabo bonke, ngelanga. Kodwa impazamo enkulu kakhulu ebonisa ukuba siyaqhathanisa ukungaphumeleli kwethu nabanye abantu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, iingubo zethu zingaphantsi kwee-nos, kwaye abanye abaze basitsho ngokuzithandela malunga neendawo zabo zomnyama zomphefumlo. Ngoko kubonakala ngathi ngathi sibi kakhulu. Yeka ukudukisa kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ubandezeleka, kodwa yenza oko uthandayo. Into eyintandokazi, kunye nemidlalo isebenza ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza iphakamisa ukuzithemba. Emva koko, zonke izifo ezibuhlungu.