Kungekudala, abantu baye batshintsha kakhulu. Utshintshile ngokoqobo kuyo yonke into. Saqala ukucinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo, siziva sizihluke, siqonde ukuba ihlabathi elisijikelezayo nathi, liye lahluke kakhulu. Kwaye saqala ukuphatha ngokuhlukileyo.
Umfazi wekhulu lama-21 waba namandla kunokwakheka komntu. Kwiminyaka emibini edluleyo, saqala ukuqaphela ukuba abafazi baqhubeka besenza isinyathelo sokuqala kwintlanganiso yamadoda. Thina, amantombazana, sisoloko sithatha inyathelo kule nkqubo okanye kulo mbandela. Khawukhumbule, uninzi lwawo unemiba enjalo xa wena uvuma isigqibo esithile, kwaye ucela umnqweno wakho malunga noko afuna ukukuphakamisa (oko kukuthi, njengokuthobela intando yendoda, ushiye ilungelo lokukhetha), bayasiphendula ntoni? Ngokuqhelekileyo impendulo izandile kanje: "Intandokazi, njengoko uya kuthi, iya kuba." Kwaye phantse yonke into. Emva koko bayakhalaza ngabathandana, ukuba bathi, intombazana andivumeli ukuba ndihambe kunye nabasimili kwi-bar ukuhlala. Ina, wakhe umfazi uqinileyo, unquma yonke into kuye, njl. kunye nezinye. Madoda, othandekayo, wena ngokwakho ubeka isohlwayo kuyo yonke le nto, wena ngokwakho unike lona umfazi ilungelo lokukhetha, ukhetha, kwaye uyakuthanda ukhetho lwakhe. Ukongeza, unika isinyathelo esongezelelekileyo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kwaye sele ungakhange uqaphele, uyadlula isiqingatha sakho, ngoko kuthetha, iimbombo zikaRhulumente. Kwaye nabasetyhini, bathatha yonke imithwalo yemfanelo, ngokuqinisekileyo, baba namandla kwaye banqikaza benze naziphi na izigqibo ezimbini. Ngoko ke, abafazi banokugqiba ekubeni banokulawula umntu, kodwa kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba loo mntu ngokwakhe unika ilungelo lokulawula phezu kwakhe ... kwaye ngokuzithandela. Ngaloo ndlela, kuvela ukuba ihlabathi liguqukile! Amadoda aqala ukudlala indima yabasetyhini, kunye nabasetyhini-indima yamadoda.
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, amantombazana amaninzi, abavaleleke ekusebenzisaneni namadoda, okwexeshana okanye okwethutyana, baqala ukuqaphela ukuba amadoda ayeka ukuthatha amanyathelo abo okuqala kunye nezenzo zesintu zephambili. Baqala ukunyamekela, okuqhelekileyo kuba ngabafazi. Yaba yinto ethe tye ngakumbi kuzo zonke iintlobo zeentlekele, eziphinde zenzeke nakwabaseTyhini. Amadoda athile ayenayo (kunye neyesifazana), ukuba acinge ngxaki, ngokwabo, aze atyala isiqingatha sabo sesibini. Amadoda anjalo eluthulini nasemlothweni aphulaphula iingxelo zabo ezilawula umhlaba. Madoda, cinga, ngubani na olawulayo?
Oku kwenzeka ntoni na?
Ewe, asiyi kuxabana, kungekhona bonke abantu abanjalo, kodwa kukho ezininzi ezinjalo. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, amadoda amaninzi abuthathaka aqale ukubeka phantsi kwe "intendelezo yesifazane". Aba bantu ababuthathaka, ngokusemgangathweni, bathandwa kwabasetyhini abanokwaneleyo kwaye kungekhona nje ukuba banamandla, kodwa kubomama abanobunzima. Wonke umntu kufuneka awazi umfanekiso xa umfazi kwakhona eyala umyeni, kwaye umyeni othobelayo ulandele ngokukhawuleza izikhokelo. Mhlawumbi oku kungumyalelo wezinto kwaye ulungiselela zombini, kodwa uya kuvuma, umfanekiso oqhelekileyo uphazamisekile.
Kukho amadoda anjalo afuna umfazi ongumama. Kwaye kukho amabhinqa anelisekile ngumyeni oziphatha njengomntwana. Uyazipheka, uyicima, uyisuse, uhlala ngokuthula, ubukele iTV, ufunde iphephandaba, ekwazi ukuba yonke into iya kwenziwa ngu "Mama".
Abafazi, kunjalo, bahluke. Ngowesifazane kuphela, xa eqonda ukuba unokuyicombulula ininzi yemibuzo ebini, ngamnye uziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Abaninzi nje abazi ukuba benzini ngamandla anjalo. Qalisa ukusho oko ngoburhavu obushushu, kwinto yokuba wonke umntu unokugqiba isigqibo, kwaye ke, ukuzithemba kuphakama. Abafazi abanjalo bacinga ukuba akukho nto eyenzekayo ngaphandle kwabo, kuba kuphela kuphela abagqibayo, yintoni kwaye kuya kwenzeka njani. Kukho na mabhinqa enza ngobulumko, abuye agijime umntu, kwaye enze izigqibo ezimbini. Kodwa bakwenza oko, bamphoqa umntu ukuba acinge ukuba yena ngokwakhe ufikile kule nto okanye eso sigqibo. Ifunyenwe njengefilosofi yamaGrike: "intloko yendoda, intamo yentombi, apho intamo ijika khona, apho kunye nentloko ibonakala." Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho uhlobo oluthile lwesifo, abafana. Ihlabathi lijike phezulu. Masibuyele yonke into kwimijikelezo.
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Ukuze ugweme naziphi na iimeko ezilukhuni kunye neenguqu ezitshitshisayo, kufuneka uhlale sisiphi na.
Abasetyhini - bahlale besifazana, bahlaziye, bavuthayo. Ungalokothi uphakamise ilizwi lakho-liyayiphendula. Musa ukuthatha uxanduva lobudlelwane nabanyulwa. Thina, abafazi banamandla kakhulu, kodwa ukwenzela ukuba uthando lwethu lube lukhulu, ngamanye amaxesha omnye kufuneka enze ngathi ubuthathaka. Ndiyavuma, ukhathala ngokwenene ukwenza izigqibo rhoqo nokulungisa iingxaki ezithile. Ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukuphumla kwaye uzive njengowesifazane. Musa ukucinga ngantoni na kwaye ungagqiba nantoni na.
Madoda, hlalani madoda. Yiba nesibindi, wenze izenzo zakho zamadoda, kuba thina, besifazane, siswele kakhulu. Senze izigqibo ngathi. Gqoka abafazi, bathande kwaye nibabakhusele. Thatha amanyathelo okuqala kuthi kuthi, nangona ukwesaba, yenza njalo. Ndikholelwe, siyayixabisa.