Akunakwenzeka ukulahlekelwa ukuzithiba emehlweni abanye. Ukuthukuthela kubi ngaphezu kokugcoba. Ukucaphukisa, ubonisa wonke umntu ukuba awukwazi ukunqoba imeko enzima, akwazi ukuba kuthatha izinto ezandleni zabo kwaye uphucule imeko. Kodwa kufuneka uhlalise, ubale ukuya kwi-10, kwaye uvavanye ingxaki. Musa ukulindela kwihlabathi lobulungisa. Ubomi bethu bubulungisa. Kubalulekile ukufumana indlela yokulawula, ukukhutshwa ngobomi, ukusebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo asiyithandi indlela yokuphila, kwaye emva koko konke kusisiseko sempumelelo yethu.
Indlela yokwenza izinto ezandleni zabo, zithini ezinye iindlela? Kufuneka ukwazi ukunqanda iminqweno yakho. Ngokomzekelo, siyazi ukuba ezininzi ezinomdla ziyingozi kwimpilo yethu kwaye ngoko kufuneka siziphephe kule nto. Konke kwangoko kuyindlela yomntwana. Kwaye kufuneka siqonde ukuba kufuneka sikwazi ukulinda, sicwangcise kwaye, endleleni yokufezekisa injongo, ukuba siziphike into ethile. Ucinga ukuba awukwazi ukulondoloza into ethile. Kodwa kufuneka uzame ukusindisa encinane kumvuzo ngamnye kwaye uya kumangaliswa yiphumo.
Iingcamango zikholelwa ukuba nangaluphi na ukuxabelwa kwexesha elizayo, kunye nesimo esinzima, sithola izipho ezithile ezivela ebomini. Ngoko ke, umntu akanakukuqonda imeko enzima njengentlekele. Ukwesaba kwethu ingxaki kuyaphazamisa ingqondo. Kwaye oku akunikezi uvavanyo olwaneleyo lwimeko. Ngako oko, nasiphi na imeko, into ephambili kukuba ukuzola, ukuphumla, kunye nangomgudu wokuthanda ukucinga into enhle. Kwavela-kakuhle, kwaye emva koko sigqiba isigqibo ngokwemiqathango.
Iyokuqala kukuqinisekisa ukuba yintoni intsingiselo yenkinga.
Okwesibini kukuqonda izizathu kunye noko kufuneka uyenze ukuze ugweme loo ngxaki kwixesha elizayo.
Okwesithathu - cingela umphumo obi kakhulu, yenze ngokukhawuleza. Akunakuba kubi njengoko ucinga ekuqaleni.
Okwesine , zama ukuqonda indlela eya kuvela kuyo imeko enzima.
Isihlanu - cinga, ngaba kunokwenzeka kule meko isisombululo esingaqhelekanga kunye noko kuya kufuneka kushiywe ukufezekisa le njongo.
Okwesithandathu - yenze isicwangciso soqobo sokuphuma kwinkinga. Kufuneka kubonise ngokucacileyo ukuba zeziphi izixhobo eziya kufunwa, ixesha elingakanani ochithayo kunye noko kufuneka kwenziwe ngokukodwa ukuze unqobe imeko ekhoyo.
Okweshumi - into ebaluleke kakhulu, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba yeyiphi inzuzo enokukhishwa kule ngxaki. Yaye le nto ibaluleke kakhulu.
Enye yezinto eziphambili zempembelelo yakho imeko. Ukuba ungeyantlukwano malunga nobunzima kunye neephoso ezingenakwenzeka ukuba zenzeke kuyo nayiphi na imisebenzi, zonke iinzame zakho ziya kuba zilize. Imvakalelo engebiyo yinto embi nje kwaye kufuneka ufunde indlela yokuyifakela ngayo umkhwa, zibandakanya iimvakalelo ezintle. Oku kungafezwa njani?- Kubalulekile ukuba uphathe ngothando. Khumbula le mvakalelo uze uyibize kwiimeko ezinzima.
- Ubomi buhle. Ukuthanda ubomi bakho.
- Musa ukuba yi-whiner, bahlala bephephelwa yinhlanhla.
- Funda ukuphumla nokuphumula.
- Uhlala uxhalabile. Chaza izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu, ungalwela ukucinga rhoqo kunye naphi na.
- Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye, njengoko ucinga ukuba uphumelele ngakumbi. Kwakhona baneengxaki, kodwa bazisombulula.
- Kwimeko nganye, ufike ekupheleni, udumise.
- Kufuneka ube ngumkhwa wakho wokuzonwabisa njengengxaki yokuphila. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kungekudala ukusilela kwakho kuya kuba yimpumelelo.
- Simele senze njalo, ngoko uloyiko lwengxaki luya kudlula, kwaye ukulawula imeko ayiyi kulahleka. Kungcono ukusebenzisa amandla kumsebenzi, kungekhona kumava akho.
- Ingqondo yakho engacatshulwayo kufuneka ibe nefuthe kwaye isetyenziswe impumelelo.
- Awufanele uphelelwe phantsi phambi kobunzima.
Ndifuna ukuhlala kancinci malunga nendlela yokujamelana neemvakalelo ezingekho phantsi kwimeko enzima, xa kubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka ukuthatha imeko. Zama ukutshintsha ingqalelo kwiingcamango ezinzima kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi. Ewe, ukuba iya kukukhupha umzimba. Kubalulekile ukuthetha, kodwa umntu kufuneka abe nobungane kuwe. Unokuphumla ngokuthetha nesilwanyana sakho. Vuka nje ukubetha ikati.
Indlela enhle kakhulu yokwenza izinto ezandleni zakho ukubeka zonke iingcinga zakho ezinzima kwiphepha uze uzitshise. Uya kwandula uzive ukhululekile kwisitya. Zenzele isipho. Thenga into oyifunayo okanye usichitha usuku ngendlela ofuna ngayo. Unokulala nje ulale. Unokwenza into enhle kubantu abasondele kuwe. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, nakweyiphi na imeko kufuneka ufumane into enhle. Ngelinye igama, thatha umoya ophezulu uze uye ekuphumeni kwinkinga uze ufezekise injongo yakho. Khumbula - konke kusezandleni zakho, kholelwa kuwe kwaye yonke into iya kuvela.
Ekubeni, kwenzeka - umntu uhlala kwiimeko ezinzulu ngexesha elifutshane kunye naphakathi kwabo ngokunqoba. Kwaye kukho abantu abahlala kule meko ebomini, ngenxa yokuba bayayiqonda imeko enzima kwaye ingatshintshi. Abantu abanjalo abazami ukuphuma kuloo meko, kodwa bafune ukunyaniseka. Ukuncintisana akubhekiseli ukuzaliseka kweminqweno yakho kwaye akuvumeli ukuba uphakamise kwizinga elitsha lobomi. Ngoko zama ukuwela umxholo wobomi - imeko enzima. Ngoku uyazi indlela yokuthatha izinto ezandleni zakho kwaye ulungise imeko. Yitshintsha imeko ibe yinto enhle, ekuzalisekeni kweenqweno zakho kunye neminqweno. Ngaloo ndlela, ngokuguqula isimo sengqondo ngobomi, uya kufeza yonke into.