Umhlobo wam enemilenze emine

Umntwana wakho sele ephupha ukwenza umhlobo omncinci? Ngaba ubona amehlo akhe enkqongo yonke imihla? Mhlawumbi lixesha lokuguqulela ngokwenene iphupha lomama wakho elixabisekileyo?

Ngaphambi kokuthenga ipilisi, kuya kufuneka uchithe ixesha elide ulungiselela umntwana wakho ukubonakala ebomini bakhe uxanduva kunye noxanduva olongezelelweyo. Ingxoxo enzulu kunye nomntwana wakho ukuba ungathathi nje ithoyilo, kodwa ilungu elitsha lentsapho, liya kunceda ukuphepha iingxaki xa ikhukhukazi ibonakala. Kuphela emva koko, unako ukuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo kwisitoreji sezilwanyana, intengiso yeentaka okanye ubiza ii-ads.

Okokuqala, kufuneka unqume ukuba ngaba umntwana wakho uyaqiniseka ukuba ufuna ukuba nomhlobo omncinci. Ukuba le nto iyinto nje, ngenxa yokuba izolo omnye wabalingana nabo baqhayisa nge-puppy entsha, uzakufuna amandla amaninzi ukukhupha umntwana ngomnqweno wakhe.

Ngethuba leenyanga, hlaziya indlela umntwana wakho eya kuziphatha ngayo xa inja ivela. Makhe avuke kusasa ekuseni ukuba ahambe kunye nesilwanyana, atye, ahambe kwiikhosi zabafuyi beenja, ufunde iincwadi ezikhethekileyo, kanye kanye ngeveki, uhlambulule yonke i-scrap kwiboya.

Emva kweemvavanyo ezinzima, umntwana wakho unyanisekile umnqweno wakhe? Ngoko yonke into ibaluleke kakhulu, siqhubela phambili kwisigaba esilandelayo. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhangele ukuba nawuphi na osapho lwakho unobungozi obuya kwizinja zezinja. Kungcono ukwenza oku ngaphambili, ngaphambi kokuba intsapho ibe neyintandokazi kwintsapho. Nika ke kuya kuba buhlungu kwaye kuhlambalaza.

Emva kokutshekisha ukungabikho kwemvelo, siyaqhubeka ukukhetha udidi lwenja. Makhe wenze umntwana wakho. Emva koko, nguye omelela ukuba umhlobo wakhe onamaqhina amane kufuneka abe njani. Ukukhula, umbala, umbala kunye neengubo. Thatha inxaxheba ekukhethweni kohlobo, kungenjalo kungabonakala ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhetha umthamo omkhulu ongeke ulungele kwihostela yakho. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuzaliswa kwenja, ukuze idibanise ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwendlu. Funda uhlobo lwesilwanyana esinokuthi ukhululeke kwisigqi sakho. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha kunye neendleko zefowuni, izongezo zokutya.

Ukuthenga inja kunye nomntu oyigugu kuyabiza kakhulu kunepilesi evamile. Chaza kumntwana ukuba oku kuya kufuna umzamo omkhulu kuye ukunyamekela umngane onamagxa amane. Ukuba iindleko zejaji zidlula uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, nikela umntwana wakho ukuba angafuni ukuthenga izinto ezintsha, ukunciphisa iindleko ze-pocket. Kule meko kuphela, unokukwazi ukumthenga isipho esinjalo.

Ufikile kwimbono jikelele ukuba ukhethe uhlanga lwenja. Emva koko, kufuneka uthenge yonke into oyifunayo ilungu losapho elizayo. Ezi zi-leashes, izitya, iibheyi, ibhasikidi ekhethekileyo okanye i-litter, iincwadi ezizodwa, iivithamini kunye nemithi efunekayo. Yiya esitolo kunye nomntwana, makhe athathe inxaxheba ekukhethweni kwezinto eziphathekayo kumhlobo ozayo.

Ukulungiswa kwangaphambili kunye nokulindela kwithengi ephezulu kukuba wena nomntwana wakho ngexesha elihle kakhulu.

Ekugqibeleni, zonke izinto zithengwa, indlu leyo yabelwe indawo yelungu leentsapho elizayo, iqokele imali yokuthenga inja, ixesha lokuba uye kwivenkile okanye kwimarike yentaka. Kufuneka ukuba ukhethe indawo yeputi ngaphambili. Ukuba iyimakethi yentaka, isikhangiso kwiphephandaba okanye kwi-Intanethi, unokufumana inja egulayo ngeziphene zokuzalwa. Yintoni eya kubandakanya ukusetyenziswa kwezinto ezongezelelweyo kunye namava angamnandi.

Ukuthengwa kwabalimi beenja, kwiiklasi ezikhethekileyo zeenja, kunika isiqinisekiso esikhulu sokuthenga i-puppy enempilo kunye nomntwana. Njengomthetho, le ndlela yokuthenga iya kubiza ngaphezulu. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuba uya kuba nomhlobo oyinyaniso kunye nentando yentsapho.

Ekuqaleni, kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kunceda umntwana ukuba ahlangabezane neemfanelo zakhe ezintsha zokunyamekela isilwanyana esincinane. Emva kwakho konke, nangona konke ukulungele, umntwana wakho akakwazi ukuhlangabezana nomthwalo. Inja iya kuba ngumhlobo wakho omhle kumhlobo, iya kumnika kunye nawe uvuyo olukhulu.