Iimigodi kunye ne-pluses zombini enye, kwaye kwezinye izilwanyana, kuxhomekeke ngqo kwiimeko zabo zokugcina. Ngaphambi kokuba uthenge isilwanyana kufuneka ucinge malunga nesiphi isilwanyana esiya kuhambelana neemeko zakho zokuphila, inja okanye ikati? Ukukhetha okulungileyo kuya kukunceda uhlobise ubomi bakho ngexesha elivuyayo, kwaye kukunika iimvakalelo ezintle.
Inja
Xoxa ngento engcono kunekati okanye inja, sagqiba ekubeni siqale ngenkcazo ye-pluses yenja. Inja isilumko, inamathele kumnini, inokukwazi ukufeza izabelo ezincinane - umzekelo, gcina indlu okanye indlu, ngenisa into. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuthetha kunye neenja kuphucula impilo: banokusebenza njengesikhokelo, kakhulu bachaphazela abantwana bezigulane nge-Down's syndrome, ukuba kukho inja kuyabaluleka kubantu abaneentsholongwane zentliziyo. ... Nokwenza i-promenade nenja, uphefumlela umoya omtsha, ochaphazela impilo yakho ngokukhuselekileyo.
Umxhasi
Inja idinga ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Ukuba inja inkulu, ke iindleko zalo aziyi kuba yincinci, kuba inja inje idla ngaphantsi komntu. Kwaye kwintsapho enobutyebi obungaphantsi komyinge, le nto ayiyi kusebenza. Inja kufuneka iqeqeshwe onke amaxesha, mhlawumbi iya kuziva ngathi ikosikazi. Kwaye izinto zakho ziya kuhlala ziqhekekile. Umzuzu obaluleke kakhulu: kunye nenja kuyimfuneko ukuhamba rhoqo, ubuncinane kabini ngemini, kwaye ngokuzimela ukuba yintoni imozulu esitratweni: nokuba kukho imvula okanye ilanga likhanya. Yaye ukuba uyagula, kwaye akukho mntu uhambahamba nesilwanyana sakho, kuba yinkinga. Ukongezelela, kufuneka uqaphele ukucoceka kwenkomo yakho kwaye uhlambe rhoqo, kwaye uyinqumle. Kukho, kunjalo, inkonzo enjengehotele yendawo apho uya kuthatha ukuhamba kunye neenkomo zakho, kwaye uqhuba zonke iinkqubo zokucoceka, kodwa le hotele ayithengi nakwiiyo zonke abantu, kwaye akusoloko ikhuselekile ukunika inja apho.
Inja ingcono xa ..
Ufuna ukuba nomhlobo oyinyaniso, umkhuseli othembekileyo wendawo yakho yokuhlala. Ukuba ixesha livumelekile kwaye unokuhamba rhoqo inja yakho, unokuyiqeqesha. Ukuba unayo imali eyaneleyo yokuthenga ukutya kweenja. Ukuba umntu ohlala kwindlu unokuhlala ehamba naye.
Ikati
Iinkonzo
Ininzi yeekati zifana nezidalwa ezintle ezithandekayo ezenza abantu ngendlela ephuculisayo, kunye nokuphakamisa imizwelo, ngokwemininzi, iyayiphilisa, ilele phantsi kwindawo enzima. Abanikazi beekati badla ngokuxinezeleka kaninzi. Kwakhona, iikati kulula kakhulu ukufumana ulawulo xa ufuna ukuhamba ixesha elide.
Iikati zidinga ingqalelo encinane kumnini kunenja, kwaye le nto inkulu kakhulu. Unokushiya ngokukhuselekileyo ikati yedwa yosuku lonke kwaye uya kuhlala efumana into enokuyenza, kwaye ukuba akafumani, uya kulala. Iikati zidla izinja ezimbalwa, kwaye azidingeki ukuba zihambe nazo. Iikati zizimeleyo ngaphezu kwezinja, ziza zihlambe kwaye ziye ngasese.
Umxhasi
Malunga neekati zithi zihamba ngokwazo kwaye akukhona nje loo nto. Abantu banomdla kubo njengabaqhubi beminqweno-oko kukuthi, ukuze banike ukutya nokukhusela. Le kati ithatha ithuba. Ikati inokukhathazeka, kodwa ungaxhomeki ekuzinikeleni kwakhe. Iikati zinzima kakhulu ukuziqonda. Ngokomgaqo, akukho nzuzo kwikati, ngaphandle kwelokuba bayabamba amagundane.
Kulunge nini ukukhetha ikati?
Ukuba kubalulekile ukuba uqale ulayishe kwisicwangciso seengqondo - akukho mntu uzakufaka endaweni kule cwangciso. Ukuba awunaso ixesha elininzi kwaye awukwazi ukunikela ingqalelo ngokufanelekileyo kwilwanyana lakho. Ukuba intsapho yakho ayikho imali yonke into elula njengoko uthanda, ngoko ikati ayiyi kuba yindleko, kwaye ukuba uhlala ushiya kwaye awukwazi ukushiya umhlobo wakho othandekayo yodwa.
Kodwa okokuqala kukufanele ukuxoxisana nekhaya lakho ngaphambi kokuthenga isilwanyana. Okokuqala, ulinganise zonke iingxaki kunye neqhekeza, ikati okanye inja ifanele, uze wenze isigqibo sokugqibela.