Yonke into emntwaneni wakho omncinci - ummangaliso oyithandayo uthinta, udala umnqweno wokukhusela, ukukhusela kuyo nayiphi na intlungu, ukwenza ubomi bakhe buzele kwaye bukhanyise. Kwaye nangona ufumana uxhala kunye nokungaqiniseki, kuba inyaniso iyatshintshwa. Ewe, ngokwenene, konke kwenzeka. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukukhusela ukungaphumeleli kunye nokulahlekelwa ... Okhulile kuba, inkululeko enkulu iya kufuna. Yaye oku akuyi kuthokoza nje kuphela, kodwa ukudideka. Nangona kunjalo, ulonwabo alukho ekungabikho kweengxaki. Unokwenza into ephambili - ukunika umntwana wakho ingqiqo eqinile yokubambisana apha kunye noku, ukumfundisa ukuba ujabulele amava aqaqambileyo anzulu, aqonde kwaye aqonde. Emva koko uza kuthwala olu buchule ngobomi bakhe.
Gxotha ekuthandeni kwakho
Imfuno ebalulekileyo yomntwana omncinci uyimimangaliso eyithandayo ukuba uthandwe ngumama wakhe kunye nosapho, ukuba uzive esondele kangakanani kwizinto ezikuphela kweli hlabathi, ukwazi ukuba uyisipho sengozi kumama noyise. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba oku kuyinyani, okokuqala ufuna ukudibana nomzimba kunye nezihlobo zakhe. Namaxesha onke kunokwenzeka ukuba wamkele intombazana yakho, cinezela kuye. Ngethuba elifanayo, jonga ngqo kwijiso, ukumomotheka uze uthi amagama amnandi. Kweminye imithombo kunokwenzeka ukuba ufunde: ukuba inkunzi ikhulile kwaye iyathemba, kufuneka ixunyiwe kwaye ibhinwe ubuncinane ngamaxesha asibhozo ngosuku.
Kodwa ngaba uthando lwabazali kunye nabantwana luyakwazi ukuthotyelwa kwizibalo ze-arithmetical? Bazali, bonisa ngokunyanisekileyo iimvakalelo zakho! Ootatomkhulu, ootata-dyati, nabo, banqikazi. Vumela ukuvuma kwakho kungabi ngumsebenzi obalwe, kodwa ukubonakalisa ngokukhawuleza, ukubonakalisa ukukhulelwa, inkxaso, ukukhuthazwa. Zama ukukholisa uyise osondeleyo ukuba uthando oluyinyaniso luya kumnika umntwana ithuba lokuzithemba, ukuba ulungile kwaye ulungile. Yilokho eyenza umntwana abe nesibindi, aqine. Ukukhuselwa kothando kunye nokhuseleko oluza kudala kuya kukuvumela ukuba luvule ngokuthula kwihlabathi nakubantu, ukuba banomdla kwinqanaba lezinto ezingaziwayo nezinto ezithandekayo. Kwaye ngenxa yoko uvakalelwa emva kwamaphiko.
Ndibambe ixesha
Ngoku sele ungamnceda umntwana ukuba ahlukanise ixesha lolonwaba aze azixabise. Uyeka kwi trampoline, kwaye ubukela ubuso bakhe obuqhaqhaqhaqhayo, ugxuma ukusuka kwinqanaba elisezantsi echibini ukuya kuwe kwaye ehleka. Kodwa yena, nabegavshis, wakhupha kuwe kwaye uphulaphule ibali le-straw, amalahle kunye nobhontshisi.
Yahlula kwaye uhlale naye ezi ziganeko ezimangalisayo, kumomotheka, kumanga kwi-vertex uze ucinezele umntwana wakho kuye. Thatha ikhefu elifutshane uze uthi: "Hayi indlela esihlangeneyo ngayo! Ndiyolise, uze uphumule ... "Ingane iya kufunda ukuqonda kwaye ixabise le mizuzu yobudlelwane obusondeleyo, ithemba, ubunye. Kwiva mava akhe uya kuziva ukuba ubuhlobo obunjalo.
Naye
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali banomdla wokuncedisa umntwana, ukuyihlakulela, ukuvuselela impumelelo emitsha, engamshiyi ixesha lokuphila ixesha lonwabo, abonwabele, "batyebe" ngovuyo oluthile lokuzivumelanisa naye. Funda ukuthula kunye "nokungabikho kokuphazamiseka". Yiba kufuphi, sondele, kodwa unike inkululeko yokuzicwina kwiimvakalelo zakho, ukwenza oko kumkholisa. Makheke ngokugqithiseleyo umshicileli, uphendulele ezandleni zakhe ixesha elide kwaye abuke kwi-cube efanayo, uzalise "i-maliks" iphepha elilodwa emva kwephepha. Khangela ngokukhawuleza, ubuso obuncinane buthule, ngokugxininisa, ngokukhawuleza ... Musa ukukhawuleza ukumfundisa ukuba athathe intlanzi okanye umntu omncinci, ukwakha indlu yeekhabhi okanye uthumele isikhephe ukuya kohambo olude. Lindani, xa umntwana ephazamiseka emsebenzini wakhe, uya kutsalwa kuwe. Emva koko, kuvunyelwe ngokufanelekileyo ukunikela intsebenziswano kunye kunye nalo ukuqala ukwakha igalaji yeemoto kunye namaloli okulahla umthwalo kwi-dumper.
Ufuna inkampani
Umdala wakho u-fidgety uba, unamandla kunomdla kuye kwizenzo ezidibeneyo apho angabonisa khona izakhono zakhe, ukuxhamla, kunye nobuchule. Ufuna ukupheka isidlo kunye nawe, udlale ibhola lebhola kunye noyise, kwaye wakhe umzekelo wenqanawa kunye nomntakwabo omdala. Ukuba kunye kunye kunye nokwenza into yinto yolonwabo ngokwalo! Yaye ukuba kusebenza, ulonwabo luyinyaniso! Ukuhlela izifundo ezihlangeneyo. Vumela i-crumb ihlambe iifatate kunye ne-karoti isobho, ncedise bobabini abantwana basasaze umsebenzi wokudibanisa umqambi okanye ukunyumba iipuzzle, kumema uyise, kunye nendodana okanye intombi yakhe, ukuba ubambe ibhokisi "ubuncwane bobufihlakeleyo." Yaye ukhumbule: akukho mzekelo ufanele ugxeke umntwana ngokungahambi kakuhle kwakhe, ukungakwazi, kuba akaphumelelanga! Ngokuchasene noko, kufuneka ixhaswe ngamazwi anomusa, ukuzola, uncedo. Uza kuhlamba ndawonye itekisi echithekileyo. Into ekhethiweyo engenanto, shintsha indawo efunayo. Kulo bhokisi, unokufuneka unqumle isicatshulwa okwesibini. Kodwa indlela enhle ngayo ukufeza le njongo! I-crumb iziva ngathi ilungu elipheleleyo leentsapho, liziva lihloniphekile kwaye liyaneliseka. Ukongezelela, kwimeko yenkxaso kunye nesimo sengqondo sokuzolalisa ukungaphumeleli, ngokuqinisekileyo kuzisa ukunyamezela, kungekhona ukwesaba ubunzima.
Ukujonga phambili
Abantu abacinga kakuhle, benze okulungileyo, bahlale begcwele imihla ngemihla bajonge ngekamva. Imiba yabo iphikisana, kubakho ukunyamezela ebusweni babo ... Ukuba nethemba ngenye yezinto eziyinxalenye yolonwabo. Kukhulu ukuba ulawula ukuyifaka kumntwana wakho. Bonisa kwimizekelo yomntu ukuba nayiphi na imeko unokufumana indlela yokuphuma. Musa ukuthetha ngokutshintshwa kwamabutho amnyama namhlophe, funda ukuqonda ukukhanya kwezinto ezibonakalayo. Ungazivumeli ukuba utyhilelwe ekuhluphekeni. Kungcono uchaze ukuba izifundo zokuphila kufuneka zifundwe kwaye zingabuyeli kubo. Yaye yintoni elandelayo? Ukutshatyalaliswa kulungiselela izipho!
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