Ukuqonda okanye ukuqonda, kuba amadoda namabhinqa amaninzi, abantwana banenjongo ephambili ebomini. Ngenxa yokufumaneka okwangoku kweproceptional efanelekileyo, izibini, njengangaphambili, unethuba lokucwangcisa intsapho. Bangakhetha ixesha lokuzalwa kwabantwana, inani labo, kunye nekhefu phakathi kokuzalwa ngamnye. Abatshatileyo banokugqiba ekubeni bangaba nabantwana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuzalwa komntwana akusoloko kucetywayo. Ucinga ukuba unomntwana onjani ukuba unomntwana kunye nendlela yokwenza okulungileyo?
Isigqibo sokuba nabantwana
Wonke umntu unomnqweno wendalo wokuba nabantwana ngenye indlela. Ngokuqhelekileyo into yokuqala ukuba imibhangqwana eselula efuna ukudala intsapho ixubushe xa ifuneka ukuba ibe nosana. Abanye bafuna ukwenza oku ngelixa beselula kwaye banempilo, kodwa abanako ukuzinza kwezemali, ngelixa abanye banquma ukulinda baze bafikelele kwaye bacebile, kodwa mhlawumbi bangasebenzi.
Inani labantwana
Emva kokuvela komntwana wokuqala, izibini zihlala zigqiba isigqibo sokuba ngaba zifuna abantwana abaninzi kwaye emva kwexesha elithile. Esinye sezizathu zokwandisa ithuba phakathi kokuzalwa kwabantwana kuyimfuneko yokubuyisela umzimba womfazi emva kokubeleka. Ezinye izibini zenza isigqibo sokuzala umntwana omnye kuphela. Mhlawumbi, abatshatileyo bakholelwa ukuba baya kuba nako ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi kuwo, okanye abanako abantwana ngenxa yezizathu zonyango kunye nemeko yempilo.
Iintsapho ezinkulu
Kukho uluvo lokuba umntwana ophela kwintsapho uhlala ephangiwe, kwaye ukulungelelaniswa komntu omdala kukuba ilungu lentsapho enkulu. Abazalwana noodade abanokudala banokuchaphazela ukuphuhliswa kokomoya nentlalo yomntwana, kodwa iziphumo zezifundo ezithile zibonisa ukuba abantwana abavela kwiintsapho ezinkulu abakwazi ukuya esikolweni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isondo somntwana wesibini yisona sigqibo sokuba ngabafazi ngokumalunga nenani labantwana. Abanye bafuna ukuba namakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana kwintsapho, kwaye baqhubeke bezalela abantwana abesini ngokwesini kwaze kwazalwa umntwana wesini esahlukileyo. Inani labantwana kwintsapho lichaphazelekayo kwimiba enjengezinga lemfundo yabazali kunye nesimo sezoqoqosho nezentlalo. Ukongeza, okwangoku kudlala indima yokutshatyalaliswa koomama asebekhulile, okwenzeka ngokubanzi.
Ukuphikisana phakathi kwabazalwana noodade
Iingcali zengqondo ziye zachonga iintlobo ezininzi zokulwa phakathi kwabazalwana noodade. Kwaye kwenyuka ukuba yanda kunye nokwehla kwiminyaka yobudala. Umzalwana oselekhulile okanye udade, ogunyazisiweyo, unokusebenza njengomzekelo wokulingisa. Ukuba abantwana banesimo sengqondo esinobutshabalala, umntwana omdala unokujamelana nokuphikiswa okuvulekileyo ukusuka kumncinci.
Isimo somzali
Abazali bafumanisa ukuba ngoku baphoqelelwe ukuba banikezele iimfuno zomntwana. Xa beceba ukuhamba, baqale bafune ukugqiba ngubani oza kumnakekela umntwana. Bayakwazi ukhathala ngeembopheleleko zokunyamekela umntwana kwaye bazive becinezelekile kwiingxaki zemali eziye zavela. Ekuqaleni, abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba imeko yabazali iya kuncipha kunokunyusa amathuba abo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, izibini ezitshatileyo zifuna ukuchitha ixesha lokuba zizenzele zona kwaye zivavanye ubudlelwane babo. Nangona kunjalo, njengomthetho, umba wokuba nabantwana ngumcimbi wokukhetha ixesha elithile kule nto. Kwinqanaba lobomi kubantu abatsha oku kunokuthelekiswa nokuvalelwa entolongweni, kwelinye - kubonakala kungenakunzima.
Maternity
Ukukhulelwa kwisimo sengqondo semvelo kuyimeko engokwemvelo. Ubudala bomfazi obuncinci buphelelwe lixesha ukususela ekuqaleni kokuya esikhathini ukuya kwesikhashana. Ukukwazi ukunqanda ukuzalwa kwabantwana ngexesha elibi (ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokukhawuleza) kunokunciphisa umngcipheko wokuba unomama nomntwana. Abasetyhini abaneminyaka engama-35 ukuya ku-40 bayaqonda ukuba banethuba elincinane lokuzala umntwana wabo. Ibhinqa, ngokukhawuleza lishukunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, khetha ixesha lokuzalwa komntwana kunzima kakhulu. Abaninzi bafumanisa ukuba abanalo ixesha lokudala intsapho. Abanye babo bakholelwa ukuba ukuphuka emsebenzini kwindawo ebalulekileyo yokukhula komsebenzi kunokunciphisa amathuba abo kwixesha elizayo ukuphakama ngaphezu kwinqanaba elithile kwi-career yabo ekhethiweyo. Oku kungakhokelela kwimpikiswano nomlingani - amadoda akwazi ukuvelisa abantwana kulo lonke ubomi bawo kwaye abaqondi abafazi abaziva belahlekile. Nangona kunjalo, isisombululo sokuxhaswa singasoloko sifumaneka.
Isigqibo sokungaba nabantwana
Isigqibo sokuba ungaba nabantwana sinokubangelwa ukwesaba uxanduva, ubunzima obubuhlungu obuvela ebuntwaneni bakho, ukwesaba ukungahlangabezane neemfanelo zabazali. Abanye abantu banqwenela ukuphanga imisebenzi kunye nokuzinikezela okufanayo kunye nabanokuzidela kwiintlobo zabo.
Ukulungiselela ukuzalwa komntwana
Ukulungiselela ukuzalwa komntwana ophilileyo kufuneka kuqale inyanga eziliqela ngaphambi kokukhulelwe. Abasetyhini badla ngokucetyiswa ukuba:
• ugweme ukutshaya nokusebenzisa iziyobisi;
• ukunciphisa ukusetyenziswa kotywala;
• Ukuqala ukuthatha i-acid ye-folic ukwenzela ukukhusela ukuphuhliswa kweziphene ze-neural kwi-future fetus (umz.
• khangela ukuba i-vacella ye-rubella yenzelwe ukuthintela ukuphuhliswa kwesi sifo ngexesha lokukhulelwa;
• ukukhansela izithintelo zokukhulelwa komlomo ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe.
Amathuba okukhulelwa
Ukwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa, izibini zinconywa ukuba zithandane ngesinye isinye imihla ngexesha elihle kakhulu lomjikelezo wesini. Iqala malunga neentsuku ezisibhozo ngaphambi kokuvuthwa okulindelekileyo kwaye idlule kude kube ngumhla wokuqala emva kokuvuthwa.