Kule siqithi lokuzonwabisa umntwana wakho ushiywe kuye. Apha umntwana angakwazi ukugxuma, ukugijima, ukulahla kwiinduli, ukuhlawula kwiibhola ezincinci, ukwakha i-turrets uze uwaphule. Intsana enqabileyo iya kukwenqaba ukuzonwabisa okunjalo! Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba unike i-crumb ukuya kwigumbi legeyimu, qwa lasela zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki.
Ungashiyi kwigumbi lemidlalo encinane (enye okanye emibini iminyaka). Ngelo xesha, akukho mntu unokulandela umntwana olungcono kunabantwana. Cinga ngokwakho: nangona uhamba nomntwana kwindawo yokudlala, awukho-hayi, ungayi kuboni umntwana (wawa, watsho, wathululela isanti emehlweni, njl.). Kwaye ke ungathini ngokumalunga nabangaphandle-ootitshala abaqala ukubona intombi okanye unyana wakho kwaye abazi ukuziphatha kunye nomlingiswa wabo! Ngoko unamathela kwimithetho embalwa elula.
Umthetho omnye. Abantwana, abangakhange baphenduke iminyaka emithathu ubudala, baninzi kunokwazi ukulawula ukunyakaza kwabo. Kungenxa yoko, bafumana ngengozi abanye abantwana okanye, ngenxa yokuzilungelelanisa ngokwabo, balimala. Ngako oko, loo nto iyakushiywa kwigumbi lokudlala kuphela kunye noodade ophetheyo okanye umzalwana kunye kuphela nemvume yabasebenzi begumbi.
Umthetho omibini . Kwamanye amagumbi omdlalo, omnye wabazali uvumelekile ukuba abambisane nomntwana. Ngesana entsha, le khetho yona nto ilungileyo - emva koko, unokufundisa ngomzekelo wayo ukuziphatha okuchanekileyo. Ukongezelela, umntwana akayi kunkwantya xa ngokukhawuleza elahleka kwindawo yokudlala.
Umthetho wesithathu. Ukuba i-crumb yayingowokuqala kwigumbi elitsha lomdlalo kuye - ungayishiyi yedwa. Kufuneka ube kwindawo. Emva kwakho konke, umfana akakwazi ukuhamba ngeemeko ezingaqhelekanga kuye, ungabala ukuba ubude beenduli, umzekelo, kwaye ufumane uhlobo oluthile lokulimala.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ngokuqhelekileyo uvela kwigumbi elithile kwiimidlalo esitolo - unokuhamba ixesha elithile. Kodwa kusekuninzi nakwiyiphi na imeko, tyelela umntwana wakho, awukwazi ukuba yintoni.
Kwakhona, xa uyihlobisa umntwana kwindawo yokudlala, qiniseka ukuba ubeke ingqwalasela kwiinkqubo zokuthabatha inkunkuma. Oku kunzima kakhulu, bhetele. Ngenxa yoko, abasebenzi begumbi lemidlalo bayayiqonda yonke imbopheleleko abazali be-karapuza abangenayo kuye.
Utitshala kufuneka abhale phantsi idatha yomzali kunye nomntwana kwincwadi ekhethekileyo (kwaye kungekhona ngamagama akho, kodwa ngesiseko salo naliphi na umqulu-ipasipoti okanye ilayisenisi yokuqhuba), kunye nenombolo yefowuni yomnxeba wokunxibelelana kwimeko engxamisekileyo. Ukuba umntwana wayevunyelwe egumbini lokuzonwabisa ngaphandle kokuthetha, ngaphandle kokubuza nantoni na yonke - ukugqithisa indawo enjalo yindlela yeshumi.
Abanye abantwana bayesaba abantwana abangaqhelekanga kwaye abayi kuhamba nabo ebomini, kwaye abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, baya kuhamba ngaphandle koyika nawuphi na umfokazi. Ukuba umntwana wakho ungomnye wale ndawo - igumbi lomdlalo alihambisani nonke kwaye awukwazi ukushiya umntwana kulo.