Okokuqala, abafana bayayixabisa ingqondo eyenziwe kubo ngentombazana ekuqalekeni. Kule nto, ukubukeka kunendima enkulu. Kubonakala, kungekhona ubuhle. Yintoni ebalulekileyo yindlela obukeka ngayo, indlela oziphatha ngayo, indlela okwazi ngayo ukuzibonisa kunye nendlela owenza ngayo abanye. Izambatho, kunjalo, nazo ziyimicimbi, kodwa zidibene nazo zonke ezinye izinto. Unokuba unxibe iimpahla ezixabisekileyo kwaye ufana nokubonakala kwimizekelo, kodwa ungayivuyela impumelelo yabafana kwaye uhlale unesizungu. Into ephambili ubuntu bakho nokuvisisana nokuziphatha kwakho, umlingiswa, ngokukhulisana kwakho noxolo lwangaphakathi. Ngamanye amazwi, kubalulekile xa ukuphuma kwakho kwangaphakathi nangaphakathi, ukukhanga kwakho kunye nesibheno sesondo kuyahlanganisana. Ngoku kukho iingcebiso ezininzi kwi-intanethi nakumajelo malunga nendlela yokwenza umdla, kwaye asiyi kuhlala kulo ngcaciso apha. Kule nqaku siza kuqwalasela kuphela izinto eziphambili zeembonakalo ezikhangayo.
Inyani kukuba iimbono malunga nokuthandwa kwabasetyhini kumadoda nakwabasetyhini zihluke kakhulu. Abasetyhini bacinga ukuba abantu baqala ukukhawuleza ukubonakala. Kodwa oku akunjalo ... Ngamnye umntu unelungelo lakhe lobungowesifazane obuhle, kwaye eli lungileyo linokutshintsha ngobudala. Yaye ukuba ubuhle buhlala bunikwa ngokwemvelo, ukukhanga kuyisakhono esinokufumana. Lo ngumfanekiso wakho, umfanekiso wakho nokuziphatha kwakho. Yiloo nto inyathelo elithathayo. Akuyena wonke umntu ozelwe ngokuhle, kodwa yonke intombazana inokufunda indlela yokwenza umdla kwaye ifunde ukutsala ingqalelo yabantwana.
Ngoko, inxalenye yokuqala yembonakalo ekhangayo kukuhle kweenwele, ubuso, amanani anikezelwe kuwe ngokwemvelo. Apha ungagxininisa kuphela amacandelo akhoyo kwaye uzama ukufihla iziphoso. Kodwa kubantwana kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba le ntombazana ibonisa njani. Kwaye ukuba unokwazi ukwahlula icala lakho elikhangayo, ngoko umfana uya kubaphulaphula okokuqala kwaye akaqapheli ukusilela kwakho.
Ubuhle bemvelo buya kunika nayiphi intombazana. Kodwa yena, yena ngokwakhe, akakaze amenzele inhlanhla umnikazi okwamanje. Jonga ngeenxa zonke, hlalutya iindawo ezikuyo, kwaye uya kubona ukuba kukho intombi eninzi ehlala ingenakufunyanwa ngabafana kunye nantoni na, amantombazana amaninzi aneenkcukacha ezidlulileyo zodwa ezisebenzisiweyo ngesini esahlukileyo. Ngoko, ukuba awuziboni ukuba ubuhle, oku akusisona isizathu sokuphelelwa lithemba.
Into yesibini yembatho. Kwaye ke akusiyo intengo yakhe okanye uphawu oluthile, kodwa ukucoceka kwakhe nendlela akhethiweyo ngayo. Ngenxa yoko, ukuphumelela kwakho kudlala phantse akukho nxaxheba. Namhlanje, ngenxa yemali eninzi, unokuthenga into enhle. Kwakhona unako ukugqoka izinto ezibiza, kodwa akunakulungeleki. Ngako oko, ukuba ufuna ukuba abafana banakekele ingqalelo, okokuqala kufuneka ubonakale ucocekile kwaye unomdla. Yaye khumbula-into ebalulekileyo kukuba wenze okokuqala. Ngeke ube nelithuba lesibini lokulivelisa kwakhona. Kanti -kufuneka ukwazi umehluko phakathi kweengubo ezinobungqingili kunye nezishukumisayo. Ukuba unxibe ngokugqithiseleyo, ke kuphela abafana abafuna iinjongo ngobusuku obunye baya kukunaka.
Okwesithathu, imilinganiselo yakho nokuziphatha kubaluleke kakhulu. Le yona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwintombazana. Kulapha apha ukuba ilizwe lakho elingaphakathi kunye nokuzimela kwakho kunye nokungaziphenduleli kubonakalise.
Unokubuza: "Kuthekani ngeempawu zam zokomoya?" Yazi ukuba umfana uthatha ixesha elide ukuba afunde iimpahla zawo. Kwaye ekuqaleni kokuthandana, iimpawu zakho zokomoya kuye ziyimfihlakalo. Kwaye le mfihlelo inika ubuhlobo bakho umkhonto othile, ubukho bezinto ezintle.