Ngoko sinokuyilondoloza njani intsapho, inzala yomyeni wethu kuthi, ibe nemininzi, intlalontle kunye nenkosikazi entle? Okokuqala, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqonde uhlobo luni lwabafazi bendlu. Zininzi.
Uhlobo lo kuqala. Sekhaya . Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kumfazi wendlu enjalo ukucoceka kunye nokuhlelwa kwindlu. Akunakhathala ngokucoca, ukucoca, ukuhlamba, ukuhlamba, ukucoca, ukutshiza i-ironing imihla ngemihla. Kungenzeka ukuba akayi kubeka ingqwalasela eyiyo ekubonakaleni kwayo, kodwa yonke into ekhayeni i-glitters, iyaqhaqha kwaye iyamnandi. Amabhanki ahlelwe nge-alfabhethi, akukho uthuli kwiincwadi nakwiindawo ezikude.
Uhlobo lwesibini. Abathandi bevenkile . Olu hlobo lwabafazi basemakhaya yiloo ntombazana ayinomdla kumsebenzi wesikolo. Isalathisi sabo - izitolo kunye namaziko okuthenga. Indlela yokuhlamba izitya, apho udoti uphoswa khona kwaye kutheni bengasidingi le fowuni, kodwa baya kufumaneka kalula kwivenkile ishefu ephethe ijezi zamadoda. Laba bafazi bafuna imali eninzi yokugcinwa kwabo, ubukho bomgcini wendlu (umntu kufuneka ahlambulule indlu) kunye nomdla ekuthengeni kwabo.
Udidi lwesithathu. Umama . Konke ubomi bakhe umfazi uthabatha umntwana. Nguye uphakathi kwendalo yonke, ihlabathi lonke lijikeleza kuye. Yonke into ayenzayo malunga nendlu yenzelwe umntwana. Akanomdla kumbonakalo wakhe, unomdla wokuba umntwana wayegqoke, atyiswa kwaye alele ukulala.
Izigidi zabancinci kwaye kungekhona abafazi abafazi, bahlala ekhaya, benza imisebenzi yasekhaya, bakhulise abantwana. Kwaye, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ungowesifazane onjani, kufuneka uhlale unomdla kumntu wakho. Umfazi weNdlu, njani onomdla kumntu wakhe? Ngokulula. Funda ngokucophelela uze ulandele imiyalelo yam!
Umgaqo obaluleke kakhulu omele uwakhumbule kumzamo wokuba ngumntu onomdla kukudala ukuhlukahluka. Awukwazi ukukrakra ekhaya. Ukuba ucinga ukuba izindlu zinyamekile kwaye zizithobile, ngoko ke umntu wakho. Uya kuqwalasela ukuba awukwazi ukuzisa ulwahlulo kunye nomdla ebomini bakho. Ngoko, usindiso olusisiseko luya kuba yintlukwano! Kumele kube khona kuyo yonke into. Ukuqala malunga nendlela opheka ngayo, ukuphela kwezihlobo zesini. Mangaliswa indoda yakho imihla ngemihla izitya ezintsha, amabali anomdla, ukubukeka, kunye nantoni, nantoni na. Yiba ngumhlobo wakhe, umhlobo, umthandi onomdla, inkosikazi enhle, umama ohlakaniphileyo kunye nentombazana entsiphu. Amadoda ayayithanda xa besetyhini abahlukeneyo. Kwaye unokuba nantoni na, ngoko awuyi kunkotshwa ngumntu wakho. Ukuze kukwazi ukwahlukana kubalulekile ukubandakanya ekuzikhuleni. Ukulahla kwakho iincwadi, i-intanethi (nje ungahlali ixesha elilodwa kwiindawo zamabhinqa, zikhona ezinye izinto ezithandekayo), umabonwakude (ukhethe kuphela iiprogram, iinkqubo zengqondo kunye nezemfundo), ukunxibelelana nabahlobo, ukudibana nabantu abahlukeneyo , bhalisela ezinye izifundo. Ngegama, phila! Kodwa, kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukutshintsha ukusuka kwesinye isiganeko ebomini bakho kwabanye, ukwenzela ukuba ungaboni ubuwula kwaye ungalunganga.
Ukuba ungumfazi wendlu, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ungayithandi njani intanda yakho. Ukongeza kwiinkxalabo kunye neengxaki zemihla ngemihla, ukukhulisa abantwana kukho inani elikhulu lezinto ezinomdla onokuzenza. Ingaba yimidlalo, i-pianoforte, ukudansa, ukudweba, umculo, ukunqumla. Ngelinye igama, yonke into oye wahlala uphupha ngayo, kodwa kwakungekho ixesha lokuyenza. Ngokwemvelo, andinakuthetha ngento yokuba kubalulekile ukutshintshana nokuzonwabisa kwentsapho kwiindawo ezihambela ehlathini, ukuhlanganisana kunye namantombazana. Kodwa, sele usenexesha elaneleyo lokukhulula, ngelixa kungekho ndoda, ngelixa abantwana basesikolweni. Unokwenza nantoni na, nantoni na. Musa nje ukuchitha iiyure ukhangele i-sopha kunye nokufunda ngobomi beenkwenkwezi zokubonisa ishishini. Unayo eyakho, kungabikho umdla obonwabisayo kunye nobumnandi, ixesha lokuhlawula. Ukuba ekugqibeleni uyenze into ophuphayo ixesha elide. Umzekelo, ukudansa okanye ukudweba, ngokokuhlwa ungatshela umyeni wakho malunga nesiganeko. Uya kukwazi ukuba nawe unento yokwenza, iziganeko, umdla. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba ngaba ukuzonwabisa kwakho kukuchaphazela kakuhle imeko yezemali yentsapho. Umzekelo, unokuqala ukuwudonsa udloli kwaye uthengise kwiivenkile ezizodwa. Ncinci, kodwa ingeniso yakho ikhuselekile. Umyeni uya kuwuxabisa.
Ngendlela umfazi kufuneka abe nomdla kumyeni wakhe kukho enye into ebalulekileyo - ngesondo. Apho ngaphandle kwayo? Ubaluleke kakhulu kubini, nguye owenza ubudlelwane buhambelane kwaye bumnandi, bekufutshane kwaye bethinte. Iingxaki zesini zingakhokelela ekungcatshiseni okanye ekutshitshweni kwintsapho. Kungenxa yoko, kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba ube yingcali yonyani kunye nenkosikazi engcolileyo. Kufuneka uhlale ukulungele ukulala ngesondo, ngokuqhelekileyo uthathe isinyathelo. Emva koko, le ndoda isebenza yonke imini, idibanisa nabaxhasi, iyalathisa abaphantsi, iyakhathala. Ngoko ke, kufuneka usebenze ngakumbi, cinga ngexesha elimnandi. Menze ahlaziye, ulungiselele ibhedi efudumeleyo. Ukuze ukwazi indlela yokudibanisa ubudlelwane bezesondo, funda iincwadi ezongezelelweyo, urejista kwikota ye-geisha, okanye i-strip-plastiki. Ngoko, ungasindisa ulwahlulo lobomi bakho bobulili, kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, umangalise umyeni wakho ngezakhono zakho.
Omnye umgaqo obalulekileyo ukuba umfazi omhle makawugcine. Akuyimfuneko ukuxubusha iingxaki zasekhaya nomyeni wakhe. Nguwe kuphela onomdla kwiindawo, uthuli, i-dishwasher, umpompo ophukileyo kunye ne-vase ephukile. Umyeni wakho akanandaba. Umsebenzi wakho kukugcina indlu ihlambulukile, ukwenza kube lula. Kodwa ukuxelela malunga nendlela oyenzayo ngayo, mhlawumbi, akuyimfuneko. Umyeni wakho ucinga ngomsebenzi wakhe, unesivumelwano kunye neenkontileka entloko yakhe, ubala iintlawulo kunye neendleko ezivela emsebenzini wenkampani, kwaye uyamxelela ngempompo ephukileyo! Ngako-ke kukho iiplumbisi ezilungisa ii-cranes, kungekhona indoda yakho. Umsebenzi wakhe ukwenza imali, ukunyamekela wena nomntwana, kwaye ungacingi malunga nendlela yokuphosa umnqweno kwiphepheni. Qonda ukuba sele ufuna ukuphumla kwiingcamango zakhe. Kwaye uqala ukunyathela intloko yakhe kunye neengxaki zakhe zemihla ngemihla. Ukuba uzimisele ngokwenene ukwabelana ngeengcamango zakho, khetha iimeko ezilungileyo kunye ezimnandi eziza kuvusa umntu. Ekugqibeleni, oku kukukhathalela kwakho ikhaya.
Uninzi lwabafazi abakhohlwayo ukuphulaphula ukuhamba kwexesha. Xa, usuku lwakho lufana nomnye, xa kungekho nto inomdla kwaye ibonakale ebomini bakho, kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba iingcamango zakho zijikeleze kuwe. Kungekuphela nje ixesha lokulwa nokulungisa, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuphulaphula kwakhona. Uyakhumbula ukuba, ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho, wavula umlomo wakho waza wakuphulaphula oko umntu wakho akuxelele. Kwaye ngoku? Awukwazi ukukhumbula oko akuxelele izolo, ngenxa yokuba ucinga ngeepane kunye namabala kuloo mzuzu? Ikoyikeka! Khumbula ukuba amadoda abalulekile xa ephulaphulwa xa umfazi wabo ethatha inxaxheba ebomini babo. Funda ukuphulaphula, kwaye ungazibalekela kwimisebenzi yakho yasendlwini uze uphumelele kwihlabathi lomyeni wakho. Ewe, yintoni, ukuba ungumfazi wendlu. Awuyi kuba ngumntu onomdla kumntu oyintanda owaziyo! Kwaye oku, mhlawumbi, isiqinisekiso sokuphila kwentsapho yolonwabo.