Ngoko, imeko: le ndoda yiphosa, kodwa engenayo intombazana: kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zinto. Ukuze uzuze, kufuneka uhlaziye kakuhle ubuhlobo bakho kutshanje. Ewe, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba akushiye, ukuba yonke into yayimangalisa kwaye yayingafi? Makhe ucinge ukuba kunjalo-kodwa ayibonakali ukuba umfana wakho ucinga ngendlela efanayo.
Khumbula: mhlawumbi, kwiminyaka yamuva, into ethile yamcaphukisa kakhulu kuwe? Kwaye awuzange uyithobele, wenyuka "kwiposenti" waza wakhala ngokukrakra ukuba akaqondi nto, kodwa awuzimisele ukutshintsha nantoni na? Hayi, akudingekile ukukhenkcela, ngokuqinisekileyo, akunjalo - kunokwanele nje ukuba uqhube ulungelelaniso ukuze wenze loo ndoda idinwe ubuhlobo. Emva koko, amadoda afuna uxolo kunye nokuvisisana, kwaye thina bafazi kufuneka sibe ngabahlakaniphile kwaye sibanike oko bafuna. Oku akuzithobeli ukuzinikela kunye nobukhoboka - oku kukukhathazeka oku no kuvela kwamehlo. Nangona kunjalo, le nkathalo ayifanele ibe yinkxaso enye-kwaye iyaqondakala, loo mfana kufuneka aphinde abonise iimvakalelo zakhe zethenda. Emva koko, kwenzeka ukuba umntu, ekutshilo ngothando, ngokungathi uyalibala la magama amathathu alula kwaye akakwazi ukuwakhumbula ngaphambi kwesiganeko okanye umcimbi obalulekileyo. Kwaye akuyiyo into yokuba besithi abafazi bathanda ngeendlebe zabo - kukho inyaniso kule nto, sifuna ukuva amazwi ngothando, simele siqiniseke ngalo lonke usuku - kwaye siya kuba silungele ukujika iintaba ngenxa yendoda ethandekayo! Nokuba iintaba zamasokisi angcolileyo ...
Ukuba uhlalutye imeko yakho kwaye wafika kwisigqibo sokuba akukho zikhwabaniso ezidityanisayo kwimbini yakho, ngoko ke iyahluke. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba, xa sinqobile intliziyo yendoda ethandekayo, siyazinqabisa size sikhohlwe into ephambili - ukuba singabesifazane. Kwaye ukuba ngaphambi kokuba udibane nomntu ochitha iiyure kwisibuko, ekukhangekeleni ukwakheka okufanelekileyo kunye nesambatho, ngoku unako ukukwazi ukuphuma kwizithende uze uye kumabhondi, kwaye ude uphonsa isikhwama sokungcola ngaphandle kwamehlo. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba ukhohliwe ukuhlamba iinwele zakho - akukho nto, umhlobo uya kukunyamezela kunye nalo msila onamafutha - emva kwayo yonke into, wabona indlela enhle ngayo! Mhlawumbi lo mgaqo wokuziphatha uwona mpela. Ngokukodwa ukuba ubuhlobo bakho abude bude kwaye bunzulu. Mhlawumbi akufanele ulibale wena kunye nokubonakala kwakho? Emva kwakho konke, umfana unokuba nombono wakho njengentombazana ekhuselekileyo - kwaye ngoku ayikho into ephakamileyo. Ngoko cinga: mhlawumbi uqale ngokwakho kangangokuba inkwenkwe yayidinwe ngokukwenza ukuba ube neengqondo ezintle zobungqina bakho - kwaye wagqiba ekubeni ngeli xesha liza kuba libi kakhulu? Awudingi ukujika ube ngumfazi ongumfazi ongenamdla kunye neenkontsho ezingapheliyo entloko yakho ngaphambi kwexesha. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku siqhwabanisa, kodwa isitshixo sicacile ...
Izizathu ezenza ukuba ngokukhawuleza indoda leyo ithathe isigqibo sokuba ihlukane nawe, ingaba kakhulu. Ukongeza kuzo zonke ezi ngasentla, xa icala lixhalabele kakhulu, bafazi, kunokukho nezizathu ezichaphazelekayo kuphela kubantu. Emva kwakho konke, kunokukupholisa kuwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba buhlungu kangakanani. Ngona inzondelelo enamandla ayikwazi ukuhlakulela ibe yintando, kodwa ngokukhawuleza iyaphela, iphelile ize iphele - kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akukho nto ingayifumana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzama kangakanani. Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho laqaphela ukuba awufani, ngexesha lobudlelwane bakho, ngokukhawuleza wafumanisa ukuba awunamnandi kakhulu, ukuba ingxoxo yakho ayisekho ukuhamba kakuhle, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kukho isikhalazo esicasulayo kwintetho egciniweyo. . Lo ngowokuqala uphawu lokuba kwisicwangciso soqhagamshelwano awukufanelekanga.
Ngoko sichaza izizathu eziphambili zokuba ungashiya umfana, ngelixa ungahambisani nenye intombazana. Yintoni enokuyenza, indlela yokuziphatha kunye nendlela yokuziphatha ngayo - kukufikelela kuwe, ngokusekelwe ekubeni unobungqina bazo zonke izifo, nokuba ngaba ufuna ngokwenene ukuyeka onke amandla akho nexesha lokugcina ubudlelwane obanikezelayo. Ukuba uzimisele ukuzincama, ungalindeli kude kube yinto engenakukupheka kunye namagqabi omfana - kulula ukukhusela isiphepho ngokwaso kwimiphumo yaso. Emva koko awukwazi ukucela ukuxolelwa. Umthetho ngokukhawuleza xa ubona uphawu oluyingozi, uphawu oluthile lokuba umntu wakho waphoswa ngengozi, khawuleza usabele kuyo kwaye uzama ukulinganisa imeko - kwaye yonke into iya kuvuka!