Wayexhalabele xa wamzisa kubazali bakho xa udibana naye. Unesondo esinqabileyo, okwenza ukuba intliziyo yakho ihlehlise xa ukhumbula ngako. Ukuba uhlala kunye, mhlawumbi ukhumbule ukuba wenza ntoni izinto kwaye walungiselela indlu. Kwaye emva kwexeshana uqaphela ukuba akukho nto enomdla ayeyenayo ngaphambili, kwaye xa efika ekhaya evela emsebenzini okanye ekufundeni, uxelela ukuba ukhathele kangakanani, uthatha imizuzu emi-5 i-borsch ephekwe nguwe, owachitha isiqingatha semini, uthatha amasokisi kwaye uya kulala ngaphandle kokuqaphela isambatho sakho esitsha sokusila kwaye ungakhathazeki ukuba usuku lwakho luhamba njani. Uyakubamba ngaphantsi kwaye akukhubekise, kwaye uthi uyakuthanda, ukuba yonke into iyafana neyokuqala. Uyakhathazeka, kwaye uziphephe ngokwakho, ukuba uyeke ukuthanda, ulungiselela iziqwenga kuye, kwaye unokuphikisana, okanye ushiye nje ingxaki, ngaphandle kokufumanisa nantoni na. Ukuba umntu wayeka ukunikela ingqwalasela kuwe, ungakhathazeki - kakhulu, yonke into ayimbi njengoko ucinga.
Ufuna wena
Uyakuthanda ngokwenene, xa edla i-borsch yakho ngokuzonwabisa kwaye usabunye. Ukuba awuyithandi loo nto, wayeza kukushiya. Ngayiphi na inzuzo yentetho ayikwazi ukuhamba-kubonakala ukuba abafazi bafumane oko kufunwa ngazo zonke iindlela ezinokwenzeka kwaye ezingenakwenzeka. Ukuba uyabuya ekhaya edinwe emva komsebenzi, ngoko umsebenzi wakho awukuphela kokumondla nokwanelisa, kodwa ukuphulaphula, ukuzisola, uvelwano kwaye udunyiswe ngenxa yento azama ngayo wena nakwakho ubudlelwane. Mncede amgxeke, ambeke embhedeni aze aphephe ingubo. Uzoyika ukonakala ngathi "Mama"? Ewe, ngeze, kuba abantu-abantwana abafanayo beza ekhaya bafuna ukuziziva bebodwa kwaye bathandwa, bafuna ukunyamekela nokuqonda, kwaye ngubani, ukuba akayintombazana, unokuyiqonda into ebuthathaka babo. Umvuzo kuwe kule nto iya kuba yintliziyo yakhe yokwenene, eya kuthatha ukuba uyamthanda ngendlela engabikho mntu.
Uzolile
Inyaniso yokuba engasayi kukunika izipho kodwa uzama ukusindisa kwi-microwave yakho ayithethi ukuba ucolile. Uthi uyakuthanda, kwaye yiloo nto oyifunayo. Qonda nje ukuba ngoku usuke uhambe kwi "candy-bouquet" ixesha, elibonisa umdlalo olula kunye nothando. Kule nqanaba lobudlelwane, loo mvakalelo yenziwa ukuba iya kuba sisiseko sobomi bakho besikhathi esizayo: ukuzithemba, ukuthembela, umdla, ukufuphi, njl. Ulwalamano lwakho luye lwazinza, kwaye ngoku uceba i-future future joint, ufumana indlela enengqiqo yalo. Kuye, ngoku into eyona nto ayiyona into enomdla kwaye ayiyiyo isimemezelo sothando ngaso sonke isikhathi, sele esazi ukuba uyakuthanda, kwaye oku kuhambelana. Kwaye akafuneki ukulila rhoqo. Unakho ukuchasana ukuba uhlambele kuye, kuba oku kungakuphazamisa ukuzithemba kwakhe nokuba uyayiqonda ngokwenene. Ngaba uya kuvuyela ukuba uthe wayenokungabaza ukuvakalelwa? Ngoko kunokuba ufune i-nice trinket, kungcono ukuba ukhethe umzekelo we-microwave kunye, kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe kunokuba ibhere le-teddy liphonswe kwibhokisi elide.
Mhlawumbi nguwe?
Ukuba umntu uyeka ukunyamekela, jonga ngokwakho. Mhlawumbi, ngoku kutshanje uye waba ngumntu ongenakunqwenelekayo, unxinzelele okanye ungobugovu? Ngaphezulu kobudlelwane obufunekayo ukuba usebenze ngokuqhubekayo, kodwa utyalwe ntoni kubo ngokukodwa? Amadoda awakwazi ukuma xa "bongo". Ukuba kukho into engakufanelekanga, zama ukuzithoba kwaye uthethe ngokufanelekileyo, kodwa ukuze amabango akho angabi sityholo. Mxelele ukuba uyakuthanda xa ekumanga, kwaye ungamgxeka ngokuba ngu-scoundrel, akayithandi kwakhona kwaye akafuni ukumanga. Amadoda afanelekileyo angaphuziyo, angabethi, angabhemki, anike iintyatyambo kunye neadayimani, umsebenzi, ukugqoka, i-shoe - alas, ayikho. Kanye nabafazi abafanelekileyo. Ngoko ndiphinda - ngaphambi kokumgxeka, yifumene.
Ukuzihlonela kwakhe
Khangela ngakumbi kuye. Ukuba umntu uyeka ukunyamekela kuwe, uhamba iintsuku eziliqela ngokulandelelana, egxininiswe kuye, kufuneka uthethe naye ngomusa uze ufumene isizathu. Mhlawumbi unenkxwaleko emsebenzini, okanye ngeqela, kodwa yena ngokwakhe akayi kukuvuma kuwe, kuba uyinxalenye yokutya, intloko yentsapho kunye nodonga lwakho lwamatye. Kodwa ngaba loo donga ingavuma kuwe ukuba yonke into ayiphumeleli? Uthatha imisebenzi yakhe ngokungathandekiyo, kwaye xa into engaphumi ngokuhambelana nesicwangciso sakhe, uyakhungatheka, kodwa akakwazi ukukuxelela ngokucacileyo ngawo-ukuqhosha kwamadoda kunye nokuzingca kwakhe akuvumeli. Ukongezelela, xa unye kunye, lo ngumngeni wakho kuluntu kumntu ubuncinane bakho abazali. Wathembisile yena, kwaye kubo, nakubantu bebucala, oko kuza kukunika wena kunye nawe, ukuba sele usuzimeleyo kwaye uqokelele, kwaye uya kuba nakho ukunondla ibhanali. Nangona usebenza, kwiimeko ezininzi zihlala zingundoqo kumvuzo, nguye onoxanduva lokuchuma kunye nesimo. Nawe-ngenxa yomoya kunye nenduduzo endlwini. Chaza kuye - ukuba unye kunye, unako iingxaki eziqhelekileyo, kwaye oko kunye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana indlela yokuphuma. Oku kuya kumvumela ukuba nciphise kwaye angacingi nje ukuba ungumpheki kunye nenkosikazi, kodwa naye ungumhlobo oyinyaniso kunye nomlingani.
Ngamanye amaxesha sikukhohlwa ukuba ukugcina ubudlelwane ngumsebenzi onzima, apho unokuyeka kwaye ufune nje. Mhlawumbi ngamanye amaxesha, sithandana nabantu abangalunganga, musa ukuzithemba nabo kunye nethemba kubo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba isithuba sisesandleni sethu, kufuneka nje ukuba uqaphele abo bajikelezayo.