Nangona kunjalo, ibhinqa likwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimela. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ukhethe umntu ofanelekileyo. Ngoku iimvanoveli ezithandwayo ezinamadoda asele esele atshadile, sinokulindela ntoni kubo, siya kuzama ukutyhila kweli nqaku. Umfazi, enobudlelwane obusondeleyo nomntu otshatileyo, unyanzelekile ukuba azi malunga nazo zonke izinto ezintle kunye nezimbi zomphathi wesilisa. Ngoko ukuba unomtshatileyo, uyamfuna?
Okwangoku, kukho iindidi ezimbalwa zabathandana abatshatileyo:
- thandana,
- utshatile ngokwenene,
- mncinci,
- kudala.
Romantic.
Zijoliswe kubo bonke abathanda inkondlo, ukuhlwa kobomi, kunye namazwi amnandi kwidilesi yabo.
Inzuzo yolwalamano:
- Indoda enjalo inokufundisa yonke into ekuthi, njengomthetho, ayibonakali ebomini bwanamhlanje. Oku, umzekelo, ubuhle bamafu amhlophe, isanti esingabonakali ehlobo, njl njl.
- Inkqubo yokuthandana ngothando imnandi kakhulu. Uya kuhamba noyintanda yakhe kwiindawo ezilungileyo.
Ukungalungi kobudlelwano:
- I-Romantics yizona zikhulu kakhulu ze-egoists, ngoko kufuneka ucinge kabini ngaphambi kokuba uqale umthandana otshatileyo, kwaye unqume ukuba unoba ufuna i-egoist?
- Ngaphambili, la madoda ahlobene ngqo, kodwa kuphela kwisini sesini. Ukuba le ntombazana iyavumelana nale meko yezinto, ngoko uya kuvuyiswa ngumntu okhethiweyo.
Ukutshata ngokwenene.
Olu hlobo lwamadoda lungabalelwa kulabo enokufuneka nabo bazame ukukhupha ubudlelwane obude. Kuya kukwanela nje ukuhamba. Lo mntu ulungele abantu abangenalo kakhulu.
Inzuzo yolwalamano:
- Ukuba intombazana ayinayo ikhululekile, ukugcina imfihlelo yolwalamano olunjalo kuya kuba luncedo kubo bobabini.
- Ukukhangela ulwahlulo kungekuphela kobudlelwane, kodwa nakubomi besondo ngesahlulo samadoda kunokuqinisekisa ukulala ngesondo. Mhlawumbi uya kuba ngesondo kwi-elevator okanye eluphahleni lwendlu. Umthandi otshatileyo malunga noku kuluhlu olufanelekileyo.
- Ngomntu onjalo akayi kudingeka ukuba afunde ubuchule besini. Uyazi konke ngokwakhe. Apha unako ukuphumla kwaye ujabulele.
Ukungalungi kobudlelwano:
- Amava olwabelana ngesondo kunye nomfazi uya kuhlala ezama inkosikazi yakhe. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha angeke kwenzeke ngenjongo, kodwa ngaba uyayifuna?
- Umntu onjalo otshatileyo uya kuhlala ehlambalaza umfazi wakhe, nangona kunjalo, uya kuthi uya kuphelelwa yinto.
- Indoda isoloko izama ukufumana kwinkosikazi yakhe into engayifumani kuyo ebhedini yakhe yomtshato. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba uya kucela kwikosikazi into engakumbi.
- Kuphela ibhinqa liza kufuneka lilungele ngqo kumthandi wakhe. Ngenxa yokuba unentsapho.
A badala.
Umdala omdala kunye nowesithandana esele esatshatileyo unokufumana inzuzo engenakuphikiswa. Unako ukukhulula ngokupheleleyo nawuphi na umfazi, kwaye oku kuyimfuneko phantse wonke umntu.
Inzuzo yolwalamano:
- Akhe amava amaninzi. Umthandi onjalo unokukufundisa konke anakho.
- Ubukho bendoda engumfana onobudoda bendihlambulule. Ngenxa yalokhu, uzama ukugcina isigxina sakhe ngeenxa zonke ngamandla akhe. Kule meko, iintlobo zezipho ziza kudlala, kunye nokuqwalaselwa kakhulu.
Ukungalungi kobudlelwano:
- Ngeshwa, akunakukwazi ukuzilungisa.
- Ngokuphathelele isondo, ngoko, alas, ubudala buqhubeka buvakalelwa. Kwaye nangona kunjalo uya kuzama ukufikelela kwibha ephezulu, ukuya kwijubane lomzimba omncinane kakhulu.
Mncinane kakhulu.
Ukuba umthandi wakho usemncinci ngokwaneleyo, ubudala bakhe buhluka phakathi kweminyaka engama-20 ukuya ku-25, ngoku uphakamileyo wesenzo sakhe sesondo. Kwimeko apho umfazi ekhulile kuneminyaka yakhe ngeminyaka emi-5-10, ngoko baya kuvuyiswa ngobomi babo besondo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo "ezingalinganiyo", izinto ezintle nezimbi zifihliwe
Inzuzo yolwalamano:
- Ubukho bendoda eseleyo ngaphandle kwayo ibangela iqela ukuba lizinyamekele ngokucophelela nangokucokisekileyo. Ngenxa yoko, ibhinqa lingena kwimidlalo kwaye ngoko liqala ukubheka elincinane.
- Insizwa isetyenziselwe ukulala ngesondo. Le ntombazana ayisoze yakuva ukuba ukhathele. Umshini wangempela wokunyakaza.
Ukungalungi kobudlelwano:
- Abanye abesetyhini baqala ukwakha ubunzima obuphantsi (njengokuba kunomntu okhangayo kunye nentombazana ecaleni apho wonke umntu uhlawula ingqalelo ekhethekileyo), kodwa uyayimfuneko?
- Abanye bala madoda baya kubeka inxaxheba kwindoda kumfazi kwaye baya kuhlala bekhalaza. Ngamanye amaxesha ibhinqa liya kufuneka lijongane ngokugqithiseleyo neengxaki kunye nemisebenzi 'yonyana wakhe omncinci,' kwaye akuyena wonke umfazi owufuna.
Kalokunje, njengokungathi uyazi ukuba yiyiphi into ekumele uyilindele, ukusuka kwintombazana enomfazi oza kutshata, uya kukwazi ukukhetha lakhe ikamva ngokuzimela.