Ngoko, ukunyanzelisa umntu ukuba athole udidi olukhethekileyo, ufuna iimpikiswano ezingenakuphikisa. Ukuze ukwazi indlela yokwenza abafana bafumane imfundo ephakamileyo, kufuneka aqonde iinjongo kunye neengqondo zezenzo zabo. Okokuqala, bonke abantu banomdla kakhulu. Nabo abo babonakala bengabantu abathobekileyo nabalondolozileyo, ngokwenene, bafuna ukufezekisa kakhulu ebomini. Kungokuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba uvale kumntu onjalo, kuba uhlazo okanye akafuni ukuthetha ngeenjongo zakhe. Kutheni abantu abatsha abafuni ukufumana imfundo ephakamileyo? Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho licinga ukuba akakwazi ukufumana isihlalo kwisebe eliyithandayo. Kule meko, zama ukuphikisana naye. Ekugqibeleni, akukho namnye kuni olahlekelwa yinto. Mema le ntsha ukuba ihambe kwiyunivesithi ize ithathe iimviwo zokungena. Ukuba ayisebenzi - ke ulahlekile. Kakade, kufuneka wenze oku kuphela xa ubona ukuba lo mntu unolwazi olwaneleyo. Akuyimfuneko ukuthumela umntu kulo mvavanyo, ekwazi ukuba akakwazi ukwenza. Abafana bancaka abantu. Kunokwenzeka ukuba, uya kutshutshiswa kwaye avume. Kule meko, isiqingatha sentyala sele senziwe. Ngoku kuyimfuneko ukumenza alungiselele iimviwo, kuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntu uhlakaniphile kangakanani, usadinga ukuphinda abuyele kwakhona kwimemori. Ukuze insizwa ifunde izinto eziphathekayo, ungasebenzisa kwakhona inkqubo yeebhaso kunye nezithembiso. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uyazi oko unokukholisa umthandayo, kungekhona ukulimaza kwakho. Ngoko, mthembise imimangaliso emangalisayo, ngokubuyisela esinye isahluko esiphezulu okanye isicombululo. Ukuba, ngenxa yemigudu yakho, insizwa ingayifumana impela imfundo leyo, malunga nayo ephuphayo, ngoko uya kuba yintsikelelo yangempela, apho uya kuvuyisa kakhulu.
Kwakhona, abanye abantu abatsha bakholelwa ukuba baya kukwazi ukufumana umsebenzi ngaphandle kwediploma. Ngale nto, kubalulekile ukuphikisana nokukhuthaza ukuba ungene eyunivesiti. Umzekelo, ungammema ukuba azame ukufumana umsebenzi, kodwa akakho nanye, kodwa ngomvuzo ohloniphekileyo kwaye uya kuyanelisa iinjongo zakhe, ngexesha elithile. Ukuba akakwazi ukwenza oku, ngoko kufuneka ahambe kwimfundo ephakamileyo kwaye afumane uqeqesho oluza kumnceda kulo. Inokwenzeka ukuba, umfana akayi kukwazi ukufumana umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo, kuba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, kuyimfuneko ukuba abe yingqiqo yokubetha abaqeshi, abaneemfundo zesekondari kuphela. Emva kokuba udliwano-ndlebe oluninzi, iqabane lakho liya kuqiniseka ukuba akusiyo yonke into elula kwaye uya kucinga ngento yokuba ubomi obuhle bufuna ulwazi oluhle kunye nemfundo.
Abanye abantu baxela ukungafuni kwabo ukufunda ukuba iyunivesithi ifundisa izifundo ezininzi ezingenakunomdla kuzo, okanye sele ziyazi. Kule meko, unokufumana indlela yokuphuma. Umzekelo, ngoku kukho amaziko aphakamileyo emfundo, apho kuphela izifundo ezifundiswayo. Ewe, abanye bakholelwa ukuba idiploma yesikhungo esinjalo okanye i-academy ayikwazi ukukhuphisana ne-state, kodwa enyanisweni, kukho amaziko afanelekileyo abo abagqibeleleyo banomsebenzi omhle kunye nomvuzo ohambelana nawo, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, basebenze kwiindawo zabo ezizodwa. Kule meko, kufuneka uqokelele ulwazi oluninzi kwimithombo ethembekileyo kwaye unqume ukuba yeyiphi iziko lemfundo kwisixeko sakho esifanelekileyo kumntu wakho othandekayo.
Enye enye inketho yimibalelwano yemfundo. Kule meko, le ndoda ayifuni ukuchitha ixesha elide lifunda, kodwa ngelo xesha, ukuba nolwazi olwaneleyo, unokukwazi ukuphucula nokufumana idiploma.
Ngendlela, wena ngokwakho ufanele ubeke umzekelo wokulingisa. Ngoko ke, ukuba usenokufunda, unako ukubiza ngeyunivesithi ngamanye amaxesha, ubaxelele nabo ofunda nabo. Vumela umfana wakho aqonde ukuba ubomi bomfundi bunomdla kwaye buhle. Ukuba sele usuqedile izifundo zakho, zama ukufumana umsebenzi omhle kwizinto ezizodwa. Oku kuya kuba bubungqina obubalulekileyo ukuba idiploma inexabiso. Umfana wakho kufuneka aqonde ukuba, emva kokufumana imfundo eqhelekileyo, uya kukwazi ukuxhasa yakhe intsapho, kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba anelise iinjongo zakhe kwaye anandiphe umsebenzi. Ukongezelela, yi-diploma evumela ukuba uhambe kunye neklasi le nqanaba. Ngoko ke, nangona ungekho ixesha elilula emsebenzini, zama ukumxelela ngaye. Kungcono ukukhankanya ngezihlandlo abo bafumene imfundo baze bafezekise impumelelo, kunye nalabo, bengabahlakaniphileyo, kodwa bengenayo idiploma, sebenzela iipennies kwizinto ezizodwa zokuqala. Nangona iqabane lakho lizenza ngathi lingathandeki, ngokwenene uya kuthanda, ukuphulaphula nokuphulaphula ulwazi. Kwaye ukuba udibanisa nabantu abanoluvo, ngoluvo lwakhe ahlala ecingwa ngalo, ngokukhawuleza le ntsha iya kucinga ngokugqithiseleyo ngemfundo ephakamileyo kwaye iya kufaka amaxwebhu eyunivesithi.