Buyisele kumntu owashiya?
Ngoko, qalisa ucinga malunga na kutheni ekushiye? Ubani omele ityala? Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi. Kwaye abanye babo baxhomekeke kwisicwangciso sokubetha kancinci, buyisele kumntu ngenxa yokwenzakala okwenziweyo.
Masithi uthe waqhekeka ngenxa yokuba ungamthandi. Ewe, kakuhle, isicwangciso sendlela um princess ejika ngayo kwiCinderella emva kobusuku bobusuku kuyaziwa kuwo wonke umntu.
Emva koko, sihamba kancane kwiinqwelo zentloko kunye nezihlangu zentambo ezikhululekile, endaweni yesikhwele esifutshane ziza emaphenties - kakuhle, kwaye yintoni? Into ephambili efanelana nawe, kwaye akabonakali engqondweni. Awusayithengi iingubo zangaphantsi ezigqibeleleyo ezitolo - emva koko, sele esebonile zonke iintlobo zakho zentsimbi kwiigobolondo ze-chic, kunye neentshukumo ezifana naye kunokuba zimbethe.
Ingaba kukho ukhenketho olubangele ukuhlukana? Emva koko buyekezele kwi-anti-boyfriend ngenxa yokuba akushiye ngokungafihlakeleyo, kulula! Sifanele sithathe kwakhona: uye kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, uqale ukudla ngokufanelekileyo, wenze i-stylish entsha ye-styles, ubuyele kwi-studs kunye neengubo kwaye uqale ukuqhuba abantu! Eyona nto ingcono kakhulu - phambi komntu ofanayo owakugxothayo. Oku kuya kuba sisihlwayo sakhe esona sikhulu.
Indlela yokuziphindezela kwintombi yangaphambili
Ukuba ufuna, ungayigxotha igunya lakho yinkwenkwe yangaphambili emehlweni abo bahlobo-ndikholelwa, bayayigcina le nto. Olunye udaba lokukhwabanisa ngobuchule malunga nokuba ngubani olahlekile ngokwenene nguye owakhuphayo, uya kutshabalalisa udumo lwakhe ngokukhawuleza, mhlawumbi uya kufuneka akhuthazele ukukrakra okufanayo kuwe ngenxa yokuhamba kwakhe, xa isiqingatha sabahlobo bakhe sishiya kuye.
Kodwa oku, ukuvuma, akuyona indlela ethembekileyo nenomdla. Kuya kuhambelana kuphela namantombazana enqwenela ukunyathela udaka lomntu owayengumntu wokuqala. Nangona kunjalo, isizathu sokuba nomnqweno onjalo akucaci ngokupheleleyo. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, akazange axoxe nawe kwaye akaguqukanga, kodwa wahamba ngokunyanisekileyo, eqonda ukuba awunjalo isibini.
Kwenzeka ukuba loo mntu wayekulahla, kwaye wabuya eguquka kwaye uthetha ngendlela ahlala ngayo ngaphandle kwakho. Ukuba unquma ukuba awuyi kubuyisa nayiphi na into - ngoko ungayidlala kuyo, kwaye uguqule yonke into ibe yindlela yokuphindezela. Yenza sengathi uyamxolela uze umbuyise, uze ulahle ngakumbi nangenkohlakalo kunokuba akwenze. Kodwa le ndlela ayifanelekanga loo mantombazana ayeza kubuya abuyele ubuhlobo obudlulileyo. Into ephambili apha kukukuba uqaphele kwaye ungaphinda ube yintwaphu elahliwe kunye nefuthe.
Enye yeendlela ezinobunzima kunye neentlungu zokubuyisela umntu owayengumfana isithintelo ekuphuhliseni ubudlelwane bakhe obutsha. Enyanisweni, olu khetho lukunqanda ngokupheleleyo ubomi bakho, njengoko kuya kuthatha ixesha elide ukugcina ukuhamba kwendoda yangaphambili. Injongo yakho kukukhubaza amanye amantombazana kuye. Indlela yokwenza ngayo - uthatha isigqibo malunga neemeko. Into ephambili - ingcamango ecebileyo.
Unokuzenza nje ukuba ungumfazi wakhe, kwaye umphose umkhenkce phakathi kwe-cafe, ubize umngane wakhe omtsha ngokuthi "inkosikazi"! Ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kukunyamezela ukuhlambalaza kwaye uya kushiya, ekushiye wedwa ukuxazulula "iingxaki zeentsapho." Enyanisweni, kufuneka ulungele ukuba loo nto inomsindo. Lapha ufanele uqokelele konke ukuthanda kwintonga uze uhambe kakuhle, ngokumomotheka ebusweni bakho, uvumele abanye bazi ukuba awuyena umfazi okhohlisayo ofuna ukuxolelwa, kodwa ophumelelayo!
Kodwa ndifuna ukucebisa ukuba ndingadlala le midlalo. Ekubeni akukho nentsingiselo kubo. Awukwazi ukubuyisela lo mntu, awuyi kumbetha kakhulu, kwaye uza kutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza ukulwa - kwaye uya kuhlala ehleli. Ngoko akukuhle yini ukuyeka ukuhamba kwexesha elidlulileyo, ukulisusa kwaye ulungiselele ubomi obonwabileyo, apho kungekho ndawo yokungcatsha namanga?