Omnye wabahlobo bam sele becebisa ngelithi: umntu okhungathekileyo kufuneka atywe aze agxothwe esifubeni sakhe. Ibhunga lilula, kodwa liyasebenza kakhulu.
Isenzo senani lamaxesha: ukondla.
Isidlo kufuneka sisilungele ukufika komntu othandekayo emsebenzini. Ukutya kufuneka kubonakale kunqwenelekayo, ube yikhalori kunye nekhefu. Imfundo yam kwimimandla yasempuma iphakamisa ukuba isidlo sakusihlwa kufuneka siquke isobho, isiqwenga senyama kunye nento enandile itiye. Kwaye oku kufuneka kube njalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntu uyacaphukisa okanye ayikho. "Andiyi umpheki!" - unokumemeza. Ewe akunjalo, ungumfazi onobuqili onobubele, kwaye isidlo esiphundu sele sesisiqingatha kwimeko elula njengenduduzo yendoda ethandekayo. Sonke sikhumbula le nto ibalulekileyo: indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ilele kwisisu.
Le ndoda iphakame etafileni kwaye ikhukhumeza isisu sayo esiya kwisitya. Akunjalo, akazange adibanise, kodwa nje ukuba kufuneka abe nxaxheba. Mhlawumbi uza kubukela iTV, okanye adlale enye imidlalo yekhompyutheni, okanye aye kwigaraji ukuze alungise imoto yakhe ayithandayo (okanye ukusela nabamelwane). Musa ukuyiphatha. Yiyeke indoda edangele yedwa kunye naye. Kumele ukuba kwenzeke oko kwenzeka. Uya kuqwalasela imeko, uthathe isigqibo esilungileyo kuphela, mhlawumbi, uhlale uzinzile. Qonda, akanalo uhlobo olufanayo lwezesengqondweni njengoko wena. Ukuba umfazi okhungathekileyo uhamba emva kweengcebiso kubahlobo bakhe aze athulule iintloko zabo iingcambu zeengxaki zabo, umntu okhungathekileyo uqale ucinge ngezinto zonke. Akayidingi naluphi na icebiso evela kubahlobo, kunye neengcebiso zakho.
Inombolo yesibini yenxaxheba: fakela esifubeni.
Ngoko, akakho! Ngaba uva? I-NOR-KOG-DA ayifuni ukuyibuza malunga nezizathu ezenza wamcasula. Ufuna - uya kuzixelela. Ukuba uqala "ukukhawula phantsi kweeminwe zakho," uya kumenza nje ingqumbo. Zama ukuphazamisa into ethile, ndixelele ukuba usuku lwakho luhamba njani, kwenzekani kubahlobo bakho, bathethe ngezopolitiko, imozulu, imidlalo, nantoni na! Ukuba kuphela kunokuphazamiseka! Kodwa, qaphela, ungayidluli, nceda, ungakhathali umntu ohluphekileyo. Ingxoxo engenangqondo ingazisa umntu obathandayo kwi-migraine. Yiba neentlonelo kuye, zama ukulungelelanisa nomoya wakhe.
Kungenzeka ukuba ngezinye iingxoxo awuyi kumphazamisa ngokuncedisa. Emva koko thabatha phantsi kwe mouse uze uyihuphe emoyeni omtsha. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuhluka: i-cinema, ithala, ivenkile. Kodwa kuyingozi. Xa umntu egula, akanakukuthanda nje. Ngoko ke, sikhetha ukhetho lokuhamba epakini. Mhlawumbi i-air fresh evening iyakususa iingcinga ezimbi.
Yaye xa ufika ekhaya, lungise ibhanki elimnandi kumntu okhungathekileyo (ibhafu ayikho nje ibhinqa nje kuphela, kholelwa), yenza umsizi ophumayo kuye, kwaye ... ngubani owaziyo xa ubu busuku buphela ...
Kwaye ekugqibeleni. Amantombazana othandekayo, amadoda ayazi indlela yokubulela. Ngentsasa, intanda yam, owayesele ebi kakhulu izolo, uya kulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa, kwaye ngokuhlwa uya kulungelelanisa uhlobo oluthile lokumangalisa.
Khumbula, ukuthanda ngumsebenzi, kunzima nakakhulu ukudala ikhaya lokwenyani ekhaya, apho umthandayo uya kubuya ngokuhlwa ngokulwazi lokuba baya kumnciphisa xa engaphilile.