Kukho imfihlelo emininzi onokuyenza ukuze amadoda athande.
Ukubonakala kwakho kuyisiphambili sakho esikhulu.
Into yokuqala umntu ebeka ingqwalasela ngayo kubonakala kwintombi. Ukubonakala kwakho, isitayela, ukwakheka, isitayela seenwele zizinto eziphambili. Ngaba indoda endiyithandayo iyayiqwalasela.
Ubonakala bakho bube ngumfazi - ingubo, izithende eziphezulu. Kuhlala kulufanele ukugxininisa isidima sakho. Kwaye kufuneka uqonde indlela amadoda athanda ngayo ukunyamezela imilenze emihle.
Isinyathelo sokuqala sele sithathwe - le ndoda yakuchukumisa kuwe, wammangalisa ngobuhle bayo kunye nobunye. Yaye yintoni elandelayo? Amehlo amnandi indoda ayiyi kuzaliswa. Ukuba amadoda awela ngothando, kubalulekile ukuba nehlabathi elithe tye.
Ukuba unomdla kakhulu kwaye uhleka ngokunyanisekileyo amahlaya akhe; ukuba unomusa kwaye unesihe kwabanye; ukuba unobungqina beempawu ezifana nokufudumala, ububele, ukunyamekela, ukukwazi ukuxhasa kunye nokuvalelwa - ngoko indoda ayiyi kuba nayiphi na enye indlela ngaphandle kwangoko xa ethanda wena.
Ukhululekile kwaye uqinisekile, uyazi ukuba ufanele kwaye uzihlonele - umoya omkhulu kunye nendlela yokuphila. Aba bafazi bafunwa nantoni na.
Ukuba unqwenela ukuba amadoda amthandane nawe, ke ungahambi kwizenzo ezingenangqiqo.
Ucinga ukuba oko kwakuya kuphendula njani amadoda, babuze umbuzo olandelayo: "Yintoni enokuyenza ukuze amadoda athande ngothando?"
Phantse kwi-chorus, baya kuphendula ukuba indlela eya ezintliziyweni zabo ilele kwisisu. Akulindelanga? Ngokumangalisayo, kodwa kunjalo ngokwenene.
Ukuthanda abantu, ukuziva iimvo zabo kubo, ukuthandwa kubaluleke kakhulu kuyo yonke intombazana. Bazama okusemandleni abo, bazama ukubonakala, bafunde ukunyenga kunye nokudlala ngothando.
Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka njalo, ukwenza ukuba amadoda amthandane nawe, ukuba bamangalise ngobuhle babo kunye nokukhwabanisa kunzima kwaye akunakwenzeka.
Kunzima ukuqonda okokuthandayo kunye nokuheha amadoda kumabhinqa. Indlela yokuziphatha ukushiya uphawu kwinhliziyo yakhe. I-Psychology yamadoda inzima kakhulu ukuyiqonda. Ewe, kukho amantombazana abathi ngokuphila kwabo baye bafunda ngokugqibeleleyo zonke iimfihlelo zeengqondo zesintu kwaye bangasebenzisa ulwazi lwabo, banqobe iintliziyo kunye nengqondo yabantu.
Amantombazana, amadoda abazingeli. Ukuba nawe ungoyilo, umdla wakhe kuwe uya kutshabalalisa ngokukhawuleza. Njengoko uyazi, amadoda akathandi abesifazana abafumanekayo. Ngoko ke makangacingi ukuba umntu uyisunguli sobudlelwane bakho. Into ephambili kukuba akayikrokreli ukuba uthathe naziphi na izenzo ukuze uthandane naye.
Kufuneka unomdla kuye, njenge-rebus, enzima ukuyixazulula, kodwa awufuni ukuhamba. Ukunxibelelana naye, nwabe kunye nokukhanya. Ungesabi ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakho neemvakalelo zakho.
Kodwa, ngelo xesha, musa ukumbamba rhoqo kwaye unikeze intlanganiso. Kufuneka ube nobomi bakho, ungenzi umntu ube yimbindi yendalo yonke.
Khumbula ukuba ungumfazi. Mnike ithuba lokubonisa ukuba ungokoqobo owaziyo ukuba nomdla kwintombazana aze amnyamekele.
Ngaba ufuna abantu bahlale benothando? Emva koko udlale nabo emdlalweni - ndivumele ukuba ndiziva ukuba uyona mhle kakhulu kwaye kungekhona iyure enye, uya kuthandana naye kwiindlebe.