Lindani, nguye!
Ingaba siyayithanda okanye ayikho, amandla okuqala kumntu onamandla kakhulu ukuba inempembelelo enkulu kumntu okanye into. Iingcali zengqondo zanikela le ngxaki igama elithi imprinting - "imprinting". Ngokusekelwe kwingcamango yokuqala, ingqondo iqala inkqubo yokuthelekisa kunye nezo zibonakaliso eziphambili eziye zenziwe. Oko kukuthi, umfanekiso wesithsaba esihle, malunga neliphuphayo, ngowokuqala ukuva indlebe ngeCinderella, iya kugxininiswa kumfana, imenze ibe yinto efanelekileyo. Kodwa le yinto nje yothando ekuqaleni kokubona, oko kukuthi, ingqiqo epheleleyo yoluvo lokuqala nolungileyo. Masingathembeli kwisiphumo esihle kwiimeko kwaye uzame ukuphazamisa umbono we-MCH.
Ngaphandle kwamagama
Ngoko, uyabona "into" - indoda, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka wenze into ethile ngokukhawuleza - yenyuka, mvalele, uqhelane, ncokola, nbulela kwiindlela ezininzi zokukholisa umntu. Mhlawumbi sele uyayazi ukuba ininzi yolwazi esiyifumana kwiimpawu ezingekho ngamagama - kuba umntu ubheka, uhamba, ubukeka. Ukuqala ukucinga, oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Yintoni eya kusebenza ngokuqinisekileyo? U ku kholosa. Umntu ongaqinisekanga akanako ukuzola, kwaye ukuxhalaba kufundwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye kuyenze ukunyaniseka, nokuba uzama ukuzenza ngathi konke kulungile. "Uhlobo" nje kuphela alufanele lwenziwa. Hlaziya. Akukho nantloni eyenzekayo.
Eli nqaku lilandela ngokuthe ngqo ukusuka kwangaphambili. Ungamamatheli kumntu kwaye ungazami ukuthukuthela ngokuthatha isithuba sokumisa okanye ukuma kwakho-kuya kubonakala, kwaye umphumo awuyi kusebenza. Ngomzamo wokubetha kwindawo leyo, akudingeki ukuba ubonise i-hybrid ye-clown kunye nomdlali we-movie othulileyo. Ukubonakalisa ubuso obubonakalayo ngokubanzi kubonakala kungenakwaneleyo. Ukumomotheka ngokusondeleyo kukuqala. Emva koko gxininisa kwimeko. Izwi eliphantsi, Kakade, akudingeki ukuba uthethe ngokuthe ngqo nge-bass. Zama nje ukuthetha ngokuphantsi njengokwemvelo kuwe. Jonga ngokucacileyo. Igama elithi "ukucacisa" lithetha, okokuqala, ukuba awuyi kujonga iqhawe ngokuqhubekayo, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ugxininise amehlo akho malunga noloyiko ukumjonga. Ngendlela, khumbula udumo "kwikona - ekhaleni - kwinqanaba"? Akunjalo ihlaya: ukunyuka kwamehlo e-diagonally ukusuka kwi-bottom up kuyacaca kakhulu. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, kudinga ukuqeqeshwa okufutshane. Unokuzama okwangoku kwangaphambili phambi kwesibuko, ukuze uhlome ngokupheleleyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
Kwaye ngoku siza kuthetha
Masithembele ukuba akudingeki uyenze ukulinganisa kuphela kunye nokuzibonakalisa.
Kwimeko "yokuqala ngcaciso" yeendlela ezifanelekileyo zokuthetha nomfana akunjalo. Unokuzama ukuthetha ngokubonga ngezindlela eziliqela zokukholisa umfana: Yenza ukuncoma. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ibe yinyaniso kwaye ifaneleke kakhulu - ayiyiyo into. Makhe azive njengengcali. Buza nayiphi na umbuzo malunga noko loo nto uyayiqonda kakuhle (kodwa ubuncinane udideke kwisicwangciso se-subway). Ukuba "umphulaphuli" othethekileyo akuthethi ukuthula, "ngokuchaseneyo, faka ukudibanisa kunye neempendulo, ezibonisa ukuba uyayiqonda yonke into kwaye unomdla kuyo. Cinga ngezivakalisi eziqingqiweyo kwiintlanganiso zeshumi okanye ngokubhaliweyo. Kwaye kulungile ukukhuphela kwangaphambili izinto ezinomsindo: iipumlo ezixhambileyo, i-chewing gum okanye ukutya emlonyeni wakho.
Umsebenzi wasekhaya
Ukuba unethamsanqa kwaye unethuba lokufumanisa kwangaphambili iimfuno kunye nokukhetha, kufuneka ulungiselele. Okokuqala, qaphela ngokuthanda kwakhe kumculo kunye nefashoni. Sekunjalo, sithinteka ngakumbi kubantu abanjengathi, kwaye nesihloko sencoko siya kuba lula ukuyifumana. Zama ukuqagela zeziphi iimpawu kumantombazana ezomtsalayo. Zama nje ukubamba ingcamango ebalulekileyo, ingcamango, mhlawumbi nayo. Ngaba umtsalane wakhe uyamtsala okanye ukhetha amantombazana asebenzayo, angenakunqandwa?
Ngexesha elifanayo, amafomathi angaphezulu kwekhonkethi afana "nomntu othanda ama-blondes kuphela" okanye "engabandakanyekanga kumantombazana kwi-mini" unokuphepha ngokukhawuleza phezu kweendlebe. Iingxelo ezinjalo zihlala zingenakwenzeka kwinyani, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba uqaphele ingqalelo yintando enqabileyo kwimizuzu encinane, nokuba unobhantshi kwi-jeans.
Ukulungisa umfanekiso ongalunganga
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uphupha kangakanani malunga nolwazi "njengomdlalo we-movie", iintshukumo ezingenangqiqo kunye neengqiqo zishiya iinkumbulo ezicacileyo. Ngoko ukuba unomuzwa wokuthi unako "ukuphazamisa" ngqongqo yejisi phezu kwayo, mema ukudanisa xa kungekho namnye udaniso, okanye wenze into engakumbi, ibe yinto efanelekileyo. Kodwa ukuba ungathandabuzeki nokuba uphononongo, ungenzi nto enjalo nangayiphi indlela. Ukuziphatha kwakho akufanele kube ngumsebenzi kwaye kuhlutywa. Ngaphambi kokuba wenze nantoni na, ungacingi nje ngempembelelo eya kuba nayo kuwo, kodwa malunga neenduduzo zakho ngeendlela ezininzi zokukholisa umntu.
Amandla okuqala okucinga ngendoda inkulu kangangokuba akulula ukutshintsha uluvo malunga nawe ekuqaleni kwenxibelelwano.
Ukuthanda ekuqaleni ekubona akuwona umsebenzi olula. Kodwa siya kuyisombulula!