Kwaye silapha imihla ngemihla ehleli kwiingxoxo nakwiinkonzo zentlalo enethemba lokuhlangana nomntu onokuxoxa naye. Kwaye ngoku, kubonakala ngathi ufumene (ubuncinci, ucinga ngaloo nqanaba), usuku nosuku, ubukele xa ebonakala kwi-intanethi kwaye ulinde, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ummangaliso uya kwenzeka kwaye uya kubhala kuwe. Kodwa kholwani mna, imimangaliso ayifumaneki. Ngoko ke, ungalindeli "ulwandle lwemozulu" kwaye uqale ukwenza ngokwalo. Bhala nje kuqala. Masicinge kunye nendlela yokuqala incoko nomfana kwi-intanethi?
Okokuqala, kufuneka ubeke phambi kwakho into oyifunayo kwizinto ozikhethile. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, awukwazi ukwenza ngokucacileyo, ukhokelwa kuphela yinto oyithandayo. Uvalo luhluke. Ngokomzekelo, unokuthanda nje kuphela njengomhlobo, kulo mzekelo, amaqhinga okulwa ahluke ngokupheleleyo. Into eyona nto ayikukudibanisa umvakalelo onobubele kunye nomoya wokukhanga kumntu, kungenjalo kukho ukungaqondani phakathi kwakho okungenakwenzeka ukuba nefuthe lokunxibelelana kwakho. Ngoko, uqala njani incoko kunye nomfana kwi-Intanethi? Khumbula nayiphi na inxibelelwano yokuqala, nokuba iyinto ebonakalayo okanye ebomini yangempela, kufuneka isekelwe kwisicwangciso esisodwa esakhiwe ngokucacileyo: ukuseka uqhagamshelwano, ukuxelela ngoku, ngokwakho amagama, "intetho ngokwayo," kwaye ngokuthe ngqo, unxibelelwano ngokwalo incoko kunye nezigqibo malunga nexesha elizayo lolwalamano lwakho (umzekelo, ukudibana nobomi boqobo).
Isinyathelo sesibini omele uqalise ukuqalisa uqhagamshelwano kukuqokelela ulwazi malunga nalo mfana. I-Prostudiruy ukusuka ku "A ukuya ku-Z" yeembuzo zakhe kunye nama-albhamu yezithombe kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi (VKontakte, Classmates, FaceBook, iingxoxo ezahlukeneyo apho ahleli khona), bona ukuba unabohlobo abaqhelekileyo abanokukunceda ukwazi kakuhle kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kwiifoto, qaphela indlela achitha ngayo ixesha lakhe lokukhulula, zeziphi izibonelelo azityelelayo, nokuba usebenza ngokwakhe. Oku kuya kukunceda ufunde ngokubanzi malunga nomdla wakhe, izinto ezithandwayo, umculo ozithandayo, iifilimi, njl. Ngendlela, kungenzeka ukuba unomdla othile kwinto ethile, kwaye le nto sele idibene, kwaye ukwazi ngokubanzi malunga kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uqhagamshelane naye. Kwaye, ngendleleni, gcwalisa imibuzo yakho ngokugqithiseleyo, loo nto yayiya kuba yindoda eyayinomdla malunga nokuba ngubani othetha naye. Yiya kwi-albhamu yakho yefowuni ye-elektroniki, wabeka iifoto zakho ezifanelekileyo, ngokukhethekileyo kwiindawo ezihlukeneyo kunye neendawo apho ukhona khona, ukuba uya kubona ukuba ungumntu ongumntu ongumama wengqingili. Iifoto zabantu kufuneka zicaca, apho ubuso bakho bubonakala ngokucacileyo kwaye bubonakala ngokucacileyo. Ukuba unamehlo amahle, iinwele, izipongo, gxi ninisa oku kwimifanekiso yakho.
Ukuqala kokunxibelelana nomgangatho: "Sawubona! Unjani? ". Ngendlela, enye "ukudibanisa" yinto yokuba abafana, njengomthetho, banakho amathuba okuthetha namantombazana, ngoko qalisa ingxoxo yakho ngegama elingenakuthetha, ngokuqinisekileyo, akufanele. Ewe, ukuba, ngokwenene, ufuna yonke into kanye, ubhale kuye into ethi "Sawubona! Ukhangelelana njani na ukuba uqhelane nentombazana enhle kwaye ikhulile! "Okomzekelo," ubabalo, kwaye awukwazi ukutshela ... ", kwaye ke ke uyayifaka. Impendulo yakhe iya kukuxelela indlela yokuziphatha ngayo ngakumbi.
Kwaye nantsi udibaniso lwakho lokuqala lwenzeka. Ungaphuthelwa yinto yokuba uqalile ukuthetha nalo mntu, mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi, kwindawo ethile ekudeni komphefumlo uya kudana, elindele into ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba abantu abalungileyo abakho, ngoko musa ukuyeka ngoko nangoko. Mhlawumbi ebomini boqobo akayiyo yonke loo nto. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, nangayiphi na imeko, unganyanzelisi ngokunyanzeliswa ngaphandle kweengcebiso, yiba nguwe, akukho mzekelo ungamkhohlisi, mhlawumbi, uphendule yonke imibuzo njengokuba (ungaqalisi intetho kunye nenkohliso, kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kuba yinyani). Mbonise umdla wakho, indlela othanda ukuthetha naye, indlela enomdla ngayo. Xelela okuthile okuthakazelisayo ngawe, zakho izinto zokuzilibazisa, abahlobo (ibali ukusuka kwabo okanye ubomi bakho), yenze umfanekiso wakho entloko. Ewe, akufanelekile ukuthetha ngawe, oko akufuna ukwazi, uya kuzibuza. Zama ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yakhe ngaphandle kokushiya impendulo, kwaye unganqikazi ukumbuza oko kukuthandayo. Futhi ungakulibali ukushiya ubuncinci ulwazi oluthile lwendibano ebomini bokwenene. Zama ukuhleka, umzekelo, ukulahla ii-anecdotes okanye izixhumanisi ezihlekisayo. Ndicinga ukuba ngeli nqanaba uza kuba neembono ezicacileyo. Kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba ungubani umntu ohleli ngaphesheya kweso sihlo. Kwaye ke ulwazi lwakho ngaye luya kukunceda, owalususayo kwiimviwo zakhe. Ukuxhasa incoko, sinxuse ukuxubusha ifilimu, incwadi (konke kwisakhelo seminqweno yakhe), ukuba unesihawu esivanayo, akuyi kuba yinto engacingi ukuba akhuphe kule nto. Zama ukubuza uluvo lwakhe ngakumbi, unokwazi ukuxubusha ngento ethile. Ukufakwa koqhagamshelwano kunye nombono wokuqala kule nqanaba sele kugqityiwe. Musa ukugoba intonga yokunxibelelana, ngolunye usuku ulwazi oluninzi, luninzi. Ungakulibali ukuba nayiphi na intetho yonxibelelwano kufuneka igqitywe (ngendlela efanelekileyo yelizwi), siyabonga, ngoqhagamshelwano kunye neengcebiso, njengoko kuya kuba mnandi ukuqhuba oku kwixesha elizayo.
Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, njengoko uqhubeka nencoko yakho, unokutshintshanisa iinombolo zefowuni. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukuba engazange akwenze oko, wammema ngomnene ukuba adibana kunye nobomi bokwenene. Ndicinga ukuba ngelo xesha uya kuqonda ukuba ulungele njani kunye. Futhi ungakulibali into yokuba ukubukeka kuyinto ekhohlisayo, ngoko ungakhokheli kwakhona kwisithombe esihle.