Ngoko, yintoni emangalisa ukwenza umntu ngokuhlonelana? Yintoni eyayiza kukubamba ingqalelo, yenza ukuba aphinde azithande? Imilinganiselo, eqinisweni, inamba enkulu - ukuzalwa nokusebenza kwabo kuxhomekeke kuphela kwiingcamango zakho kwaye unomnqweno wokwenene ngokwenene kumntu omthandayo.
Masiqale ngamanqaku amnandi - angasetyenziselwa ukukhumbula ukuxolelana emva kokuxabana, kodwa nakwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Le yintando "yansuku zonke" ephakamisa imizwa kwaye inika umva wenjabulo yonke imini. Yenza izinto ezintle ezingalindelekanga!
Ewe, ukuba uhlala kunye - ngoko kuya kuba lula ukwenza. Thenga ii-postcards ezincinci zokuthandana, okanye ukusika iintliziyo ezininzi ezincinci, uzibhalele amagama okuzisola, isicelo sokuxolelwa nokuvuma uthando, uze uzifihle apho ungaboni khona ngeaso iso, kodwa apho umthandayo ohlala ehlala khona. Beka intliziyo kwipokothini yakhe yebhulukhwe - kwaye phakathi kwentsuku yokusebenza, xa ekhuphuka ukufumana ifowuni okanye izitshixo ngaphandle kwepokothini yakhe, uya kufumana umyalezo wakho othobekileyo kwaye ozele. Yaye, ukuba akayena umntu ongenamdla, uya kuxolela ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yokwahlukana okukrakra. Xa, ngendlela, wayenetyala kwaye naye-emva koko, ulwa nemizamo yakho efana!
Ukuba unetalente yenkondlo - ngokuqhelekileyo inkulu! Mbhale u-ode uthando, xelele ukuba uxolo kangakanani malunga nokuxabana, ubuninzi obuthandayo. Khumbula kule vesi zonke ezo zihlandlo ezithandekayo ezintliziyweni zakho. Izilwanyana, eziyaziwa kuphela wena kunye naye, kwaye zithinta iingcingo ezinzulu kakhulu zomphefumlo.
Mhlawumbi, uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntu wakho uphulaphule isiteshi somsakazo othile ngexesha elithile? Umzekelo, ngelixa uqhuba, okanye uhleli esihlalweni somsebenzi? Emva koko funda-ingabe kukho nayiphi na idluliselo kwixesha elidlulisa izibuliso zomculo? Ukuba u-ewe-ogqwesileyo! Ndicinga ukuba sele uqikelele oko ungakwenza ... unike indoda yakho ingoma yothando ngothando - kuhle ukuba isibini sakho sine "ingoma yokufuzisela". Umzekelo, omnye owamanga kuqala, okanye odlalele kwi cafe, xa efika kuwe ukudibana ... Yenza umyalezo ofudumele ngamagama okuxolela-kwaye umthumele lo mbuliso onomnandi. Vumela oogxa nabo bonke iofisi inzondo yakhe yolonwabo!
Ngendlela, ukhumbula apho kwaye nini nawanga kuqala? Iyintoni le ndawo? Mhlawumbi uya kuhombisa kwangaphambili ngeebhola kunye nemibhalo "Ndiyaxolisa" kwaye "Ndiyakuthanda", iifoto kunye neentliziyo zakho jikelele? Ukuba kunjalo, yenza konke, faka ikhandlela uze ubuze omnye wabahlobo bakho ukuba "bahlangule" umfana kule ndawo nangayiphi na indlela. Ndiqinisekile ukuba loo nto iyothusa iya kuba yinto engcono kakhulu enokuyenza ngokuzuzisa ukuxolelana nentombi yakho ethandekayo.
Ukuba umhlobo wakho - umthandi wesidlo esihlwabusayo, unokuzincwina izono zakho ngoncedo lwesidlo esikhulu esilungiselelwe ngezandla zakho. Ukuhambelana okufanelekileyo kweso sidlo kuya kuba ngumculo owuthandayo, iibhandlela ezicocekileyo ezinamathele kwiiglasi ezibukrakra phakathi kwamagqabi avukile, kwaye wena, omhle, ohlakaniphile, othobelayo kwaye ufuna!
Enye into enokumangaliswa ngayo nomfana wakho kule ncwadi. Ewe, kwakunobumba, njengendlela endala: ebhaliwe ngesandla, etywinwe kwimvulophu kunye neposi. Unokwenza imvulophu ngokwakho, uyihlobise kakuhle kwaye uyihlobise ngento ethile. Ngaphakathi ungagcini nje kuphela iincwadi ezintle kunye neentlekele zomphefumlo, kodwa, umzekelo, ithikithi kwi-cinema (kakuhle, ukuba yonke into ikulindeleke: iseshoni yokugqibela, umgca wokugqibela, kunye neskrini - i-melodrama echukumisayo) okanye kwikhonkta apho wavuya khona yakho inqabileyo.
Ukulungiselela le nyathelo kunokuthatha ixesha elithile. Ukuqala, kufuneka uhlobise indawo egumbini apho "i-truce" yakho iya kwenzeka khona. Ukufezekisa ngokufanelekileyo iibhaloni, iintliziyo zentambo, iintyatyambo. Musa nje ukuyiqhayisa ukuze igumbi lakho lingakhange libukeke njengegadi edibeneyo, eyakhiwe ngokufanelekileyo. Thenga ityhuvayi, ukukhupha iphunga elincinci kwaye lingapheli. Ungakulibali ngokukhanya kwesikhanyiso - unokukwazi nokuvumba. Kodwa kungekhona ngokubukhali, ngaphandle koko yonke ingqwalasela iya kugxila kwizinto ezivumbayo kwindlu yakho.
Nika ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwibhokisi yakho yokudibanisa. Ukusabalalisa ubhedu obuncwane, ngokukhethekileyo ukusuka kwisatin okanye isilikhi - ezi zinto ziphosa kakhulu isikhumba, ngaloo ndlela ziyamnceda umntu ngakumbi. Ukuba ufuna - ungafafaza umbhede kunye neepasal rose, ukuze ube nempembelelo engcono.
Unakekele iingubo zakho. Kufuneka abe ngumntu okhukhumezayo kunye nococeko, into ephambili kukuba uyakufanelana nawe, ungagxininisi ukunyakaza kwaye uvule zonke iintsimbi zakho, kodwa kungabi yinto engcolileyo kunye neengcolileyo, kodwa ngokucophelela, ukugcina imfihlelo.
Ukuba uyintombazana enesibindi, yilungiselele umdlalo odlala umdlalo wakho - uya kuwuxabisa, emva kokuzonwabisa okuya kukulibala ukuba wakha wakucaphukisa. Yiya kwisitoreli sendlela ethile-kwaye uzikhethele yona kunye naye-yiba nesibindi, uzame ukuhlukahluka!
Ukumemela kulolu suku lokuhlwaya uxolo kungabakho ngandlela-thile. Ngokomzekelo, enye ipastadi ekhangayo. Unokwazi ukuchukumisa abahlobo uze uyibe, ngokunikezela kuwe ngamehlo eboyiweyo. Uhambo lwenkcazo luyamkeleka kuphela!
Kodwa. Naluphi na indlela yoxolelaniso oyikhethayo, into eyona nto kukukwenza konke ngomphefumlo, ngothando, utyalo-mali kuyo yonke into enomyinge wakho womphefumlo. Yaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyibona kwiinyembezi zakho-ephosakeleyo amehlo ukuba uyaguquka ngokwenene, kwaye uya kukuxolela. Ukuxolelana kuya kuba namandla, emva koko uya kuphinda ubetshise ngothando olungakumbi, uvutha ngeemvakalelo zakho, ungabonakali ngelo xesha, ngelixa uxabana!