Makhe sithethe ngomntu oqhelekileyo othanda ibhinqa kwaye ekhangeleka kakhulu. Ufuna ntoni indoda inesifazana okanye umlingiswa womntu? Mhlawumbi, ukuba uphile umphefumlo emphefumlweni, kodwa kuthekani malunga nenkxaso ebomini? Ngokomzekelo, gxuma ngovuyo, kwaye uyaphuma nawe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzila, uyakhala. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi abayiqondi into abayifunayo. Khawucinge ngomntu onomlingani wesetyhini. Abafazi bazivakalelwa njani ngamadoda amancinci? Kwaye kulo mlingeni kukho i-pluses kunye ne-minuses.
Ukutshata "imbongi"
Khawucinge ngomntu osebenza kakuhle, akabheki, akaphuzi. Unentlonelo, uyakhala, akhangele ukushona kwelanga. Akayi kuphikisana, ukuba ufuna ukuya naye echibini, uya kuhamba nawe, kwaye ukuba uya kuhlala ekhaya kulobu busuku, uya kukuqonda. Ngaphambi kwethu luhlobo lomlobi wesilisa. Kodwa abaninzi abafazi abayithandi le nto. Ngaphandle kokuba uneminyaka eyi-16 ubudala. La madoda ayenakwenzeka ebomini, nayiphi na ubunzima obangela ukuba ahlaziyeke. Ibhinqa elisondele kule ndoda kufuneka iqiniseke. Ngamanye amaxesha ebomini abukho ubuhle, kwaye xa ukhalela isibini, kuya kubangela iziphumo ezimbi.
Amadoda abadlali abakhulu
Abafazi abaninzi banokudlala "kumama", phulaphula ukuvuma umntu, usule impumlo yakhe. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo elinde umntu ukuba libe yidwala endifuna ukulifihla kwiimvula neziphepho. Ebomini, akukho ncinane abantu abaya kubakho udonga olubanzi kwaye bavule umphefumlo. Bese badlala. Imfihlo yomntu ophumelelayo kukuba akayi kuba namandla xa "engadlali" indoda. Amadoda abadlali abakhulu. Xa indoda enjalo ibona ukuba ibhinqa lihlaziye, akayikunyamekela iimvakalelo zakhe, uyindoda kwaye ayifanele asabele. Kodwa musa ukukhawuleza ukugweba, mhlawumbi ufuna ukukhala, ngokuqhelekileyo umntu uyazibamba iimvakalelo. Ngoko umfanekiso wenza ukuba akwenze, akafuni ukulahlekelwa yintlonelo.
Unyana kaMamenkin
Indoda enomntu onobubele ayikwazi ukuzibona ngaphandle, ngoko ungaba neentloni. Uya kukwazi ukuba kwenzekani emphefumlweni womntu wakho. Kule nto ndifuna ukuhlala ndedwa kunye nokuphumla. Le ndoda yedwa nonina. Akakwazi ukudala umlinge ngaphandle kwentsholongwane enamandla. Ubunyameko bomntu bunqunywe ebuntwaneni, xa ufuna ukususa unyana wakho kumama wakho. Kwiminyaka edlulileyo, abaninzi abantu baxoshe le nkwenkwe kunina, bamthumela ukuba bafunde, basebenze, bawuvalile phakathi kwamakhwenkwe afanayo. Mhlawumbi kukuhle ukuhlala nomntu onobubele. Cinga ngemiphumo kunye neqhayiya lendoda:
Iinkonzo:
- Uncinci kuni nonke, uzive unamandla.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo uyindoda enentsapho, uyabathanda abantwana.
- Akakwazi ukuba nomona.
- Awudingi ukujonga umhlobo, indoda yintombi yakho ukuthetha intliziyo ngentliziyo.
- Ebusweni akayi kukumangalela nantoni na, kwaye kulungile.
- Unako ukuthenga kunye nawe yonke imini.
Umgcini:
- Uya kutyhukiswa naye.
- Uza kunxinwa ukuvuma kwakhe, udideke kwiintlobo zakhe, unakho.
- Ngomzuzu obunzima, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuxhasa. Uya kuqala ukuva nawe, endaweni yokukwazi ukuzinqabisa njengomntu.
- Akayena omnye walabo abaya kwenza imali eninzi, ngenxa yokuba akukho mlingiswa.
- Ubomi obusondeleyo, awuyi kufinyelela ezintabeni, uya kuba nokulangazelela indoda enamandla.
Zifune ukuba yeyiphi indoda enyifunayo, kufuneka uchithe iminyaka kunye naye. Kukho amabhinqa okubanjiswayo, ukuthula, ubumnyama abudlali naluphi na indima. Ngamanye amaxesha umfazi ushada nomntu onobubele kwaye uhlala naye ubomi bakhe bonke, kodwa utyhafile. Kwaye omnye umfazi ukhetha indoda enamandla, kunye naye kukho iingxabano, ukungaqondani, kodwa ukuhlala naye kunomdla.