Yintoni umfazi ayenokuyicinga ngomntu
- Umfazi kufuneka ayeke ukuba ngumfazi kwaye abe ngumntu.
- Kumele ayeke ukulwa nam, kuba akunakunceda: Ndisenamandla. Kodwa ukuba uyaphumelela, ndiza kuba yinto ekhukhuniweyo, eyona nto iyingozi ngakumbi kokubili.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lifunde ukuphulaphula kwam, kwaye lingenzi ngathi ukuphulaphula. Kwaye, kuyimfuneko ukuzwa, kungekhona nje ukuphulaphula. Kukulungele ukuphulaphula amagama kwaye uzame ukuqonda intsingiselo yabo nokuba yintoni emele emva kwabo, kunokusabela ngobuwula kwisandi sam kunye nezwi.
- Umfazi makangamangaleli nayiphi na into. Itshabalalisa i-SPIRIT yam, kwaye ndivakalelwa kwaye ndithandwa.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lindincede. Ukuba akayikuhlamba, isinyithi, susa, ulungiselele, ngoko ndingazenza ngokwam, kodwa ke, uya kundibonisa njani ukukhathazeka kwakhe?
- Ibhinqa lifanele livuyiswe kukuba indoda yanyamekela. Izigidi zabasetyhini zithintele oku. Oku kubakhokelela ekudakaleni, ukuhlambalaza, ukuxhatshazwa kwabantu besini kunye nabanye abathintela ubuhlobo boluntu obuqhelekileyo phakathi kwezesondo.
- Xa sifana naye, umfazi akufanele akhathale ingqalelo kwimiba yangaphandle: ingaba ndinemali, nokuba ngaba ndiqhuba imoto, nokuba ngaba ndinokukhula okuphakamileyo, ibhanki okanye umceli, ngaba ndinendawo ye-bald, ndiyidla ebusuku kwaye yintoni ipasipoti yam ubudala.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka likwazi ukuba, ubuncinane, uyandithanda.
- Ibhinqa alifanele lililele ngeenyanga, lingamvumeli ukuba achukumise umzimba, aziphathe ngokungathi uyintombazana eneminyaka engamashumi amane.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lizinyamekele iindlela zakhe zokuzikhusela ngokwayo. Ukukhulelwa, akufanele atshintshe kum yonke imisebenzi epheleleyo kwaye asongela ukuzibulala.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lidibanise umama onothando, umthandi othembekileyo othembekileyo kunye nenkosikazi enhle.
- Ibhinqa akufanele libulale ixesha lam, ndiyazi izihlobo zayo ngaphandle komnqweno wam kwaye ndiqale i-perestroika kwindlu yam ngaphandle kwemvume yam.
- Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ukuba umfazi uhlala ngokwahlukileyo, kwaye sithandana kude, kwaye sidibana xa sifuna.
- Ibhinqa akufanele ithathe izinto zam ngaphandle kwemfuno, kodwa ukuba yenzayo, zibeke endaweni enye.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lipheke oko licinga ukuba lifanele lithande, kodwa yintoni esithatha isisu sayo.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lihambe ngeenxa zonke kwindlu njengokwesabisa. Kufuneka ahlale ehlambulukileyo eneempahla ezintle.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lihlale libukele ubuso kunye nobuso. Ukuba akayiyo, ubungozi obuhlala bubodwa.
- Ibhinqa akufanele ilwele ukundihlula kumgangatho wecandelo (ukhuphiswano lokugqibela, isikhundla, njl). Ukuphumelela apha, yena, ekupheleni, uya kulahleka ekhaya, kwintsapho.
- Ibhinqa akufanele, emva kokugcoba iingubo, kumfakela iintsuku eziliqela, ndiphoqelele ukuba ndiyichukumise iphunga elimnandi.
- Ibhinqa akufanele ithathe imali kum, kuba ngaphandle kwemali kwaye ingazazi amaxabiso, ndiya kufikelela kwisigqibo sokuba andifuni.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lixoke kum.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lithandana nomnye umntu, kufuneka litsho ngokunyanisekileyo ngalo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lindimthanda, kufuneka lixelele ngokukhawuleza.
- Ibhinqa akufanele litshintshe, oko kukuthi, ukulala nomnye umntu okanye umfazi.
- Umfazi makangamemezeli, amcaphukise kwaye ahlazise isithunzi sam sabantu.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lisisebenzise ngenxa yeenjongo zakhe zokuzibulala, zizenza ngathi ngathi, ngelixa eqinisweni ufezekisa uhlobo oluthile lwezinto eziphathekayo okanye zokuziphatha kum.
- Xa siphikisana ... Kulungile ukuba ungaxabani nam.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lithengele ngemali, kuba kule ngxaki ndiya kuziva ngathi ndihenyukazi, kwaye ekugqibeleni, uya kuhlala kunye neempumlo.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lilwele ukulingana, kungekhona egameni lokuthatha amandla apheleleyo.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lenze into endiyifunayo.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka libe neminqweno yobugcisa kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa ukuze angabi nexhala lokuphila.
- Ulwalamano lwethu kufuneka lwakhiwe ngesiseko sokunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka nokuhlonelana omnye nomnye.
- Ukuba umfazi akakwazi ukundiqonda, ngoko makheke ukuba azame ukwenza oko.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lifune ukuba ndidibana nayo.
- Umfazi kufuneka asebenze ngokwakhe aze aphuhlise njengomntu. Kule meko kuphela inokuba ngumntu.
- Ibhinqa akufanele liphathe njengokuba umntu wayenokwenza konke kuye kunye nexesha elifunekayo ukwenza into ethile.
- Umfazi akufanele acinge ukuba ukuba ndilala naye, ngoko unamalungelo onke kum.
- Ukuba ibhinqa ngumphathi wam, ngoko maxa wambi, akufanele abe neengcamango zakhe zemisebenzi yezobugcisa, anikezele inyaniso kwimeko yokugqibela, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ndiqwalasele i-idiot.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka likwazi ukudlala imidlalo yokuzonwabisa kwaye idibanise, ilungiselela isondo.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lifune kum kumboniso wothando, kuba ngoko ndimele ndibe ngumntu ongeyinyaniso kunye nobuxoki.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lenze sengathi lithethi, kuba ndiyakwenza enye.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lifune ukulala naye xa ndingayifuni.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lifunde ukuqonda oko indoda ifuna.
- Ibhinqa akufanele lizame ukungifaka kumathanga omtshato.
- Ibhinqa lifanele lidumise, likhuthaze kwaye likhuthaze ukuba ndiyenze.
- Into ephambili ibhinqa kufuneka ibe nayo kukuba akufanele ihlawulwe mntu nantoni na.
- Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ibhinqa limele liyamkele njengam, okanye ngamanye amazwi, THANDA. Kwaye ndinayo!