Ngoko, luhlobo luni lwababhinqa ababenokuthi abantu bangaphutha? Umbhali oyindoda utyhila zonke iimfihlelo zokungahambelani kwengqondo yesintu neyesetyhini.
Ngoko, ukuba umfazi ...
1. Ukupheka kakubi
Indoda, eneneni, ayiyikugcoba, ngoko ndikulungele ukutya ukupheka, ekulungiselela umfazi ongekho nto. Ngaphezu koko, ibinzana elithi "indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ilele ngesisu" ivuliwe ngokusemthethweni ngexesha lethu, xa kukho nasiphi na ivenkile ungathenga ukutya okulungiselelwe. Ukongezelela, amadoda anamhlanje kwaye enze okungenani njengabasetyhini.
Into emele ukuba ithathelwe ingqalelo ngumfazi onokuthi: ukuba awukwazi ukupheka, kungcono ukuhlawulela le mpazamo.
Emva koko, eneneni, akunakwenzeka ukuba ujabule nomyeni ongazi ukwenza ekhaya oko kuthiwa ngumntu wesilisa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ulungile kangakanani. Enye into, ukuba ufumana imali engaphezu kokwanele ukwenza lo msebenzi wenziwe ngumnye umntu.
2. Uchitha omnye usuku yonke imivuzo
Qaphela nje-ukuba oko akukwenzekayo yonke ixesha okanye ukuba intsapho inemali eyaneleyo, inokuxolelwa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kumfazi wesigxina kukhona inhlonipho encinane yamadoda (kunye nokunyuka kwabanye abesifazana), kodwa kwelinye - lo mpawu ubonisa ngenye indlela "umvuzo" kumntu othandekayo.
Inani lembuyekezo lixhomekeke kwisilinganisi sokukhutshwa komsebenzi, esingaqhelekanga njengoko kunokwenzeka.
Emva koko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukwaneliseka kowesifazane xa engakwaziyo ukunikezela ngokwahlukileyo okanye ukucwangcisa uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, kodwa kufuna kuphela imali kumntu kwaye akayi kunika nayiphi na into yokubuyisela - kungekudala kamva ezo zihlobo ziya kugqitywa .
Ngoko ukuba ungazi indlela yokusebenzisa imali ngobulumko, ngoko ubuncinane ngengqondo eziphatha kwezinye iindawo zobomi.
3. Jonga uchungechunge lweeyure uze ucoxe kwifowuni
Indoda inokulixolela intanda yakhe, ukuba uninzi lwasemini ayiyi kunikwa, kodwa kumhlobo okanye kwiTV.
Ekugqibeleni, udinga ingqwalasela engaphantsi kwezesondo ezifanelekileyo. Ngeli xesha, uyavuya ukuhlala kwikhompyutha okanye iphephandaba. Ekugqibeleni, uya kudlala nabahlobo bakhe echibini xa uxakeke kwiindaba zakho.
Ngoko, kuba ukuba umfazi unomdla wokufanayo, akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukusombulula into efana nesiqingatha sakhe sesibini .
Kodwa ukuba intombazana yakho ifakwe kwisephaphu kunye neentombi zamaninzi kangangokuthi akaqapheli indlela obuyele ngayo emsebenzini, nantoni na ukutya nokuba uhlala ekhaya nonke, ngoko ke: mhlawumbi akunakwenzeka ukuba ulindelekile.
4. Ndiya kutyelela ixesha elide
Ewe, ngokuqhelekileyo kuyacaphukisa. Ngokukodwa okokuqala, okanye xa sele usufikile, kwaye umfazi wexesha eliphukileyo akanakukwazi ukubona ukuba yiyiphi i-blouse ayifanele ayigqoke.
Kodwa ekugqibeleni uyasetyenziswa kulo mgca, uqala ukuthanda. Zigweba wena: yintoni enye indoda enokuthi ibone ukubonakalisa okuntle kakhulu kwimizekelo kumfazi wayo ?
Ndiyazi ukuba inani lamadoda afunda "Ukunyuka kwamaTyhini" alukho ngaphantsi kwenani labasetyhini, ngako-ke kule ngcebiso isiluleko kubo. Tshela umfazi wakho ukuba ufuna ukutyelela, umzekelo, kungekhona ngo-19.00, kodwa ngeyure ngaphambili. Yilo xesha lokugcinwa kwexesha kwaye uya kuhamba naye.
5. Uthandayo ukutya, "olubeka" lonke intsapho
Nangona ukuba "ulawulo lolawulo" olunamandla kangangokuba indoda ayikwazi ukunqumla iinqunkwana ezimbalwa ezungeze itafile, akukho nto imvimbela ukuba adle ukutya okuninzi .
Ukongeza, ukuba ukhangele le ndlela yomfazi ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngoko unokufumana izibonelelo ezintle zempilo: nayiphi na isondlo sokutya esiza kukuxelela ukuba isidlo sakusasa kunye nesidlo sinokumangalisayo .
Ukuba umfazi ngokwakhe uhlala kwisidlo kwaye ugcina umfanekiso obalaseleyo, kwakhona kwakhona oku kudibeneyo. Ukuba kuphela wayekhululekile, kwaye abantwana, ngokuqinisekileyo, abazange bafumane umonakalo.
6. Inkosikazi engenayo
Ewe, ukuba indoda ifika ekhaya kwaye "uyayivuyisa", eyaphuka ngepuphu yesikolo okanye yahlamba i-T-shirt ayithandayo xa ehlamba, akayi kuvuyela, kodwa uya kuthukuthela ixesha elide naye.
Into ephambili kukuxolisa, ngelixa ubeka ubuso obungenacala . Kwaye, ke, kuthiwa: mthande, ngomso siza kukuthenga itekisi ngokubhetele, kwaye kwindebe ndiya kuzinzisa ebusuku phantsi kwenkqubo epheleleyo.
Abasetyhini banalo msebenzi - ukubeka izinto kumyeni wabo xa engekho ekhaya.
Xa umyeni, ekhangela umsebenzi ngokukhawuleza kusasa, ufumanisa ukuba bonke bavumba i-perfume yamantombazana, kunye ne-T-shirts, ngaphezu koko, kwi-spangles, ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kuthanda oku, kodwa uyazikhukhumeza. Ukuba umfazi ugqoba izinto zakhe, ngoko uyakuthanda, uthanda ukuvumba kwakhe .
Isiluleko kuphela sizama ukushiya ezinye zezinto zakhe ezingafunyanwa. Emsebenzini, kubalulekile ukuhamba into ethile!
Abanye abafazi bazondayo ukucoca. Ewe, ngaba abo bantu abanothando bayabathethelela abo banyulwe. Ekugqibeleni, xa isibini siphila kunye, ukucoca kunokuguqulelwa kwimiba yezinto eziqhelekileyo.
Ukongezelela, amadoda amaninzi akwazi ukucoceka ngokugqibeleleyo, ngaphandle kokukwenza ngoxanduva olukhulu kunye nokunyaniseka! Ngoko ukusebenzisa iitalente zethu kule ndawo yokuhlala kunye kuyisono kuphela.
7. Ngamanye amaxesha uyisidenge
Ewe, umfazi oyisiphukuphuku akayithandi nantoni na. Ngokukodwa ukuba uhlala ebeka kwindawo engafanelekanga ngezenzo okanye amagama angalunganga.
Kuhle ukuba oku kwenzeka ngaphandle kwamangqina. Yaye ukuba kuhleni? Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubudenge buyinto inqabile okanye umfazi akwazi ukuziqhelanisa nakwiindawo ezithile ezifikelelekayo, ngoko oku kunyamezela .
Akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo xa uhamba kwiingqungquthela kwizixeko zakwamanye amazwe, awuzange ufunde nayiphi na incwadi kwi-science fiction, awukwazi ukubonisa iYurophu kwimephu yehlabathi okanye awukwazi imithetho yimuphi umdlalo wezemidlalo.
Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha elifanayo kufuneka ubenciphe okanye upheke kakuhle, okanye wazi ezinye izinto ezikulo mandla. Ezi njenjalo, iimpawu zethu.
8. Uxelela bonke malunga namantombazana
Enyanisweni, ukuva kwi-hairdresser umbuzo umbuzo othi, "Hayi, unjani umlenze wakho, unqume?" - akuyona into enhle kakhulu kumntu.
Abafazi, ke, abakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kokubalana neentombi zabo ngokubakhathazayo, kodwa ...
Nanku umzuzu obalulekileyo, utsho ntoni na .
Ukuba uthetha ngezipho ohlala uzinikezwa ngumyeni, ukunakekelwa kwakhe nothando-le nto yinto enye, kwaye yinto enye - malunga nendlela umyeni alala ngayo embhedeni kwaye ukuba inkwenkwe eneminyaka eyi-10 inesitho somzimba ngaphezu kokuthembeka kwakho.
Kodwa ngokubanzi, nangona umyeni eyazi ukuba intombi ibona ubomi bakhe bentsapho kuyo yonke imbonakalo yayo, oku akunakwenzeka ukuba ibe sisisombululo sokwenza amanyathelo athile.
Nantsi umgaqo usebenza: ukuba konke kulungile kuwe, vumela ukuba babone umona, kwaye ukuba kubi, oko kuya kuba kubi nakakhulu .
Wena, ke, unokuthi konke oku kungenangqondo, kwaye ukuba umntu uyakuthanda, yonke into iyakunyamezela, kodwa uya kuphutha. Andiyi kukunika iingxabano ezingadingekile, zibuze yona nje: ngaba wena kunye nomyeni wakho niya kuhlala, ngubani unesiphene esikhulu, kodwa unayo inzuzo-kanye okanye kabini ne-obchelsya?
Jaroslav KOLOMYTS
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