Ngenxa yoko, umfazi omncinane olindele ukunyamekela okanye ubuncinane ukuba abe noqhagamshelwano lokuqala kunye nesiqingatha sakhe, unyanzelekile ukuba ahlawule loo miqabana yamandla enokuthi umyeni angayichitha ukuba afe emva komsebenzi wakhe onzima. Yena ke ufuna ukuphumla, kwaye ubone, umzekelo, umabonwakude.
Ukuthetha inyaniso, kweli lizwe, kuyinto ecacileyo kuye into enokuthenga ngayo umfazi omtsha okanye into eyenzeka kumhlobo wakhe omhle. Nangona ukuba ingqiqo kunye nokuziphatha okulungileyo akumvumeli ukuba amise umfazi ngokukhawuleza ukuthetha, iimpendulo azikho ngokuphambukayo okanye ukugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo kuya kucacisa ukuba ucinga ngokupheleleyo kude. Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo msebenzi uguqulelwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo yintombi: uqala ukuvakalelwa kukuba ukunyaniseka nokungaziboni kwindoda yakhe akuyikho into engathandekiyo. Kwaye ngoku iimeko zenye ingxabano sele zivuthiwe, ezo ziphinda ziphindaphindiwe ngokuqhelekileyo, ziyakwenza ukuba ikhefu lenzeke ...
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Ukunyuka kwesikhumba sakhe
Zama ukuzicingela endaweni yakhe, oko kukuthi, kwindawo yomntu ohlala esesimweni esicinezelekileyo ngenxa yobunzima bezimfanelo ezixhomekeke kuye yonke imihla. Kumele anike onke ama-100 ukuba asebenze, athatyathele intlalontle yentsapho aze enze izinto ezininzi ezinxulumene negama elingundoqo "kufuneka". Ngoko ke, umfazi, ezama ukubandakanya umyeni wakhe ekuxazululeni iingxaki ezincinci ezikwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo, ingozi yokuba ngumyeni onento efana nomsebenzi.
Iinkcukacha ezahlukeneyo - iindlebe zakho
Ukuthetha nge-boutiques, amaziko okufaneleka kunye nesilumko esiphukileyo, kukho ezinye "ababulele" abaphulaphuli, umzekelo, abahlobo okanye unina.
Umyeni kwakhona wamukela uthando olungapheliyo, umxelele ukuba uphoswa njani xa engazange ajikeleze kunye nendlela oxabisa ngayo konke akwenzayo kwintsapho yakho. Ukuba iintetho malunga nomsebenzi wakhe azibangeli ukuphendula okungonelanelekanga, umntu unokuzibuza ukuba uhamba njani usuku lwakhe, oko akwenzayo ngoku.
Enye into engenakuthelekiswa kukuthetha ngento enomdla kuye, umzekelo, malunga nebhola okanye malunga nemodeli emitsha yemoto ayithandayo yemoto (kunjalo, kuloo mzekelo kungcono ukuba okungenani unolwazi oluncinane kwezi zifundo, ukuze ungabonakali njengento engcolileyo kwaye ubuncinane unxibelelwano oluncinane.
Enyanisweni, unesiqinisekiso sokuba lo mntu unesiqingatha sakho, kwaye uya kuhlala kunye kunye nokuguga kakhulu, ngoko akufanele umthabathe nge-niggard encinci kwaye ukhubekiso ngaphandle kwesizathu. Yeka ukukhangela ebomini ngokusebenzisa iiglasi ezikhanyayo. Ubomi - akusikho ifilimu yaseHollywood, i-sodetermine oko ufuna ngokwenene ukuyibona intsapho yakho.
Yakha indlu apho ufuna ukubuyela khona
Ukuba kwindlu yakho yentsapho yayisoloko iyakwamkela umoya, kufuneka unakekele ezinye zezinto ezingenasimo:
- yenza ikhaya lakho lihle;
- ukudibana nomyeni emsebenzini wakhe ngobuso obungabonakaliyo ebusweni bakhe;
- xabisa ixesha elichithwa kunye, kwaye wenze oko ukuze umthandayo aqonde oko kuthetha ntoni kuwe;
- yenzele "ibhanki yeemvakalelo ezintle", eziza kubandakanya imifanekiso ethathelwe ngexesha lokuphumla ngokuhlanganyeneyo, izikhumbuzo ezithandekayo ezikhutshwe kwiihambo, kwaye ngamaxesha ngamaxesha zixhamla kwakhona ezi zihlandlo kwakhona kwaye zihlawuliswe ngokuchanekileyo;
- Ungesabi ukubiza umnxeba wakho ngokucacileyo uze umbuze malunga noko akuthandayo kunye noko akunjalo;
- Yenza umgaqo ngemihla ngemizuzu eyi-10 ukuya ku-15 ukuze uxoxe ngokubalulekileyo kuzo zombini izinto;
- uhlale unomdla kumyeni wakho, zifumene umsebenzi oza kukugcina unomnxeba kunye negalelo ekuphuhlisweni kwakho. Ndikholelwe, xa uneshishini lomphefumlo, akuyi kubakho nantoni na izikhalazo ezingadingekile kwaye "ufumane" umyeni wakho;
- Cinga ukuba lo (uphelele ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa ungathini, ungaphuzi, ungabethethi, awuhambeli, ufumana imali yokubonelela intsapho kunye nabantwana), lo mntu ukhethe wena, kungekhona omnye umntu. Ngoko ke, ufanelwe uthando lwakho kunye nodumo, ukubonga nokuhlonipha.
Kwaye ukuqonda imigaqo yobukho bentsapho ehambelana nayo iya kunceda imanyano yakho ibe namandla kwaye ingaguquki, naphezu kwayo yonke imiqobo yokuphila.