Oomama abaninzi ekufikeleleni kumntwana oneminyaka emithathu ubudala bayazibuza ukuba ngaba banike umntwana umntwana. Ewe, abanye abanakho ukhetho. Emva kwakho konke, akusiwo wonke umntu onamaqabane abangasebenzi abangabancedayo, banakekele abazukulu babo. Kodwa kuthekani ngomntu onokukhethwa kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo? Ngaba ndimele ndinike umntwana, ukuba ndishiye indlu kunye nogogo, mhlawumbi ndiqeshe umfana?
Inzuzo enkulu yokutyelela i-nursergart yintlalo. Kulapha apho umntwana esetyenziselwa uluntu, ufunda ukusebenzisana nabanye. Ukuqhagamshelana nabanye abantwana, abantwana basebenzisa ukuxanduva. Kubalulekile ebomini komntwana ngamnye kunye nolawulo, ukuchaneka kokuchanekileyo komsebenzi nokuphumla. Ekhaya, akulula ukulungiselela. Ukongezelela, ngokunjalo noogogokazi, sonke siyazi ukuba bahlala bethanda abazukulu babo abathandekayo, ngoko banako ukunyanzelisa ngokumalunga nomsebenzi wansuku zonke womntwana. Unesi, ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kuhlangabezana nale nto ingcono. Unako ukwenza kunye nosana, umlungiselele esikolweni. Kodwa umntwana akakwazi ukufumana unxibelelwano olwaneleyo.Abazali abaninzi banesiva ngenxa yabantwana babo. Kubonakala kubo ukuba umntwana uvakalelwa yedwa kwi-kindergarten, elahliwe. Ngokwezinga elithile, oku kunjalo. Wonke umntu, ngakumbi umncinci, kufuneka asebenzise imeko entsha. Kungenzeka ukuba okokuqala umntwana akayi kuba lula. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, umntwana usuqulela aze abe omeleyo kwaye azikholose.
Enye insalela yokutyelela i-kindergarten kukuba, ekubeni kwiqela elikhulu labantu, umntwana uya kugula. Kakade, loo mngcipheko ukhona. Akukho mntu ukhuselwe zizifo. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, sonke siyazi ukuba ezinye izifo zilula ukunyamezela ekuncinane. Akumangalisi ukuba kuthiwa "abantwana". Mhlawumbi oku akusiyo wonke umntu ukuba athuthuzele. Emva koko, wonke umntu uyamoyika iingxaki zempilo kumntwana. Kodwa emva koko, izifo eziqhelekileyo kwi-kindergarten aziyiyo yendalo. Konke kuxhomekeke ekukhuselweni komntwana. Abantwana abaninzi bayagula kwaye basemakhaya, kwaye omnye umntu enkundleni yezilwane akakwazi ukubamba intaka yenkukhu, leyo, njengoko uyaziyo, idluliselwa lula kwaye ngokukhawuleza.
Kubonakala ukuba ukutyelela kwintlobo yesibini inokuchaphazela umntwana ngokungahambi kakuhle. Ngoko ke, le ngxaki kufuneka ithathwe ngokungathí sina. Okokuqala, kufuneka ube ngumntu ngamnye kumntwana ngamnye. Konke kuxhomekeke kwimeko. Kumntu othile, mhlawumbi ukutyelela i-kindergarten kuya kuba nzima kakhulu kwengqondo, umntu uya kunceda. Akuyimfuneko ukunika umntwana kwi-kindergarten ekuqaleni kakhulu. Kwaye abanye abantwana bathanda ukuhlala ekhaya de kube neminyaka emine, ukuba ngaba abazali baneli thuba.
Kwakhona kubaluleke kakhulu ukulungiselela umntwana kwi-kindergarten ngokomzimba, kwaye kungekhona nje ngokwengqondo. Kubalulekile ukuqinisa umkhuhlane wabantwana, ubathukuthelise, ukuxhasa umzimba kunye namavithamini kunye nama-microelements. Kwaye ke "i-sadikovskie" izigulana kwiintsana ziya kuba nzima.
Enyanisweni, ukhetho lootitshala luya kufuneka ludibene kunye nengqondo. Jonga ngokugqithiseleyo indlela aphatha ngayo abantwana. Khumbula ukuba utitshala olungileyo kufuneka aphathe wonke umntu ngabanye, njengomntu ngamnye, ncinane. Thatha umdla kwiprogram yemfundo kwi-kindergarten. Kuya kuba ngcono ukuba iindlela ezintsha zamukelwa kwi-kindergarten. Ukufunda, ingakumbi umntwana, ihlala ilula kwaye inomdla kwifomu edlalwayo.
Ukuqulunqa, sinokuthi ukutyelela i-kindergarten kunceda abantwana abaninzi. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba oku kufuneka kube yintlekele enhle. Kwaye akusikho iziko lokuthengisa. Kukho uluvo lokuba kubiza ukuhlawula kakuhle. Hayi njalo. Ootitshala abalungileyo basebenzisana nabantwana abanobubele. Into ephambili kukuba uphathe kakuhle umntwana wakho kwaye wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo.