Indlela yokwenza ngokukhawuleza iingubo zonyaka omtsha ngomntwana?

Yintoni enokuthi ibe nguNyaka omtsha ngaphandle kweengubo zokugcoba? Ngaphambi kweholide enomsindo akukho nto yashiywa, kodwa ezininzi iinkxalabo eziphumelela kuphela! Ngaba oomama bethu abathandekayo baya kuba nini ixesha lokuwuthambisa? Ngaba unako ukuya kuthengi kwaye uthenge i-suit eyenziweyo? Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba izambatho ezithengiweyo zihle kakhulu, ziqhakazile, kodwa zithobele iindleko zayo. Imali efanelekileyo. Elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo. Xa uceba ukuthenga i-suit, khumbula ukuba umntwana wakhe uya kugqoka ubuninzi bamaxesha aphindwe kabini: kwi-kindergarten okanye kwisikolo kwintlanganiso yasekuseni kunye nomthi wesixeko, ukuba uya khona, kakuhle, ekhaya ngaphambi kokuba iindwendwe ziziqhayise. Yonke into. Kwaye kunyaka ozayo le ndoda iya kuba yincinci, kuba siyazi ukuba abantwana bethu banokukhawuleza kangakanani. Sinikeza izikhwama ukuba unokwenza ngokukhawuleza ngokwakho, ngexesha elifanayo ukuyidala, phantse yonke into ingafumaneka ekhaya. Xhuma kwinkqubo yokudala iingubo kubantwana bakho, ngamanye amaxesha baphosa imibono enomdla kakhulu. Yaye ngokukratshi umntanakho uyaziqhayisa kubahlobo bakhe, ukuba nguye yena owazenzayo, kwaye unina wamnceda.
Isambatho esheshayo nesincinane kunazo zonke intombazana yinto efanelekileyo yePippi Long Stocking. Ukuba umntwana wakho avunyelwe ukuba neenwele, i-braids ikwabekwa, ukwenzela ukuba banamathele, ngokucokisekileyo kunye neenwele ezindizayo kwi-wire soft, iziphelo musa ukulibala ukukhusela, ukuze kungabangela ukuphazamiseka kumntwana. Kwi-pigtail eyodwa, unokubopha isaphetha, ushiye enye ngeqhina elixutywe, qiniseka ukuba ayiyikuyikhulula. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwisigqobo sambatho kunesidlo esinomdla, esinokuhlotshiswa ngeempawu ezibalabala. Esikhundleni sokwenza, bhala ubuso bombala omkhulu wee-freckles. Kwiemilenze sigqoka imibala eyahlukeneyo yezihlangu okanye izicathulo. Ukuba igumbi lipholile, ngoko kwi-kolgotochki unxibe umbala ogqithisiweyo webala. Musa ukulibala ukuba umngane othembekileyo uPeppi uyinkhumba, phakathi kwamathoyizi, mhlawumbi, kukho umdlalo onjalo. Oko kulungele iingubo zakho zokugqoka.

Ndixelele, uluphi uhlobo lwenkwenkwe ebonakalayo kwindima yeqhawe elikhulu? Kutheni ungamenzeli i-cowboy suit? Konke okufunekayo kule nto, kufumaneka kwi-wardrobe yabantwana. Okokuqala, sidinga i-jeans endala, i-shirt ekhompini, i-headcarf ekhanyayo okanye i-handkerchief, ubuso beqhawe liza kufihla phantsi kwazo. Kuya kuba mnandi ukuba intloko yenkomo yenkomokazi yakho inomkhono omkhulu, ukuba uyakukwazi ukuyifumana, ungayikhohlwa ukuba ungene phakathi kwintsimi yayo. Isitya esinjalo senziwe lula kwikhadibhodi. Kwiemilenze zenkwenkwezi ongayifaka kwiibhothi kwizithende, ungazinamathisela. Musa ukulibala ngesiphatho seqhawe, kwibhanti kufuneka usitshulule isibhamu sokudlala. Yiloo nto yonke.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, indleko yesikhulu idinga kakhulu. Isalathiso esiyinhloko sesikhulu isithsaba sakhe segolide, sinokukhangeka ngokukhawuleza kwikhadibhodi enye, ehlanganiswe ngefestile embala, ehlotswe nge-sequin zokuhlobisa kunye namatye "anqabileyo". Ungalibali i-raincoat! Yifanelekile nayiphi na into ephathekayo, kuya kuba mnandi ukuba ingaba yinto epholileyo. Senza "ukugoba" kwicala elifutshane, asiqhekeke i-braid enhle ngaphakathi, ezi ziya kuba zibophelelo zengubo. Phakathi kwengubo, ngasemva ungayifaka ingubo elula yeengalo, kuba sinesikosana esihle! Le nkwenkwe igqoke iikhati elikhanyayo, ibhulukhwe emnyama, kungcono ukuba i-tight-fit and shoes okanye amabhothi, enokukhenkcezwa ngomphetho woboya. Ungalilibali ikrele ngenxa yesikhulu! Ukuba kukho isidingo, ungathenga enye ekulungeleyo, ukuba kungenjalo, i-cardboard kunye ne-foil iya kusinceda kwakhona. Siphosa phezu kwesikhulu i-Cape, sigqoke isithsaba, sibamba ikrele kwaye phambi kwethu inkosana yangempela!

Enye intambo yokukhanya kwintombazana yindoda yokugqoka i-gypsy. Izambatho ezimbalwa ezibalabala, i-blouse ekhanyayo ehlanganiswe phezulu, kwaye iboshwe ngeqhina esuka ngaphantsi. Uninzi lweembalo, amabhonkco, i-makeup encane. Iibhola azibalulekanga apha. Sula isikhwama esincinane kwipketi yengubo, apho i-gypsy encinci iya kufaka iikhadi kunye neengqekembe.

Abantwana bathanda ukwethusa, ngoko ke unako ukumnika umntwana ukuba ahlale enendima yokuzisa iKasper. Ngenxa yale ndoda yokugqoka idinga ilinen emhlophe, kodwa iphepha eliqhelekileyo entloko yakho liboshwe ngomsila, imingxuma yamehlo, umlomo unqunywe, imilenze ingcono ukuguqa izicathulo ezilula okanye i-Czechs ezimhlophe. Indwangu eboshwe kwibhanti, phantsi kwengubo, igqoke ijezi elimhlophe. Umoya ngomntu ulungele!

Sinqwenela iholide ezonwabileyo!