Ukuncwina kuyinkqubo engalibalekiyo. Kuvuyiswa gqitha ukubona umntwana edla, jonga amehlo akhe, uphulaphule ukutshitshisa kunye nokuthulisa okuphumlileyo phantsi kwefuthe lephupha. Wonke umama kwikhaya lokubeleka unolwazi oluchanekileyo malunga nokuncelisa, malunga nokunceda ubisi lwebele. Kwakhona bafundisa indlela yokulungisa umntwana ngokufanelekileyo. Kodwa njengoko kubonisa ukubonisa, akusoloko yonke into ifumaneka kwimimiselo yokuqala. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yobunqamle besakhiwo sesinyoko somama, umntwana akanakuyifaka emlonyeni wakhe nayiphi na indlela. Kukho iingxaki ezahlukileyo zokuncelisa, ezingabanceda kuphela ukubeka umntwana ngqo esifubeni, kodwa uya kunika induduzo, kokubili kwintana, nakumama.
Uninzi olusetyenzisiweyo lubonakala
Ukulala emlonyeni kaMama.
Esi sikhundla sihle kakhulu sokutya kokuhlwa, kuba akukho mngcipheko wokutshiza umntwana kunye nomzimba wakho. Ngolu hlobo olunjalo, intloko yomama ingumlanjeni, kwaye amahlombe ahlala embhedeni. Ukubeka umntwana ngakwesinye icala, kunye nokumbamba, enye inceda ukuthatha isifuba kunye ... ukuphumla.
Umntwana.
Umgangatho ophezulu kunye owaziwayo ukusuka kwithuba lokudala, xa umntwana elala nonina ezandleni zakhe. Ngexesha elifanayo, uphendulela ingalo yesiqingatha, ukwenzela ukuba isisu somntwana sixinzelele kumama, kwaye umlomo usezingeni lelinku. Ekubeni umama kule ndawo uhleli, kwaye umntwana unzima ukubamba izandla zakho, unako ukubeka 1-2 imithwalo phantsi kweemvumba. Ngokufanayo, unako ukunondla umntwana esihlalweni.
Ukutya "isifuba" esiphakamileyo.
Umama ulele embhedeni, egxile, umzekelo, engengalo. Ingxande ecaleni layo icala, okanye emlanjeni, ngoko kwakungcono kakhulu ukunwa. Ingundoqo yesithuba sokuthi isondlo sivela "esondelene" nesifuba. Ngoko, ukuba unina ulele ngakwesokunene sakhe, uyondla isifuba sakhe sekhohlo, kwaye ngokufanayo. Ukusuka kumava endibonileyo ndingathi le nto ifanelekile isifuba sigcwele ubisi, kodwa omnye makabe oqaphele, ngenxa yokuba ubisi olunjalo lokutya luhamba ngokukhawuleza.
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Kule ndawo kulungele ukubeka umntwana kufuphi nesifuba kwaye ukhangele ukuchaneka kwesibambiso seentambo. Ingane kufuneka ifakwe kwisandla sasekhohlo (ukuba usebenza kwisifuba sasekhohlo), kwaye ilungelo lisekela intloko ye-crumb, ngelixa liqondisa kwimbilini, ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana evula umlomo, ngokukhawuleza ubeke isifuba kuso.
Gcina "Ukugqithisa".
Inkwenkwe ilele emgqeni, emlanjeni, kwaye unina uncike phezu kwakhe, encike kwiinqaba zakhe. Andiyi kuthi le ndawo ikulungele - imva kunye neengalo ziyakhathala. Kodwa ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba ubisi aluyi kukhulula ngokupheleleyo isifuba - sebenzisa ubuncinane kanye kanye ngosuku.
Hlala "Ulale umntwana."
Ukutya okumiyo, ukubamba izandla, ngokugqithiseleyo, ungatsho ukuba ungakhathazeki. Kodwa ukuzincama nokubeka umntwana ukulala kulungile kakhulu. Ukutya okunjalo kunokugqitywa okanye uqale ulele embhedeni, kuxhomekeke kwindlela umntwana asekwe ngayo.
Ingane ihleli.
Oku kubandakanyeka kubantwana abavela kwiinyanga ezintandathu. Kule meko, kukho uxhulumano oluqhubekayo phakathi koomama nomntwana, ngaphezu koko, kulungeleka ngelixa ukhangele umntwana kwaye uthetha naye.
Usana lumile.
Ukuncelisa okunjalo kunconywa ukutyalana kwexesha elifutshane, umzekelo, ukuzola umntwana oloyiko lwesitratweni.
Ukutya ukuhamba emva kwesifuba sengxaki
Hlala "Ibhola le-Soccer".
Iligama layo igama, kuba umntwana ugcinwa kwaye unondliwa ngaphantsi kwe-armpit. Esi sikhundla sinconywa ukuba sondle ubuncinane kanye ngemini ukukhupha i-lobes esezantsi kunye ne-lateral yolbes. Usana lufakwe kwimithwalo emibini ehlangothini lwakhe ukuze umzimba wakhe udlule, imilenze emva komama wakhe, kwaye intloko yayiphambene nentshontsho.
Hlala "Knave".
Isetyenziselwa ukunyuka kwebisi kwisifuba esiphezulu. I-crumb ibeka ngokufanelekileyo kwi-barrel kunye ne-roll okanye umtya phantsi kwe-back ukulungisa indawo.
Sidla kuMama.
Ukuhamba kakuhle kakhulu kukunxibelelana ngokuthe ngqo kunye nomntwana osondeleyo kunye nonina. Umama uhlala e-pillow, kwaye umntwana uyadla, elele unina. Oku kulungele ukuba ubisi buhamba ngokukhawuleza - ngoko umntwana uya kusana aze anganyanzelanga ubisi.
Sinike izikhundla ezaneleyo zokuncelisa ukunyamezela umntwana. Kodwa ndinokuthi ngamnye umama akafumani ngaphezu kwezinto ezi-1 ezizilungele yena nomntwana wakhe. Inhlanhla inondla.