Umntwana ezintandathu kwiinyanga uyakwazi ukumomothela abantu abathandayo nabathandekayo okanye izinto, ukunyakaza kunye neemilenze kunengqiqo, ngelixa i-trunk nentamo ibe yinto ehamba phambili.
Yintoni umntwana akwazi ukuyenza?
Umdlalo othakazelisayo kunokuba unjalo umntwana. Abantwana bahlala bexhamla baze bahlwithe iintsimbi zabo, bahlole iminwe yabo ngezandla nangeenyawo.
- Abantwana bafunde ihlabathi ngokuthintela. Naluphi na umxholo othakazelisayo abafuna ukuwuchaphazela kwaye xa kunokwenzeka ukuzisa emlonyeni. Ngendlela, zonke izinto, kubandakanywa amathoyizi, i-rattles, okanye unqanda lomama othandekayo, zibonwa njengokuqhubeka komzimba wakho, kodwa azinakuchukunyiswa xa into ewela ezandleni.
- Ukunyuka kwentuthuko kushintshana ncinane. Okokuqala, umntwana ngokwakhe unokufumana ingono kwaye unokuqonda ukuba ingaba isifundo sinako ukumnika ubisi olunomsoco. Kwaye nangona umntwana angakwazi ukuncibilika aze abe neengubo, kunye ne-t shirt, kunye nomnwe wakhe, ukuba unesilamba, ngoko ke ukungabikho kobisi kuya kuhamba kunye nokukhala.
- Abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala sele beqala ukuxhasa intloko, ukuba isandla sikamama singaphantsi kwentloko. Ngaphezu koko, ukujonga ihlabathi elijikelezile lijikeleza ngokukhawuleza. Abantwana bazithabathele kwaye balala embhedeni. Ngokomzekelo, bajika baze baqale ukuguqa ngamadolo. Ngoko balungiselela ukuqala ukukhwela kwixesha elizayo.
- Iikhono lokubona kunye nokuva luba lukhulu ngakumbi. Abantwana baphendulela iintloko zabo kwisandi sensimbi kwaye bajonge ngokukhawuleza i-toy ehamba phambili.
Kuchaneka njani ukujonga nokudlala?
- Qinisekisa ukwenza inkqubo yamanzi. Ukuhlamba umntwana osweleyo rhoqo kusasa uze usule amehlo akho. Iindlebe kunye neempumlo zicocekile ngeeboya ezikhethekileyo zoboya. Buza ukuhlamba iintsana ezintathu ezinyangeni zinconywa imihla ngemihla ngaphambi kokuthatha enye inxalenye yobisi, kwaye kabini ngeveki ukuhlamba kunye nesepha.
- Ukutya umntwana uyaqhubeka nobisi lwebele okanye imixube ekhethekileyo. Kodwa unako ukulandelela inani lokutya okufunekayo kuphela ngokubukela umntwana. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba isahlulo esiqhelekileyo asanele, unokwandisa kancane inani lobisi. Abanye sele beqala ukuzisa ukutya kokuqala okudibeneyo-ngokwenene amaconsi ambalwa ejusi yesityalo okanye i-puree.
- Kulo umntwana ufumana inani elaneleyo levithamini D, ufuna kakhulu ukuhamba naye emoyeni omtsha. Ukuba awunalo ithuba lokuchitha iiyure ezintlanu kunye naye kwisitrato, ubuncinane wabeka umqhubi ebhaleni, ekhangele kwangaphambili ukuba kukho iirejista.
- Ngelo xesha kubalulekile ukuphuhlisa izakhono zomntwana. Ngoko masidlale ngamathoyizi enomsebenzi ongahambi kuphela, kodwa avelise izandi ezahlukeneyo. Unokumnika ukuba azame ukuthinta iifrikhi ezahlukeneyo zee-degrees ezahlukeneyo zobunzima nobuninzi.
- Umntwana usenokuba neengxolo. Ngoko ngexesha le midlalo kunye nokubhukuda, kungekhona nje ukuthetha naye, kodwa uhlabelele iingoma ezahlukahlukeneyo zabantwana. Ngexa uhamba esitalatweni okanye nangona xa wenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, qi niqiniseke ukuba ubeke izimvo kuzo zonke izenzo zakho okanye kwenzekani malunga nawe.
- Kubalulekile ukuphuhlisa umntwana oneminyaka emithathu ubudala kunye nomzimba. Yenza kuye "ukuhamba ngebhayisikili" kwaye ngokukhawuleza uza kubona indlela inyana yakho iqhuba ngayo iinyawo zakho. Ngokufanayo, unako ukukrazula umntwana ngeengalo ukuze afunde ukuhlala phantsi.