Unokwenyusa njani umkhwa wesini kumyeni wakhe? Lo ngumbuzo omkhulu, impendulo ekhoyo. Yonke into ilungelelaniswa nobomi bentsapho, kwaye ukukhangwa kwangaphambili kunokubuyiswa, ukuba kunzima ukuzama. Oku kusebenza kubo bobabini nabasetyhini, kodwa namhlanje siyakuchukumisa kuphela indlela intombazana enokubuyisela ngayo inkanuko yesondo kumyeni wayo.
Okokuqala, cinga ngawe intanda. Okanye, nithi-cinga ngebini lakho. Kubalulekile ngeli xesha nje ukuba unqanyulwe kuzo zonke izinto zangaphandle, okwangoku kungaba ngabazali, abahlobo, izalamane kunye nabantwana. Ubume obusondeleyo bokuphila kufuneka buhlawulwe ngenxa yoko, ingqalelo enkulu. Abaselula nabaselula abangenayo nabantwana, akukho mfanelo ekhethekileyo, banandipha ixesha elichithwa kunye. Kodwa kudlula ixesha, uxanduva lokubambisana kunye nezibophelelo zivela. Iingxabano zomakhaya, iziqingatha-iimpendulo zonakalisa ukukhwabelana ngokwesondo. Kukho iingxaki kunye neengxakini, ezahlukana kumyeni nomfazi. Sivame ukunika ingqalelo abantu abangathandekiyo, kwaye oku kuphazamisa kakhulu ulwalamano lobomi bentsapho! Ukuba ufuna ukuphucula imeko, zama ukuhlala wedwa nomyeni wakho. Abantwana banokuthi bathathwe kwiveki yegogo, kwaye iintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo kunye neentetho zoshishino zingahlehliswa kuze kube yilapho esebenza nsuku zonke. Hlalani kunye kunye, nivalelane nanjengokuba nisemncinci kwaye aninalo le minyaka emide yokuhlala ndawonye.
Namela ingqalelo yakho. Iminqweno yesondo ixhomeke kakhulu kwilizwe apho umzimba, ubuso, iinwele zihlala khona. Umfanekiso omhle, isikhumba esilahlekileyo, ukungafezeki nokungaphumeleli kunika umfazi ithuba lokuba akanakunyaniseki, umfazi omhle. Xa uvakalelwa ngabanye abantu, uya kuqiniseka ukuba umyeni wakho akayi kukwazi ukumelana nokukhangela kwakho. Kufuneka ube mnandi nanini na ubudala.
Kwakhona, akufanele uqale impilo yakho yempilo. Ugqirha kufuneka uqhagamshelane ngexesha. Mhlawumbi, awufuni ukulala ngesondo nomyeni wakho, ngenxa yokuba unengxaki kwinkqubo yokuzala okanye umva wakho uyabuhlungu, okanye uhlaselwa yimigraines. Musa ukulibazisa ukutyelela ugqirha ukuba kukho izibonakaliso ezinzulu.
Unokwenyusa njani umkhwa wesini kumyeni wakhe? Nciphisa umyeni wakho! Nangona utshatile iminyaka eyi-15, oku akuthethi ukuba umlingani wakho akadingeki ukuba akhohliswe. Umyeni wakho uya kuvuyiswa ngumdaniso wempuma yasemmpumalanga oyenzayo, okanye kwi-new, sexy, i-lacy yangaphantsi kweengubo, ukusuka kwisidlo sakusasa se-candlelight. Ngendlela, kubonakaliswe ukuba inkqubo yokukhohlisa indoda inomdla kakhulu inokuphazamisa inkqubo yokuvuselela ibhinqa, egalela ekuphumeleleni ngokukhawuleza kwe-orgasm ngexesha lesini. Ukubandakanya, ukuvuyela, ukukhupha oomntu olwabelana ngesondo. Akukho mntu uya kutshintshisa umfazi wakhe okhohlisa umfazi omncinane!
Kulungile xa umdlala wesondo kwiqabane lilahleka ngenxa yokuba indoda nomfazi bafundisane njengeminwe yabo emihlanu. Ngoko ke, jama ukungaqondakali, vumela umyeni wakho uzive njengomqoqo ongunaphakade. Kwindoda, naye, unokuhlala uqaphela into entsha. Musa ukujonga izinto ezimbi kumyeni wakho, umxabise njengoko uthanda kwaye uyamthanda ngentliziyo yakho yonke. Qaphela ukuba ukugcina uthando kusezandleni zakho.
Ulwalamano lwentsapho lufuna ukuhlolwa rhoqo. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo abatshatileyo banemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yokuzilibazisa, imikhwa, izinto zokuzilibazisa, imisebenzi, ngoko bachitha ixesha elithile bodwa bodwa, elibadelela ngendlela esondeleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha uqala ukucinga ukuba awunanto yokuthetha nomyeni wakho? Musa ukulibala malunga nokuhamba ngokubambisana, ukuhamba, ukunyuka kwindawo yokuzonwabisa, i-cinema, ibhola. Kutheni singenakukwazi ukufunda ngokusondeleyo kwizinto ezithandwayo zomyeni ukuze sikwazi ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye naye? Khangela naye ubuncinane kanye neHokkey okanye uhambe kunye naye. Unokuza kunye nokuzonwabisa kwentsapho okuya kukukhohlisa. Akukho nto idibanisa isibini esitshatileyo, njengeshishini elidibeneyo kunye nexesha lokubambisana. Into ephambili - yiphathe umyeni wakho ngengqondo evulekileyo nentliziyo.
Ubomi bethu asisoloko buxakeke kakhulu, njengoko kubonakala ngathi. Unokuhlala ufumana ithuba lokuphumla kunye nokuzibandakanya kwizinto ezincinci. Kukho ezininzi, ukuba ukhangele ngokukhawuleza. Kungaba lula ukuthetha kunye nabahlobo, abantwana, iincwadi zokufunda, ukuzonwabisa ukutya okumnandi, ukucinga ngeendawo ezihle, ukubukela i-movie emihle. Kubalulekile ukubamba ixesha lokonwaba nokuzonwabisa, ukutya iimvakalelo ezintle.
Ulutsha ngokuqinisekileyo lukhulu ixesha. Kodwa ungacingi ukuba yonke imihlali yolutsha ayihambisani nawe, ukuba utshatile ixesha elide. Khawucinge ukuba udibana nje ngezolo! Ziziphi amehlo onokuzijonga ngoku kwindoda yakho ngoku? Ixesha lihamba, ngokuqinisekileyo uye wakhula, ukhaliphile, uvinjelwe ngakumbi, kubandakanywa nolwalamano lwakho kunye neqabane lakho. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba unonwabile kakhulu kunobutsha bakho. Ubomi obusondeleyo kunye nokuba ngumntu omdala kunokunika uvuyo oluninzi kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ufuna nje ukuvusa ukulala kwakho ngesondo ngomyeni wakhe. Ukukhula ngethuba elihle, apho umntu unokuhlala enenzuzo ngaphezu kokuhlangabezana nelihlo. Ngoko, umbuzo wendlela yokukhulisa isenzo sokuziphatha ngokwesini kumyeni wakho akufanele kubangele.
Ukukhangela ngesondo kuya kubuyela xa ubona indlela entsha ebomini bakho kunye nomntu wakho. Ndikunqwenela ulonwabo nentlalontle!