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Ngomnyaka wesibini wobomi umntwana usuqulunqwe kakuhle kwaye uyaqonda ngakumbi kunokuba unokucinga. I-Energia ingaphezu kokwaneleyo, amanyathelo okuqala ayenziwe ngempumelelo kwaye izandla zesikolo zifikelela kwizinto ezibini ezingavumelekanga kwiibini ezimbini. Iibhasikidi zeetayipi ziphumelele ngempumelelo, zonke zihlakazekile, ziqwengqele kwaye zikhishwe. Ixesha lokubonisa ukuba unako ukubuyela rhoqo entsimini ngempumelelo.
Umama kunye nabazali bahlaziyekile ukuhlambulula imizuzu ngokwabo, bephazamise umntwana, ngaphandle kwexesha awuyi kunqoba nayiphi na into. Akuyimfuneko ngelinye ilanga ukuqala ukufunda yonke imigaqo, kodwa ngokuphuhlisa isithethe sokulala, yongeza kuyo iqoqo lezinto zokudlala. Ngaphambi kokuhlwa kunye nokuhlamba, xela ukuba lixesha lokuqokelela yonke into eyenziwa yinkwenkwe, kuba ubusuku buza, kodwa ngelixa iinkwenkwezi zikhanya emva kwefestile, wonke umntu ulele, kuquka neetys.
Ncedisa i-crumb, mcele ukuba akulethe ii cubes uze uziphose ebhokisini. Yonke into eyenziwa kwifom yomdlalo, kodwa imihla ngemihla kunye neetyitha ezininzi zithemba ukususa umntwana.
Kukunzima ukutshintsha i-diaper. Abantwana baphula kwaye babalekele ngamandla abo onke, ukuze banqande umama ukuba angandichukumisi. Emva kokuba utshintshe i-crumb, mnike i-diapers esetyenzisiweyo kwaye uyikhuphe ngaphandle kwebhanki. Musa ukulibala ukudumisa umnqweno onzima. Kuphela iintsuku ezimbalwa zoloo ncedo kunye neyinkwenkwe ngokwayo iya kugxotha ukuphonsa i-diapers engcolileyo.
Unokufundisa abantwana ukuba basasaze i-candy wrappers kwiiskese kunye ne-rind yeziqhamo. Qinisekisa ukuba ulawulo lwe-TV olude okanye i-fowuni yeselula ayifuni kwi-urn yenkampani.
Iintsana ezinjengokubukela umatshini wokuhlamba kunye nokucoca. Abanye abantwana bayayesaba, kodwa esi sisona sizathu esongezelelweyo sokwazisa okuthe ngqo kunye nezobugcisa. Hlangana, layisha umatshini ngezinto, zama ukuhlambulula kunye kunye nokutshiza. Okokuqala, ngohlobo lomdlalo, gxotha umntwana kwi-rocket-vacuum cleaner, kwaye xa esetyenziselwa i-buzz, makhe sizame ukuphelisa iphephethi kwaye uhlambe umgangatho.
Abancinci banamathele ngamnye ngamnye, ngoko ukhethe omnye umncedisi omncinci omncinci kwaye uvumele ukuba unxweme emanzini xa ususa uthuli emasheleni.
Amacandelo amancinci
Into ephambili kulokhu kukuphuhlisa umkhwa. Musa ukulayisha umntwana ngeemfanelo ezahlukahlukeneyo ekhaya kwaye akufanele silwele umyalelo olungeleyo.
Kakade, umsizi obaluleke kakhulu kwisikolo ngumzekelo wakho. Ukuba uthanda ukuhlambulula ukucoceka komgangatho, umyalelo ogqityiweyo kwi-closet kwaye yonke into inendawo ethile, ngoko umntwana uya kuthatha impilo yakho. Kodwa kunokuba kungenjalo, ngoko ungagqithisi, kuba akusiyo yonke into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba i-vase i-5 cm ukuya ngasekunene kwendawo yayo yokuhlala.
Qinisekisa ukunika umntwana indawo yakhe. Umzekelo, ibhokisi eneempahla kunye nebhokisi yezinto zakho. Makube njengokuba kufanelekile kumnini wayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba xa umyalelo ujikeleze, kwaye unemfumba enye, ngoko-ke kuyinto engathandekiyo kuqala. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba alandele uqeqesho kwaye uya kuqala ukunyamekela ubomi obusondeleyo.
Ungaze ujezise abantwana. Kuwumsebenzi, kungekhona isigwebo.
Vumelana ukuba xa ndithe ndambatha unyana okanye intombi ephethe ukucoca. Oku kukukuba abantwana bebekhulile, kunjalo.
Mnike nje ngoncedo, kodwa umdala umntwana uba, kulungele ukuba kufuneka aqonde ukuba ufuna i-order.
Ezinye iintsapho zenza umrhumo wokuncedisa indlu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi inokusebenza kakuhle, kodwa ke zama ukukhuthaza umntwana ngokwahlukileyo. Phakamisa, emva kokucoca, ukhangele iikhathuni ezongezelelweyo okanye uvumele uhambo olude, kodwa kungekhona ukucoca, ngoko ke xa wenza umsebenzi wakho wasekhaya, uya kukhutshwa ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuba awukhathalele ngokukodwa umyalelo ofanelekileyo endlwini, ke ungaceli umntwana ongekho kwiintsapho zakho. Mncedise nje ukucoca indlu ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula.
Thenga amabhokisi kunye neebhokisi zezinto ezincinci. Kubantwana abancinci, iibhasikiti zokudlala ezahlukeneyo zithengiswa. Ngendlela yeenkwenkwezi, abalingisi beetoto kunye neenganekwane. Khetha okuthandwa ngumntwana, kungekhona nje wena, kuba izinto ezintandokazi kunye nezinto ezintle zidibanisa kunye nenjabulo (nangona kuphela okokuqala).
Yenza umfundi inkunkuma okanye encinci ibhokisi lakhe ngqo kwigumbi lakhe. Emva kwakho konke, kwinkqubo yokwenza imodeli okanye ukubunjwa, ngexesha lokwenziwa komsebenzi wesikolo, ngokuqhelekileyo iziqephu zamaphepha ziqokelelwe njalo njalo, kwaye akukho mnqweno wokuthatha konke oku ekhitshini. Kuhlala nje ukucacisa ukuba ibhonasi leyo iya kuhlala kuphela xa inkomo ingazalanga nentaba kwaye iya kwenziwa ngexesha.
Cacisa ngokucacileyo ukuba ukucocwa okwenziwe kungabonakali, kuba kubalulekile ukusula kuphela ezo ndawo apho uthuli lubonakala khona, kodwa nangaphantsi kweemaphepathi, nakubakhabhinethi. Emva kokucoca kwamanzi kunye nokuphefumla kwangoko kwangoko. Ekuqaleni, musa ukucoca igumbi ngamaphephethi, amathoyizi amancinci amancinci, ama-statuettes ahlukahlukeneyo. Ukuba umntwana uqokelela iqoqo, yithi, iimboli zaseparulini okanye iimpawu zeendlovu okanye i-hedgehogs, ngoko mhlawumbi uya kumnakekela ngokuzonwabisa. Kodwa ngenxa yemithi yakho yolonwabo, ikhandlela kwaye ubheka ngcono. Emva kwexesha, ufundisa umntwana ukuba agcine igumbi lakho licoceke kwaye uhlambulule apho.
Kwindlu yokuhlambela, ukucocwa ngokubambiseneyo akucwangciswanga kaninzi ngaphezu kweveki. Yaye ke, gcinani engqondweni ukuba amantombazana achitha ixesha elingakumbi ekhishini egcina umama wabo, ngoko kunele ukufundisa abafana ukuba bahlambe izitya zabo baze basule itafile.
Akuyena wonke umntu oya kumoya eqinile, kodwa indlela yokuphila imihla ngemihla yenza ubomi bube lula, kwaye kungekhona ngokuthe ngqo. Ukususela kumncinci kakhulu, ukuxubha kunye namazinyo omntwana, uhlamba, ugqoke, wenze intlawulo. Phumla ngesidlo sasemini, kwaye emva kokuhamba, hlambulula indlu. Shiya ixesha lokudlala, kodwa kungcono ukuthatha ixesha lokuzonwabisa lomntwana, ngoko uya kufunda ukuba angayenza njani, kodwa akayi kuziva elele. Umsebenzi wesikolo uya kwenziwa phakathi kwemicimbi, njengento ebonakalayo.
Akulula ngathi ukuba sifundwe ngamanye amaxesha. Sisoloko sizisola malunga nexesha elahlekile, esasingaboni ngaphambili, njl. Kodwa sifuna ukukuxelela ukuba ngokukhawuleza xa uqala ukwenza konke kunye, kufuneka kube lula. Abantwana bahlale bekulungele ukunceda oomama (siya kulahlekelwa ubunzima bokukhula kwasekuqaleni). Sisoloko sifuna ukufezekisa uxanduva lwethu lwemisebenzi, kodwa ngaphandle kwabo asikho ndawo, kwaye sinamandla ethu ukunceda abantwana bethu baphathe ngokuzinzileyo.