Yenza isimemezelo esimangalisayo sothando akunzima, into ebalulekileyo kukuba akunakulindeleka. Ewe, kukho amaxesha apho kufuneka ube ngowokuqala, ngaphandle koko i-bachelor iyazithemba ngokunikezelwa kwesandla nentliziyo, uyayibaluleke kakhulu impilo yakhe yokukhulula. Ukuba unesiqiniseko sokuthi akanakukhathalela, ukuvakalisa kwakho uthando kuya kubonisa ukuba kulungile ukuqhubeka nobudlelwane. Into ephambili - ungesabi, nokuba uthe uthe akuthandi. Ubuncinane, awuyi kuchitha ixesha elixabisekileyo kwaye uqalise uphando olutsha kumntu onokuxabisa.
Ngaphambi kokwenza isimemezelo esimangalisayo sothando, kuqala thola oko akuthandayo, iimfuno zakhe ezifihlakeleyo. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba ungena kwi-bull-eye, akayi kufuna ukulahlekelwa nguwe. Ukubhala isikhophelo kwi-asphalt akusekho festile. Okokuqala kufuneka uthathe isigqibo malunga nendawo. Ukuba umntu wakho othandekayo unesizotha, uthando lomthandane, kungcono ukwenza isimemezelo sothando ngendawo evulekileyo yothando, ehlathini, elwandle. Mthabathe ngesandla, cinezela kwaye uthethe, uthethe.
Ukuba ungumntu onomdla, uyakuthanda ukuqaphela, ngoko unokukwenza kuluntu. Ngokomzekelo, kwindawo yokutyela ungayilawula ingoma yakhe oyintandokazi kwaye uvume iimvakalelo zakho kwimakrofoni. Ukuvuma okunzulu ngesibindi kuya kuyanconywa kungekuphela kwakhe, kodwa nakwabonke abavakashi beziko.
Ngaphambi kokuba uvume iimvakalelo zakho, qiniseka ukuba indoda ilungile, nokuba imimoya ephakamileyo, ngaphandle koko ukuqaphela kwakho okumangalisayo ngothando akuyithandi. Ukuba unezinyo ezithandekayo kwaye uyathanda ice cream, yenza ikhekhe ye-ayisikrimu. Umthandi we-chocolate usenokufaka iintliziyo ze-chocolate kwipokethi yakhe, jonga nje ukuba i-wrapper yayilungile, ngaphandle koko isandla esingcolileyo asiyi kumkholisa. Musa ukukhangela kwi-recognition. Ukomeleza uluvo lwakhe malunga nokukhangela kwakhe ngokwesondo, vuma ukuba uthande emva kokulala ngesondo. Musa ukudibanisa, vumelani, ukuba unenene ngokwenene. Ndikholelwe, uya kuvuya kakhulu.
Ukuqaphela kwasekuseni othandweni kunye nenqaku elivuyayo kwifriji liya kuphakamisa isimo sakhe sengqondo, nangona akafumani ukulala ngokwaneleyo. Ngendlela, unokwenza umdlalo omncinci ngamanqaku, kodwa kufuneka uquke ingcamango. Kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba xa ufumana inqaku elilodwa, uqala ukukhangela omnye, ade afumane okokugqibela, okuya kumzisa kuye. Kule meko, ungazifihla amanqaku kwisithili okanye kwikota, into eyona nto kukuba intanda yakho "ibandakanyeke" kumdlalo.
Isibhengezo sakho sothando siya kuphakama kwisigaba esitsha kulwalamano lwakho. Ewe, unokumangalisa kangakanani na indawo kwaye uzihlakulele ngokungathandabuzekiyo? Yenza umzamo uze uvume iimvakalelo zakho. I-Ljubit-ithetha wena ngendlela echanekileyo, ungaqikelelwanga okanye uyayixabisa, ithetha ukuba ayikho into eyahlukileyo kwaye awukufanelekanga.
Uthando luvakalelwa kukuba kufuneka luhlale lusondliwa. Nangona uye wahlala emtshatweni ixesha elide kwaye umyeni wakho unjengeyakho, musa ukuphelisa imvakalelo. Umele ukuba uthanda kwaye uyamxabisa. Uyazi umyeni wakho ngcono kunanoma ubani. Masithi ukuba ungumtshatsheli webhola kwaye uyazi ukuba uyavuya ukuya kumdlalo, kodwa akafuni ukuthatha imali kubhajethi yentsapho, ngoko uthenge ithikithi yomdlalo kwaye ungayikhipheli nje, kodwa ngamazwi othando, unokukwazi ukwenza into ecacileyo Ukumboza, ngoko waphenduka waza waphazamisa.
Okanye mhlawumbi uphupha amaphupha, ehlala emzini wakho awuthengiswanga? Myalelo kuye le nto kwivenkile ye-intanethi, yinike ngamazwi othando. Uya kukuthwala ezandleni zakhe aze athi wonke umntu unomfazi opholileyo.
Uthande kwaye uthandeke!