Ukubhukuda okuhambelanayo.
Imigangatho yokudlala: Hayi, hayi, akukho lizwi malunga neengubo ezingenangqiqo zeengxowa zeempumlo kunye neempumlo zerabha entloko. Uthando ngesitayela sokubhukuda ngokuchanekileyo ubumnini obumhlophe. Ukuba ufuna umnqweno wakho malunga newashi ukuba ube nawe, ukuba uchitha imali eninzi kwiSMS kwaye uyasicaphukisa kakhulu, ukuba wenza okufanayo, ngokokubhukuda ukuthanda ukunqumla kuyinto yakho. Unokwenza ubudlelwane obuhambelanayo.
Ikhadi elibomvu: Uyazi, ngaphantsi kwamanzi, akukho nto into yokuphefumula ukuba awuyiyo intle. Ukusuka kwimizamo yakho yokusondela kumntu, kunokubonakala ngathi uyamxhatshaza. Kwaye kunye nolwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi kufuneka ubuncinane inkululeko. Uyacaphukisa emgangathweni kwaye uzama ukubuyela emva? Musa ukucaphuka, ungalungiseleli uphando kwaye ungakhangeli "iimfihlakalo ezimbi" -iyithuba nje lokuba wena kwaye uvuselele.
Phuma umdlalo: Ukuba ube kunye, udinga inkululeko kunye nobudlelwane obuvumelanayo. Oku akusiyo into ephambili kwaye ayithethi utshintsho okanye into enjalo. Ngomntu ngamnye ufune ixesha. Kwaye isicatshulwa esilungeleleneyo sokuthandana senza ubuhlobo bakho bube ngumtshato. Thatha isinyathelo emva. Uya kubona, uya kuba nomdla ngakumbi kuwe xa eqonda ukuba akalawulwa. Emva kwakho konke, de kube uqala ukutshata, uhlala unamathuba amaninzi amnandi okwenzayo - akudingeki uwanike ngoku ngoku. Ukuba uchitha iveki ngaphandle - uhlala kunye nabahlobo, kwaye unento intombi, ice cream kunye nefilimu ekhangayo, oku akuyi kubonakalisa ihlabathi. Ngokuchaseneyo, ulahlekelwa yodwa.
Ibhokisi.
Imigomo yomdlalo: unako, kwaye ungazi ukuba imigaqo ethi "hook", "jab" kunye ne "uppercut" ithetha ntoni, kodwa usebenzisa ezi ndlela usebenzisa ibhokisi ebomini, kwaye ngokukodwa ubudlelwane. Nguwe kuphela onokubethelela iibhotho zakho, kungekhona ngeengqayi, kodwa ngamazwi acacisayo. Kwaye zonke izihlamba unempendulo eyodwa: "Ndiyindlala".
Ikhadi elibomvu: Ukhungathekile ngenxa yezinto ezingenasiphelo, nangona andiqinisekanga ukuba oku akusiyonto kwaye "kufuneka azi ukuba ndiyayithiya i-roses, ngoko ke, ndabuyisela kwakhona ngosuku!" Kwaye iqala i-nuzzles. Kwaye abantu abasondeleyo bayalimala ngokukrakra-kuba nje bayayazi zonke iintlungu: "obuthakathaka", ukuba akayiyo i-"jerk", "idiot", ukuba akayena umdali wegolide ... Ngaba unesiqiniseko sokuba le ndlela kufanele uyenze ngayo nomthandayo wakho kwaye ukwakha ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi?
Phuma umdlalo: Ukukwazi ukuqhuba izikhwama zomlomo akuyona into embi, kodwa kufuneka uyisebenzise kakhulu. Ukuba loo mntu akavuywanga ngoluvo lwakho, cinga, ngaba kuya kuba mnandi ukufumana umgca onjalo kuye? Ulwalamano oluhambelanayo lubaluleke kakhulu. Yenza ingqumbo kwisikhwama sokubhoba, imikhosi-ekuqeqesheni, kunye neentanda zifunda ukuthetha. Ngaphandle kweengxelo.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekileyo kwisiza