Ngoko luhlobo luni luthando lomntu onothando? Okokuqala, makhe sicinge ngendlela umntu onothando angayijonga ngayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, amabali ukususela ebuntwaneni atyelela kwimifanekiso yethu yeenkosana ngaphandle kokwesaba nokuhlambalaza, egqoke ngokugqithiseleyo, enhle kwaye enobungcali.
Enyanisweni, oku akusikho umqondiso wothando. Phakathi kwabalinganiswa ababonakala befanelana nomfanekiso onjalo, baninzi abantu abanzima nabomileyo. Ngoko ke, umntu onothando angabonakala ehlukileyo. Njani? - zininzi iimpendulo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuthandana kwintlambo kunokuqhuba isithuthuthu, dye iinwele zakhe ngemibala eqhelekileyo kwaye udlale kwiqela elingaphantsi komhlaba. Okanye ugqoke izibuko uze ubhale iinkqubo ezintle kwiikhomputha yakho. Unokuba yinkwenkwezi yebhola yebhola, ibhola yebhoksi okanye ibhokisi. Le mifanekiso inokubaluleka kumgama ongaphantsi, kuba uthando alubonakali kodwa isimo sengqondo.
Luhlobo luni luthando lomntu othandana naye? Oku kuyinyani. Abantu abancinci abangekhe bathambekele ekuboniseni intliziyo baze bazi intombazana ngenxa yesondo. Nangona kukho iimpawu ezenza isono, de zidibana nomnye, kwaye azizange ziqonde ukuba eqinisweni bathanda ukuba yintando. Ngokubanzi, uluthando olubonisa intando kubantu. Kunceda ukukhumbula konke okusemgangathweni okukuyo kwaye sibonakalise.
Izenzo zobuRoma kunomlinganiselo omkhulu, kwaye ngamnye umntu uhamba naye ngendlela yakhe. Ngokomzekelo, indoda ingenza intando yesithandwa sayo. Kodwa. Indlela aza kuyenza ngayo le nyathelo, kuxhomekeke kuphela kwisimo sakhe sengqondo kunye nendlela yakhe yokuphila. Unako, umzekelo, thabatha intombi yakho oyintandokazi ebhankini lomlambo, elwandle okanye elwandle. Kodwa, umfana uza kwenza njani? Abanye bathumela umfazi wabo umlumine, abanye-bamthabatha ngebhayisikili yabo, kanti abanye bakhetha ibhayisikili elidala, njengesikhumbuzo somculo waseSoviet apho insizwa ethile yaqhuba ibhayisiki ixesha elide kwaye yammisa kwiindawo zokudla. Ngendlela, isiqwenga seentyatyambo zeentyatyambo sinomdla kakhulu. Sekunjalo, kuyinto entle ukuba intombazana ibe neentyatyambo eziphilayo neziqholiweyo, eziqokelelwe ngezandla zayo. Ukuvumba kwawo kunye nokuhlaziywa kumangalise nantoni na. Oku kukuthandana kwangempela.
Iingoma kunye neengoma zicatshulwe yi-romantics yangempela. Abantu abancinci banokuhlala bezinikela ingoma kwintombazana ethandekayo okanye kwindinyana yomsebenzi wabo. Ukuqaliswa kuya kwenzeka ngokusesikweni okanye kwamehlo abantu abaninzi. Ukuba le ndoda ingenayo i talente, iya kuqonda indlela yokubetha intombazana. AmaRoma akulungele nantoni na. Bazinikela kubomi babo iimbongo zeepatethi ezinkulu, zimi phantsi kweibhalkali zakhiwo zezitezi ezithoba. Ukongezelela, bafumana abaqhelana namaqela asekuhlaleni kwaye bahlele ii-serenade phantsi kweefestile. Abantu abancinci banako ukudweba isithandwa sabo, okanye banokwenza ifilimu. Abafana bayakhuphuka imithi ukuba baxhome iibhola kunye neefowers ngokuvuyisana ngokunyuka kwabo kunye neentanda.
Ewe, i-romantics ilungele nantoni na. Yiyo imibhalo yabo kwi-asphalt esiyibona kwiididi ezininzi. Bayalela ukutya okuthandwayo kunye neengoma kwirediyo. Ewe, makhe umntu acinge ukuba ngu-corny, kodwa uyavuma, abaninzi abantu abaselula abakwaziyo oku. Kungenxa yoko, naziphi na iimeko ezivelele zibhekwa njengothando.
Kwaye, eneneni, i-romantics izama ukubonakalisa amantombazana ukuba ayona nto ibhetele, ethandwa kakhulu kwaye ethandwa. Kuzo zonke iinkcukacha bazama ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo neemvakalelo zabo, ukugxininisa isimo sabo sengqondo.
Khumbula ukuba olo thando lwenza bonke abantu banomdla. Ngako oko, akuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela abantu abahlazileyo okanye abanobuqili abangenalo uthando. Basenokuqala ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo ukuba badibana ncamnye nabanokubathanda ubomi. Ndiyavuma, kwenzeka ukuba abantu ababi batshintshe ngokukhawuleza phambi kwamehlo ethu. Ngokukhawuleza, baqala ukuthenga iintyatyambo kunye namakhadi, khetha ikhelelethi kwaye bathenge amathoyizi athambileyo. Kwamadoda amaninzi, uthando lubonakalisa nakwizinto ezincinci.
Ukongezelela, u-romance ungabikho oqhelekileyo, kuba onke amantombazana aseyindlela engavamile. I-Romance ingabalelwa kunye nesipho somdlalo ongaqhelekanga we-geymershi okanye ukunyuswa okungaqhelekanga kwe-goth. Ungalokothi ukwazi ukuthandana nomtshato phantsi kwemimiselo efanelekileyo, imeko kunye nezisombululo. Kwiintombazana nganye, ukuthandana kunokuthanda, okhethekileyo. Omnye uya kufuna ukuhlala entle ententeni, ezintabeni, nakwabanye, i-romantic iya kuba liholide elwandle, kwihotele enhle. Ubungqina bokuba abantu abathandanayo banokuthi baqikelele ezi nqweno baze bawenze ngokukhawuleza. Ewe, eneneni, enye into yokumthanda iyamangalisa. Nokuba intshabalalo encinane, kodwa yinto emangalisayo, ihlala ibangela isizathu sokuba intombazana ivuyiswe. Abafana abathandanayo baqonda oku kwaye kaninzi bazama ukuqiqa iminqweno elula yabathandekayo babo. Baza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ezinokunyusa intombazana. I-Romance ayibonakali kuphela kwizenzo zokuziqhayisa, kodwa nakwikhono lokugcwala nje ngemini ngemibala eqaqambileyo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, wathenga i-ayisikrimu okanye intyatyambo echithwe kwibhedlele yeentyatyambo ibuye isithandane. Into ephambili - ukuvakalelwa kwintombazana kwaye uqikelele oko akufunayo kakhulu ngoku.
Uthando luvula ii-horizons ezintsha kumntu. Nguye owenza bonke abantu baye kwizenzo zobuqhophololo, kwaye, ngokuchanekileyo, lo wesifazane oqaqambileyo ubonakaliso obukhethekileyo bokuthandana. Ngokuxhomekeke kwiingcinga kunye nemeko yezemali, izenzo zothando zihluke kakhulu. Kodwa, bahlala benxulumana nomnqweno wokwenza into enhle neyodwa. Intombazana nganye iye yazinqwenela iminqweno, into eyenziwa ngumfana onothando ngokubanzi. I-Romance ayikho inani lemali elityalwe kwisipho, kodwa iimvakalelo ezithunyelwayo. Luhlobo luthando olwenziwe ngumfana onothando ...