Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqwalasele ukuba amabhunga anikezelwe apha akubhekiselele kuzo zonke iindidi zokuphanga, iziqalekiso, iingqungquthela, iintsimbi nezinye izenzo ezimnyama. Emva koko, xa uqala ukufunda iincwadi ezahlukeneyo kwizinto ezinjalo, kuba nzima kakhulu. Kukho isiphumo esisinyanzelo kuyo yonke le nto iya kuba le ntsha iqala ukukhwaza nje ngawe, kodwa ingayithandi. Nangona lo mntu akenzelwe wena nonke kwaye akathunywanga nguSomandla. Kwimeko enjalo, akukho nto enokulindela, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, ezinjalo izenzo zingakhokelela kwimiphumo ebuhlungu.
Amaphupha alungileyo . Ukuze ugcine umphefumlo wakhe, esele usisono, kwisono esongezelelweyo, izazi zamatsalane zimcebisa ukuba zisebenzise kwiziqhelo ezilula. Awufani nazo zonke iintlobo zesipelingi azibopheli, ungazithobeli, ungambopheli umntu, kodwa nje uncedise ukutsala uthando ebomini bakho ngokubanzi. Imikhwa yokukhanga ingaba yinto eyahlukeneyo, kungekhona inzima. Eyona ndlela elula kakhulu yile miba yothando, ngokuqhelekileyo inxulumene namaphupha. Iphupha kufuneka lidibane neengcamango ezilungileyo, iiminqweno, amaphupha malunga nentlanganiso ebalulekileyo yothando olumnandi, indoda efanelekileyo efanelekileyo, njl. Kodwa kungcono ukuqwalasela umfanekiso owufunayo ukuya kwiinkcukacha ezincinci. Oko kukuthi, umbala weenwele, amehlo, umzimba kunye nobuso, ukuphakama, uvelwano kuwe kunye nobugcisa, kunye nakho konke okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Kubalulekile ukubonakalisa emcingweni wakhe umfanekiso ocacileyo, ongacacileyo, onokukhonkco womntu wakhe. Ngaloo ndlela, ngokwezinto ezininzi zabantu, kunokwenzeka ukuba zifumaneke kumagunya aphezulu esikufunayo.
Uluhlu. Iimfundiso zomtshato zingabandakanya izinto ezincinci, ngokukodwa, ziqulethe imilingo. Intombazana enomdla kakhulu ukudibana nomntu okhethiweyo, okanye ufuna ukuphumelela intliziyo yomntu othile, kuyimfuneko ukuqhuba into ethile ebomvu. Inokuba yinto ephasayo okanye zonke iimpahla zangaphantsi ezingabonakali mntu. Eyona nto ingcono, ngaphezu kweminye into enye, unokufumana into yomntu, okanye i-hairbrush, okanye i-handkerchief, okanye i-shoelaces ukusuka kwizicathulo zamadoda, okanye umfanekiso wesilisa oyifunayo. Isithethe esinjalo sinokukunceda ukutsala uthando lomntu ofanelekileyo.
Umlingo, imilenze yemilingo . Oku kuyindlela elula kwaye isebenzayo ukukhanga umtshato kunye nokubonakala kwendoda eselula kwimpilo yesiqingatha sowesifazane, kubalulekile ukuba ufeze kwiinqanaba. Ekuqaleni, emva kokulindela inyanga, ilanga elilandelayo kuyimfuneko ukuthenga amatsha eselula. Nangona ukuba zibiza kakhulu, akudingeki ukuba udlulele ezo zinebe ezithandayo. Kufuneka baziswe ekhaya baze balinde iintsuku ezintathu, kodwa bangazibonisi nabani na; Emva koko phakathi kobusuku emva komhla wesithathu kufuneka uwathathe kwaye uwabeke ezandleni zakho. Udinga ukuma kuzo zonke iine, vula umnyango, kwaye unqabise isokisi zakho emnyango, okanye kunoko, kwindlu. Emva kokuba ubenqunyulwe kathathu, phinda ngamazwi akho apho ebomini bakho kukho ubonakaliso obumnandi, obunomusa, obunyanzelekileyo (ukhetha amagama ngokwomnqweno wakho: ongabhemi, onyanisekileyo, njl.). Ngokuqhelekileyo, njengoko kukholelwa ngokuqhelekileyo, umviwa onqwenelekayo kufuneka avele ebomini bentombazana.
Umlingo waseTshayina . Olu hlobo lwangaphambili, olusasazekayo, ngokufundisa isiTshayina njenge-feng shui luquka iinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo ukukhangela iimvakalelo ezifunekayo, iziganeko nezinye izinto. Enye yezo ziko zibonakala zikwiphepha lephepha elinomnqweno. Uya kuyidinga ukuchaza, ukubonakalisa umntu wakhe ngendlela enokuba kukho enye ikholomu yayo yonke into ebalulekileyo ekhankanywe ngayo, kwaye kwenye ingeyona loo nto, kodwa iyakunyamezela. Olu hlobo olulinganayo "uluhlu lwamanani" kufuneka lufakwe ngokuchanekileyo kwimvulophu, lulungise ngebhebhoni ebomvu, lubeke kuyo nayiphi na ipakethi. Kodwa kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba ngaphambi kokuba ubhale iimpawu ezifunwayo, kufuneka uhlale ucinga kakuhle kwaye ulinganise. Ekubeni kungenakwenzeka ukulungisa nantoni kuwo, akusoze kwenzeke. Emva koko ulinde ezinye iinguqu ezibalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
Umlingo kunye nolonwabo olumnandi . Ngokweengcamango zesinye isiko saseTshayina, kulandelelana ukuba ukuze ukhange umntu ofanelekileyo, kufuneka ufike echibini lakho ozithandayo nge-orange ezandleni zakho. Unokukhetha okanye i-echibi okanye ichibi, okanye umlambo okanye intwasahlobo. Kwaye le nqubo iyenziwa ngo-Eva onguNyaka omtsha. Kufuneka ukuba ucinge kwiingcinga zomntu onqwenelayo, othandekayo, ukucima i-orange ezandleni zakhe. Emva koko, unike emanzini, uyiphosele echibini. AmaTshayina anengcamango ye-orange ehambelana negolide kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, inenhlanhla. Ngaloo ndlela, amanzi aya kufuneka 'athathe' esi siqhamo kwixesha elihle, elonwabileyo elizayo elindele wena.
Isithethe seentyatyambo . Kubantu abaninzi, i-rose ithathwa njengento ebalulekileyo yothando olonwabileyo. Ingasetyenziselwa ukulungiselela ukuthanda uthando. Kodwa kungcono ukhethe i-shades ebomvu, okanye i-pink. Kufuneka uyithenge kwindawo efanelekileyo, yizise ekhaya. Emva koko yenza umsebenzi wesikolo sakho, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ucinga nge-rose. Emva koko, kufuneka uthabathe kwaye uphume umhlala phantsi egumbini ngamakhandlela omthunzi ofanayo. Ukuba unqwenela, ungavula umculo ozithandayo kunye noxolo. Zama ukucinga ngeentyatyambo njengendoda enqwenelekayo, uziqhayisa kwaye uyayithanda. Sula le nkqubo yokwanelisayo, i-rose rose, ngelixa ubonisa ukuba ungathanda umntu othandekayo ukuba aziphathe njani nawe. Thetha kuwe amazwi athandwayo kuwe nakanjani.
Zambatho . Ukutsala amandla amnandi, kwaye ngokukodwa umntu, ungasebenzisa kwakhona ikhabethe elifanelekileyo. Imfuneko yento ebomvu ichazwe ngasentla. Ngako oko, asisoze sasihlala kulo. Ngokukodwa, njengemibala yeengubo, kufuneka ukhethe i-pink, neyellow, ne-orange, kunye ne-terracotta, kunye nobomvu obomvu. Izambatho ziyamnandi kumgca. Iifowuni zikhethwa ukugqoka ngendlela yeentlobo zeentliziyo okanye iintyatyambo.
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