Okokuqala, sinquma ukuba ngubani onokuthi utyhafile. Akunjalo wonke umntu ongenakukwazi ukufikelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, akakwazi ukwenza imali, unokuthiwa ulahlekile. Kukho abantu abahlukeneyo abo imali kunye nesimo kwintlalo ayithetha nto. Banayo ebomini umsebenzi abawenzayo, abahlobo ababahlonelayo. Ndinesibini isibini esitshatileyo, basungula iqela lokukhulisa ngokomoya abantwana babo. Baye bafumana imali encinci, kuba ngexesha lethu bambalwa banenkxalabo malunga nophuhliso lokomoya lwabantwana babo - ininzi yabantu bafuna ukuba umntwana asebenze ekudwebeni, kumculo, kwiilwimi zangaphandle kunye nokunye. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, isibini esitshatileyo sinomdla othile, sineqela labo labantu abafana, apho bavakalelwa kukuba bahlonishwa kwaye bafunekayo. Kwaye ngandlela-thile umntu akaguquli ulwimi ukuba abize abalahlekileyo.
Njengomthetho, abalahlekelwa ngokwenene abanakuvuyela ubomi kwaye bahlala bekhononda ngalo. Emva kokuba ndidibana nendoda eyayisoloko ikhononda ngokungahambi kwemali. Ngelo xesha, akenzanga nto yokuphucula umgangatho wezemfundo ukwenzela ukuba afumane umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo. Kwaye ukukhulumisana kwethu kwancipha.
Esinye isibonakaliso somntu olahlekileyo, oku kungenxa yento le mntu engayi kuyenza, akaphumelelanga. Umhlobo wam wayesoloko ezama isandla sakhe kwi-journalism, ngoko kukuthengiswa kwentengiso, kodwa akukho ndawo ayengayifumana khona idumela lobugcisa obufanelekileyo kunye nomqeshwa. Kwakusoloko kubonakala kuye ukuba wayengamthandi. Kwaye akukho nto emangalisa ukuba umvuzo wakhe wawuthathaka, kwaye wayedla ukutshintsha imisebenzi.
Umntu olahlekileyo ngumntu ongenzi nto yakhe kwaye engenzi nto ukwenza ubomi bube bhetele, uhamba ngendlela engafanelekanga, ngelixa ekholelwa ukuba kwiintlungu zakhe, abanye abantu bayasolwa.
Omnye wabamelwane bam kufuneka abe yinxaxheba yomntu olahlekileyo. Iinjongo zakhe zobungcali zazibonakalisa zide kakhulu kunokwenzeka. Hayi, ukufumana umsebenzi oqhelekileyo, wachitha iminyaka emininzi ukuba angene kwizifundo ezigqitywe emva kokugqiba, wayezibandakanya kwisayensi, apho wayengenalo umnqweno. Ngexesha apho abafundi ababehamba nabo beba ngabaqondisi abaqhelekileyo, waphazamiseka ngenye indlela yokufumana umvuzo. Konke oku kuqhubeka ixesha elide. Uphantse akukho bahlobo abasalayo. Ingxaki yaphela xa, ngokungazelelwe yavuma ukuba inzululwazi oyinyani kuye yayingayi kusebenza, kwaye yaqala ukusebenza kumsebenzi wayo oyintloko.
Kutheni ungadingi ukunxibelelana nomntu olahlekileyo?
Uyakhupha
Sonke silwela into enhle, kwaye olahlekileyo uzama ukusibuyisela kumgangatho wakhe. Intetho ayithandayo - "akazange aphile kakuhle - akukho nto iqalayo! "Ukuba uya kuhamba kunye nomntu olahlekileyo, ke ulungele ukuba uya kukhononda malunga nokuba izinto zibiza njani, kwaye kufuneka uhlawule yonke into, okanye uhambe naye kwindlela engaphantsi kwendawo, endaweni yokuhamba ngeteksi , okanye ukutya kwenye indawo edlayo endaweni yecaffe.
Ngeenjongo zakhe usebenzisa umntu ophumelele ngakumbi
Umntu olahlekileyo uya kulubala ngeendlela ezingenangqondo ebomini, kwaye unethamsanqa. Kwaye ngaloo mzuzu uya kuziva ukuba ubeka ityala kulo, yile nto efunekayo. Uya kukusebenzisa ubuncwane bakho ubuthathaka kwaye ekugqibeleni ahlale entanyeni yakho - uyenze ufezekise okuncinci, uthabathe imali eninzi engayi kubuya nayo, uhlale endlwini yakho. Ngaba kufanelekile ukuthetha nomntu onjalo ebomini?
Unomona onenhlanhla
Umntu olahlekileyo unokumthanda iimpumelelo zakho emehlweni akho, ukubetha kuwe ngeendumiso, kwaye uthi ngamehlo akho ukuba awufumananga ngokungafanelanga zonke iintlobo zobomi, ukubiza nge-upstart. Kodwa yena ufanelwe ngakumbi. Lungiselela ukuba uyakunciphisa phambi komthandi wakho, abahlobo, abaphathi. Kwaye kuphela isizathu sokuba nomona.
Ukungaphumeleli kusasazeka
Konke okungaqondakaliyo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo liyinyaniso. Kwakubalulekile ukuba ndiqhagamshelane nomntu olahlekileyo, indlela endinayo ngayo ingxaki ngemali, emsebenzini, njalonjalo. Ekuqaleni ndacinga ukuba yingozi, kodwa xa iingxaki ezinjalo ziphindaphindiwe, ndacinga ukuba kutheni. Yonke into ephazamisayo kukuba siyaziva sibuhlungu ngenxa yokulahlekelwa, ngenxa yokuba sele esenayo ebomini, yindlela esinxibelelana ngayo naye.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa 'unamathele' kumntu onjalo? Okokuqala, zama uku "fundisa kwakhona", ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka. Mphakamise ukuba aye kwiikhosi, khangela umsebenzi, ukuze, ngandlela-thile, ngandlela-thile, ixazulule ngokuzimela iingxaki zakhe. Ukuba uzama ukukhenkcela konke oku, akafuni, uze uhluthe zonke iintlobo zobudlelwane naye. Wonke umntu ngumyili wezakhiwo zakhe.
Ngoku siyazi ukuba kufuneka sixoxe nomntu olahlekileyo ebomini. Landela la macebiso kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba uphumelele ebomini, akubalulekanga ebomini ukuthetha nomntu olahlekileyo.