Vula, uthembele kwaye ube nobungane. Awuzange ufihla kwiingxaki zakho, iimvakalelo kunye nemihlali. Kwaye wayehlala ezama ukukuqonda kwaye ngezinye iindlela wayenjengomhlobo omdala. Abantu abangaqhelekanga baze bakuthathe oodadewethu: umama ubonakala esemncinci, egqoke ngesicatshulwa ... Into kuphela oyenamahloni ngokuthetha nomama wakho kukukhathazeka kangakanani ngobomi bakhe.
Utata akahlali nani ixesha elide - wafa xa uselula. Ngelo xesha wayenamadoda amaninzi, kodwa kunye nabo babengazange basebenze. Ukususela ngoko, njengoko ufumanisa ukuba umama awunamnandi kumnye, waqala ukuphupha ukuba ekugqibeleni waba nobomi bomntu. Ngenye imini iinqwenela zakho zizaliseka. Kwaye umama wamfumanisa umphefumlo wakhe umlingane, uncinci kuye kwaye indoda enjalo yindoda enkulu, inamandla kwaye inokuqiniseka. Uthetha ngokuvakalayo, njengokungathi uyalela. Kwaye kukho konke, nantoni na ayithintelayo, uyazi kakuhle indlela yokwenza ngokufanelekileyo. Uqale wayilungisa kakuhle: umama wacinga ukuba unamahloni, ngoko-ke utyhafile - ufuna nje umkhuseli kunye negalelo elinamandla, onokuyithemba. Kodwa ngoku uvakalelwa kukuba ngokuza kwekhwenkwe yakho kunye nonyoko, ubuhlobo buye balahleka kwenye indawo. Hayi, awuyikuzenza ngandlela-thile ininzi kaMama, njengentombazana encinane. Hayi! Kodwa ... umama ubonakala ephendukela komnye umntu. Uyabona ukuba kuyo yonke into eba yinto enjengomlingane wakhe womphefumlo. Njengokuba kungenakucatshulwa yinto. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ungumdlali - ebusika akanakulindela nayiphi na iqhwa kwi-snowboard, kwaye ehlobo uququzelela ukuhamba ngeenqanawa. Kwaye umama, ohlala ekhulile kwaye ehlala ekhaya, uyazama ukuqhubeka naye.
Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba kwakungekho ubundlobongela ngokwakho ... Uyazi umama wakho kakuhle kwaye ubona ukuba akayithandi. Kodwa akakhonanga nantoni na, kodwa ubeka ubomi obonwabileyo. Ngemibono yobuqu - into efanayo. Uhlobo lomfana luyinto yokudumisa okanye yokugweba - kwaye umama uyamlandela ... Kuyintloni! Ngokuphathelele yonke imicimbi yakho, umama uthi ngoku ngezwi elifani nakwezinye amagama. Kwiinyanga ezinje awuzange ube yedwa, "intliziyo-entliziyweni" ayinxibelelisi. Wonke umntu, ewe, uthi, kufuneka unike umama wakho ithuba lokuphila njengoko ufuna. Wena uyaqonda ukuba awukwazi ukuhlala uhlala naye kunye. Ukuba ngoku unobomi bakhe, kwaye unelungelo lokumlahla njengoko ethanda. Kwaye nokuba ugwebe ukusuka kwinqanaba lomntu osondeleyo kuye ngoku ...
Ingqondo iyayiqonda yonke into , kodwa ibuhlungu kwaye ikulangazelela ubomi obudala. Kutheni watshintsha ngokukhawuleza kwaye waphathwa kangaka?
Naliphi na umfazi, kungakhathaliseki ubudala, xa efumana umphefumlo wakhe umlingane, ngokuzithandela okanye ngokungafunekiyo uqala ukutshintsha phantsi kwefuthe lomlingane. Yaye ukuba uthando luhlanganyelana, ngoko bobabini batshintshe. Okubi okanye okulungileyo, kuxhomekeke kwindlela abantu abazibona ngayo ngokwaneleyo. Ngaba kubi kakhulu ukuba umama waqala ukukholisa ubomi? Ngaba wayezama ukwenza into awazange akwenze ngaphambili? Kubonakala ngathi akukho. Enyanisweni, ukuba iinguqu zithintele ubudlelwane bomama kuwe nakwimeko yakho kwaye, ngokugweba ngamazwi akho, kungekhona okubhetele - oku kulungele ukuthobela ingqalelo.
Kufuneka ufumane ixesha kwaye uxoxe nomntu omthandayo ongeyithandi okwangoku. Musa nje ukulahla amabinzana aqhelekileyo afana nawo: "Ube nzima kakhulu kum" okanye "Uhluke," kwaye uchaze ngokucacileyo oko ungakuthandiyo kwaye kukukhathaze. Kwaye kungcono ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nomama kunye nesiqingatha sesibini. Mhlawumbi uthanda ukunyuka kwehlobo kunye nokuhlaselwa kwebusika.