Vuka
Musa ukuhlala ekhaya, entwasahlobo kukuhle ukuhamba ngepaki. Ukuba kubanda, ukulahlwa kwakho kukho indawo ezininzi apho unokufumana ixesha elifanelekileyo uze udibanise. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwanele ukuba ube kwindawo ephakamileyo yamadoda kwaye ubomi bakho buya kuhamba njengemilambo yentaba ukusuka kwiindawo ezinqabileyo. Mhlawumbi apho uya kufumana impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokuqhelana nomntu wamaphupha akho.
Amacwecwe okuqhayisa
Amantombazana amaninzi aqwalasela-isinyathelo kufuneka sihambe kuphela kumntu. Yeka ezi zinto zingenangqondo. Eli nyathelo kufuneka lihambe kumacala amabini. Ukwahlukana okukuphela koko kukuba kumadoda isicwangciso esicacileyo nesicacileyo silindeleke. Inkokheli ekufuneka ikwazi ukukhupha isisombululo samadoda, kubangele ukuba amadoda afike kwaye ayazi.
Iintsiba ezicocekileyo
Qinisekisa ukuba uzenzele into entsha, kodwa bhetele uhlaziye ngokupheleleyo i-wardrobe. Awuyi kugqoba kuphela - ingubo entsha iya kukunika amandla kunye nokuzithemba. Izambatho zingcono ukhethe nomntu onobugcisa nombonakalo othandayo.
Ukunyusa izinwele. Kanye ungazisoli ngemali uze uye kumphathi omhle. Emva kokuba unokwenza isitholo sekhanda kunye nokuya kwiironi ezingabizi.
Sizalisa amanxeba
I-beriberi ye-Spring iyakuchaphazela ngokucacileyo ulusu. Kwaye ufuna ukulungiswa ngoku ngoku. Musa ukukhangela kwimpilo. Yenza isikhumba sakho senze konke okusemgangathweni. Yenza konke okusemandleni ukuza kuthandana nawe kunye namadoda abayi kukwazi ukukukhupha amehlo.
Indlela yokukhahlela njengeentaka
Abantu bakuva ilizwi lethu ngokungafaniyo nathi. Rekhoda ilizwi lakho kwirekhodi kwaye uliphulaphule. Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba uqonde indlela abanye abantu abava ngayo ilizwi lakho kwaye benze izilungiso ezifunekayo.
Durkimsya
Ziqhelanise phambi kwesibuko esikhwankqisayo, ubukeka kunye nesenzo. Unokutsala abahlobo, abahlobo, nokuba wenze umdlalo kunye nemiklomelo kunye nezipho. Oku kuphuhlisa izakhono zokuthetha ngokungabonakaliyo kwaye kuya kunceda ngexesha elifanelekileyo ukhonkwane umntu wamaphupha akho.
Amehlo wokwakha
Isixhobo sethu esiyinhloko sisiso. Inamandla, igcwele amandla kunye namandla, umboniso ubonisa isikhundla esipheleleyo sokuphila. Khumbula, izibane emehlweni akho zizala amadoda angaphantsi kweentsimbi zakho zonke.
Ukutsala
Uqhelwano luqala ngokuqhagamshelana kwamehlo. Amantombazana amaninzi "aphuma kwingozi" athathwe ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa ngoku akusiyo indlela yethu, kuba emva kokusabela okunjalo umntu wamaphupha akho akafanelanga. Kwimeko enjalo, indlela ekhethekileyo kukuba ubambe amehlo akho emininzi imizuzwana, mncwina kwaye uqhube. Kule nto, awuyi kulahlekelwa nantoni na, kwimeko apho le mpendulo ingachazwa ngento yokuba uyixube kunye nomntu. Enyanisweni, umema ngokucacileyo umntu ukuba ajonge kwaye kulula kakhulu ukuba angene kwaye athethe.
Siya ku "wena"
Ukuze ukwazi ukulula kunye nolwazi olubalulekileyo kubalulekile ukuziphatha nomntu omtsha njengomhlobo omdala. Kutheni? Okokuqala, abantu baya kuhlawula ingqalelo - uya kubonakala kubo isiqabane esivamile. Okwesibini, indoda, ivakalelwa isimo sakho, iza kuqala ukukuphatha njengomhlobo owaziwayo. Oku kuya kukwenza ngaphandle kweengqungquthela ezingadingekile kwaye unike umntu omaziyo ukuba ujonge kwaye uyabonakala.
Zi nwabisa
Ekuqaleni konxibelelwano kubalulekile ukukhusela izihloko ezimbi, ezimbi kunye nezibhengezo. Oku kuya kudala umfanekiso okhangayo kunye nokuhamba emva kokumazi.
Closer
Xa uxoxisana, kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuthinta indoda. Oku kuya kwenza ukuba unxibelelwano lube mnandi, lube nethemba kwaye lusondele. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iingongoma ezimbini.
- Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko yokwenza oku ngokwemvelo kunye nokukhululeka. Eyona mihle ngexesha lokuhleka.
- Okwesibini, thintela kuqala kwicala langaphandle lentendeni, njengoko oku kungabangela ukungathandi kwinqanaba lokuqala lolwazi.
Ukubiza umnxeba
Ukuphuhliswa kobudlelwane ngeendlela ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwindlela uza kuqondwa ngayo ekuqaleni kwesazi. Ukucinga okulungileyo kukuqala kukunceda, ukucinga kakubi kuya kubangela ubunzima obongezelelweyo kunye neengxaki. Imvakalelo eyenziwe ngumfazi kakhulu kuxhomekeke ekubonakalayo. Ukukwazi ukukholisa ngokukhawuleza kunika ukuqala kwentloko, kwaye uya ku xolelwa ngenxa yeempazamo ezininzi ezincinci.
Yazi ixabiso
Ngexesha elifanayo, ukubonakala kubonisa loo ndoda indlela ozive ngayo ngawe, kwaye oku kuya kuthintela ingqondo yakhe. Ngoncedo lwezonyango, iimpahla kunye nezinye izinto zokusebenza, umfazi udala umfanekiso omhle. Kwixesha elizayo, amadoda ekuqale akubonele ngokusekelwe kulo mfanekiso. Okokuthi, ukuziphatha kwabo kunye nesimo sengqondo malunga nawe kuxhomekeke kule nto.
Siyekezela kakuhle
Kubalulekile ukuphazamisa iimvakalelo ezintle kunye nomoya omhle. Ukukhawulela abanye abantu kuwe. Oku kunokubangela ukuba umdla wabantu kunye nomnqweno wabo wobazana nabo.
Ukuphuhlisa
Zifumana zakho izinto ezithandwayo. Ihlabathi elizondayo liba lukhulu, ukuqina kwakho kumadoda kuya kwanda. Iiphotomodels ezininzi ngaphambi kokudubula zifunde iiklasiki ukwenzela ukwandisa umdla kunye nefuthe lokujonga.
Ukwenza uvavanyo
Ngokuqhelekileyo abahlobo abaphumelelayo banqandwa kukungazi kwengqondo yabantu okanye ukungabikho kwamava. Akukho ukuqonda into enokuyenza kwiimeko ezithile. Ejongene nesimo esingaqhelekanga, silahlekile kwaye silahlekelwa ithuba lokudibana nabantu okanye ukwenza iimpazamo ezininzi. Unokucinga ngaphambi kwamanqaku amaninzi: apho uya khona, yintoni u kuthetha ngayo njalo njalo. Kwakhona, ukuze ufumane amava, soloko uvulelekile kumaqabane amasha. Amava amnandi aya kuba luncedo xa udibana nendoda yamaphupha akho.
Ukwenza ibhentshi
Abasetyhini abaninzi bacinga ukuba abantu bayayithanda ubuhle kuphela kwaye bathembele kuphela kuyo. Le ndlela ayisebenziyo xa ufuna ukugcina indoda ixesha elide. Kukulungele ukuhlakulela ngeendlela ezininzi. Ngaloo ndlela ungaba ngumntu onomdla okwenene ngokwenene kwaye ukhange amadoda kungekhona nje ngobuhle. Ufuna ukukuthanda, kungekhona imilenze yakho okanye ezinye iindawo zomzimba.
Thatha kwaye uhlale entanyeni yakho
Uhluke. Kule meko, uya kuba mnandi kwaye unomdla kumntu wamaphupha akho, nangona xa umonde uya kuhla. Ulwalamano luya kuba lukhulu kangangokuba ukuphela kwexesha leentyatyambo ze-candy aliyi kuphazamisa umgangatho wobudlelwane bakho.
Ndikunqwenela wena uvuyo nenhlanhla!