Abesithoba kwabashumi abafazi baya kupeyinta imifanekiso eninzi, i-slender, i-muscular (umbala weenwele kunye namehlo ahluka) amadoda, kunye nomhlathi omkhulu we-movie ephezulu.
Sisiphi isizathu sokuhlala njalo? Ngaba intombazana enjengamadoda amakhulu? Okokuqala, phakathi kwabasetyhini, ekubeni ulawulo oluqhelekileyo lwama-mammoth kunye nezinye izilwanyana ezixhamla ngezilwanyana ezinobungozi ezingeni elingaphansi komgangatho, imiyalelo yokusetyenziswa isilondolozwe, ethi: enkulu inkunzi, iyona nto ingcono. Ngamanye amazwi, abafazi banokukhetha abo bafana abacinga ukuba bafanelekile ukuba basinde kwihlabathi lethu eliyinkimbinkimbi. Ngoko, amantombazana avela kumaxesha amandulo afana namadoda amakhulu. Kwaye oku kusemvelo. Ukususela kumntu ophakamileyo usasaza izixhobo zamanzi kunye nokuzithemba. Ujonge indoda enjalo ukusuka phezulu, emngcwabeni ehlombe okanye esifubeni, lona wesifazane ufumana ithuba lokuphumla, uzive ekhuselekile ("njengodonga lwamatye" - ibinzana elidala, elincinci, kodwa indlela yokubonisa intsingiselo yezinto). Kwaye kunjalo kunzima kakhulu ukukrazula.
Okwesibini, ngokweengxelo zamuva, ukukhula kwabantu kukhula ngonyaka. Kule minyaka engama-50 edlulileyo, ukwanda kwamanani kwindoda kwanda ngamasentimitha asibhozo. Kwaye kwiminyaka engamashumi amahlanu ezayo, kucetywayo ukuba ikhule ngamanye amasentimitha amahlanu. Ukuba ubheka ihlabathi ukususela kwimbono yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ukukhula okuphezulu kunokubonwa njengophawu lweenkqubela phambili, ngokokuba amadoda amade azakuba yinto eqhelekileyo ngokukhawuleza. Naliphi na i-psychologist yokuqala kwiingxelo ezimbini eziza kuchazela kuwe isifiso esisigxina kunye nesinqabileyo sobulili obufanelekileyo ukuba ufumane inzala kumadoda angenakuqonda. Ukongezelela, ukukhula okuphezulu kuninzi lwabasetyhini ngenye yezona zinto eziphambili (kufundwa, eziyimfuneko) iimpawu zesini kumadoda. Ngoko, akumangalisi ukuba amantombazana anjengeendoda ezide. Bakholelwa ukuba umfana omude kufuneka abe ne-penis efanele.
Okwesithathu, kukho inqwaba yezinto ezingamnandi, ezicaphukisa amadoda kwaye zisebenza njengomhlaba wokuzalisa izigulane. Iindibano zee-intanethi zizele kwaye zigqithise ngokuqiqa: "Ndiyathanda izicathulo ngeentendelezo" okanye "indoda endala kwaye iyindoda ebomileyo kwaye wonke umntu uyandithandabuza."
Yaye isayensi ithi ntoni ngale nto?
Inzululwazi zasePoland naseBrithani zenze izifundo ezininzi, ezibonisa indlela enomdla. Kubonakala ukuba abantu abade banamathuba okutshata kwaye banabantwana abaninzi kakhulu. Ingaba abafazi bathandwa kakhulu ekukhuleni okuphakamileyo, nokuba ngaba amadoda amade azimisele ngakumbi kwaye ahambelane - aba baphandi abazange bacacise. Kufunyenwe kuphela ukuba izikhombisi zabantu abanzi azihambelani nomgangatho ongaphantsi. Ngokomzekelo, kuqinisekiswe ukuba abantwana abangenazo abantwana bangama-3 ukuya ku-3.5 centimeters aphantsi (amanani aphakathi anikezelwa) kulabo abanomntwana omnye, kunye namadoda atshatiweyo-2.5 cm ubukhulu ngaphezu kweebhelhelors.
Inyaniso ehlekayo: ezo zifundo zaqala ukuqhutyelwa xa kuphawulwe ukuba emvakalweni yomtshato, amadoda abonisa ukukhula kwawo kuphela xa idlula umyinge.
Ikwasekwa kwakhona (kwaye iqinisekiswe zizifundo ezizimeleyo zezinzulu zesayensi zaseSweden) ukuba kumadoda angaphezu kokukhula komyinge, isimo senhlalakahle kunye neengeniso ziphezulu kunezo ezisezantsi. Amadoda aphakamileyo aphakamileyo kwimfundo ephakamileyo ye-194 cm yafumana amaxesha angaphezu kwama-2-3 ngaphezu kwesixa esiphezulu asizange sifinyelele kuma-165 cm.
Nasi esinye isizathu sokuba ngaba abaninzi abafazi ukhetho lomlingani wesondo luhambelana ngqo nokukhula kwalo. Akusiyo umcimbi we-aesthetics, kodwa u-pragmatism: ukukhula okuphezulu
Ngoko kuvela: amadoda akhulileyo akhula kubonakala ngabafazi abafanelekanga ukunakwa. Kwaye amadoda amakhulu, ngokuchaseneyo, afana nabasetyhini.