Imvakalelo yePlussy
Xa umntu eziva, xa egxininiswa yimvakalelo enamandla, ubonakala ephakama, ephakame. Umntu uqala ukutyhila iitalente ezifihliweyo, uhlala efuna ukwenza into ethile, ukudala ngenxa yothando. Ayikho imfihlelo yokuba yayiseburhulumenteni nothando abantu abaphumelele kakhulu. Uthando luyimpumelelo yokufezekisa iziphumo ezitsha eziphezulu. Ngokomzekelo, umntu onothando oye waba khona ngokuzeleyo ebomini bakhe, ngenxa yemvakalelo yakhe, uqala ukunqwenela into ekufezekisileyo, into yokunyuka kuyo, njalo njalo. Ukulungele ukuya eninzi kumthandekayo wakhe, kwaye into emangalisa ngayo, yonke into eyayibonakala iyisiphukuphuku kwaye ingathandeki, ngoku iqala ukuvelisa inzala, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iyavuya. Uthando luya kutshintsha abantu. Baye bavuleka ngakumbi, banentlalontle, bayavuya. Emva kokuba umntu ovalekile kwaye onesizungu, emva kokuwa othandweni, uqala ukuxubusha ngabantu, ukuthetha kunye njalo njalo. Xa bethetha uthando luphefumulela, kukho inyaniso enkulu kule nto. Siyabulela kule mvakalelo yokuba ufuna ukwenza into engayenzanga ngaphambili. Kubonakala ngathi baphatha ubomi, yonke into iyanda, iyamnandi, iyonwabile. Ngokomntu kuhlala kubonakala ukuba uyabathanda. Amehlo akhe anikezela - ayavutha. Nangona umntu ezama ukufihla uthando lwakhe, abo baziyo kakuhle, baya kuqonda yonke into, kuba uthando lufakela into ekhethekileyo, ebonakalayo kubo bonke. Uthando lwenza uhlale unyanisekile, unomusa kwaye uvelwano. Xa siyamthanda, siyayeka ukuba ngaba-egoists abanjalo, kuba ngoku sifuna ukuhlala komnye umntu. Ukongezelela, ngenxa yothando, umntu unokuhlala efunda into entsha, afikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, engazange aziphuphe. Akumangalisi ukuba bonke abantu abakhulu banamathole, abafazi, abo kunye nabo bafuna ukudala. Ngoko ke, unokutsho ngokuchanekileyo ukuba uthando ludala. Kodwa, ngelishwa, oku kwenzeka kuphela kwindawo ethile.
Iimfutshane zemiva
Uthando ludala kuphela de umntu abone iimvakalelo ezifanayo kunye nethemba lokubafumana. Kodwa xa eqonda ukuba uyayithanda, kwaye akayithandwanga ngokubuyisela, ngoko ke konke okusemandleni akhe akufumanisa kuye, kwaye endaweni yakhe kuvela intlungu, umsindo kunye nokudandatheka. Ingakanani umntu odidekileyo othandwayo utshintsha, uyamangalisa. Yonke into ayenzayo ngenxa yintanda yakhe, iqala ukumcaphukisa. Kubonakala kuye ukuba kuya kuba yinto enyanyekayo ukwenza into awayenzele yona kunye nayo. Nangona, ekuthandeni, umntu othile kwindawo ethile ufumene iziphumo ezibalulekileyo, ekulahlekeleni ukulungelelanisa, yena, mhlawumbi, uyayeka ukukwenza. Xa abantu beqonda ukuba iimvakalelo zabo azizange zikhokele kuyo into enhle, bayaqiniseka ukuba uthando aluhle, kodwa lubi. Ukwahlula kwengqondo kwaye yenza ukuba wenze izinto abangazange bazenze kwiimeko zabo eziqhelekileyo. Kwaye ukuba izenzo zabo zibangelwa yimpembelelo, akukho nto ilungileyo kubo. Yaye makabonise ukuba umntu wayemthanda kangangokuthi waba ngcono kwaye wabonisa iitalente kuye wonke umntu, akafuni ukukholelwa. Ukuba sele eswele ngothando kwaye engazange athole ukulungelelanisa, umntu uya kuba kubi kunokuba ngaphambili. Uyeka ukuqonda into enjengoko kwakungaphambili, kuba uloyiko lweemvakalelo. Uqala nje ukwesaba ukuva into ethile kumntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba umntu uqala ukuphatha kakubi abantu abanamathe tye kuye. Enyanisweni, ukwesaba ukuvakalelwa kwakhona into, ukunyamekela uthando kwakhona, ukuphoxeka kwakhona. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho iimeko xa emva kokuva iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu, umntu uyazicima ngaphandle kweyona ayithandayo, kodwa kubo bonke abasondeleyo kuye. Uqala ukuphatha izihluthuko ngokungakholelwa, kuba ngenxa yoxinzelelo, uqala ukuvakalelwa kukuba abanye bangenza okufanayo. Ukongeza, abo baziva beziva behlala bexinezelekile. Bazicima ngokupheleleyo kwihlabathi lenene, bayeke ukuba banomdla kunoma yini kwaye abayivumeli nabani ukungena. Yonke imihla yobomi bakhe umntu uyaziqonda okanye ngeentlungu, okanye azinqabile. Uqala ukubona indlela ehluke ngokupheleleyo, njengento engathandabuzekiyo okanye enobudlova kuye.
Iinkonzo zobuchule
Xa umntu enqaba iimvakalelo, kuba lula ngaye ukuba aphile. Uzenza ngamabomu ukuzithintela kwiimvakalelo ezinamandla aze ayeke ukuzithanda. Okokuthi, ukuba ubona ukuba iimvakalelo zakhe zivela ekubeni ngumhlobo obusondeleyo, uzama ukuyeka, ngokukodwa ukuzikhusela ekuvutheni komsindo. Ngenxa yoko, lo mntu uhlale ezinzileyo. Uyeka ukucaphuka, ngokuqhelekileyo kubhekisela kwabanye. Ukuthintela iimvakalelo, abantu bathambekele ekucingeni ngakumbi, kuba ngoku abanakuphelelwa yimvakalelo .Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ngokuyeka uthando, baye bazuza ngakumbi-bathuthuzele. Ngoku akudingeki ukuba bakhathazeke kakhulu ngomntu, baphume kwesikhumba sabo ukuze bafeze into kwaye baqinisekise into ethile. Baya kuphila ngokuthula ngokwabo, baphile njengoko bafuna, kungekhona ngendlela ethanda ngayo. Ukongezelela, imbono engqiqo yehlabathi ibancedisa ukuba babone abantu ngokungaqhelekanga, kungekhona ukuba bawaqonde kwi-prism yeemvakalelo, ngenxa yokuba sifuna ukucinga abanye. Ukungaqiniseki kukunceda ukucinga nokucinga ngokucokisekileyo.
Umthwalo wokungabikho
Ukungaqiniseki kuguqula umntu kwi-robot. Xa eyeka ukuva iimvakalelo ezinamandla, ekugqibeleni ukuba abantu baqala ukuphawula indlela abasondeleyo nabathandekayo abayekanga ukusabela ngayo kwihlabathi ngendlela efanayo nomntu oqhelekileyo omele akwenze. Unobanda kakhulu kwaye uvaliwe, unqabile ukubonisa iimvakalelo ezifudumeleyo ngokubhekiselele kwintsapho yakhe, abantu bakhe abasondeleyo kunye nabomthonyama. Umntu uqinisekisa wonke umntu ukuba konke kulungile naye, kuphela abantu abajikelezeyo bafumana ingcamango yokuba eshiywe kuphela igobolondo iyaqhubeka isebenza, kodwa ngexesha elinye layeka ukuhlala. Ukuphazamiseka kobuchule kukuba ngokuyeka uthando, umntu unqabana kakhulu, oko kungazisa ulonwabo, ukuzalisekisa inyaniso yakhe ngemveli kunye nemibala. Ukuhlala uhlala kwisinye isingqungquthela somzwelo, umntu uqala ukuma, ulahlekelwe ngumdla kuyo yonke into, kuba kunokubangela ukuvakalelwa, kwaye iimvakalelo azifunanga. Ngoko ke, xa abantu bengavumi ukuvakalelwa, kudla ukuba kwenzeka ukuba banamalungu amaninzi abaxhamlileyo, kuba abaninzi banokuthi bahlale beqhagamshelana nebhobhothi. Kwaye abo, ngaphezu koko, bahlala beqhankqalazo baza bazama ukuvusa iimvakalelo, baqale bahlupheke, kuba bahlala bejamelene nodonga olungabonakaliyo lokungakhathaleli. Uthando luzisa kubantu bobabini uvuyo kunye nokudumala, kodwa ukungaqiniseki akuvelisi nantoni na, yinto engenangqondo emphefumlweni.