Ngoko-ke, phulaphula isiluleko esinikwa ngabaphathi beengqondo, kwaye intlanganiso yokuqala kunye nesihlobo esitsha asiyi kubangela ubuhlobo bakho obungagqibekanga naye.
Okokuqala, khumbula: akunakwenzeka ukuba unina oyintanda ubonakale kuwe, unomdla kuzo zonke iziganeko. Ngaba uyayifuna okanye ayikho, kodwa nawuphi na umama-mkhwenkwe kwiminyaka emininzi wayelungelelanisa isithuba sonyana wakhe ngamaphupha, wakha izicwangciso ezithile. Kwakhona wayenengcamango malunga nabazukulwana abathandekayo nabahlakaniphileyo, kodwa mhlawumbi wayengacingi kakhulu kuwe ngawe. Kwaye nangona unembonakalo kaNicole Kidman, ingqondo kaSofya Kovalevskaya kunye nesimo sengqondo sezimvu, uya kukhangela ngokungafunekiyo iimpazamo kuwe.
Ungabizi unina, ingakumbi xa uqala ukumqhelana naye, mnike ithuba lokuzibandakanya kunye nedilesi njengoko ufuna.
Qaphela incoko, nangayiphi na imeko musa ukuvula amakhadi akho kwiimbono malunga nemiba ejongene nesondo, ezopolitiko kunye nenkolo. Kwaye ungabi noluhlu ekukhuseleni umbono wakho kule miba. Kwintlanganiso yokuqala kuphela isihloko esisodwa sencoko iyamkeleka: luhlobo luni lunyana ngumntu omhle, ukuba wenyuswa kangakanani, kwaye unenhlanhla ukuba uyatshata naye.
Musa ukubamba intlanganiso kwintsimi yakho. Lindela isimemo endlwini yomamazala kamva. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuzibeka phantsi, uzinike ithuba lokufumana iimpazamo ekuhlambulukeni kunye nokuhlelwa kwindlu, kwakunye nakwizakhono zakho zokucoca.
Musa ukuzibonga kwiincoma ezifana "Uthi ucocekile" (nangona eqinisweni ukuba iingcamango zakho eziyiyoyilo azihambelani ngqo). Nangona kunjalo, musa ukubonisa intshiseko eninzi xa ubona ubuninzi bezinto eziphathekayo, mhlawumbi kuya kubonwa njengento ecacileyo ecacileyo, ethi, awuyi kuyeka izipho ezifanayo kwaye wena ngokwakho awuzange ube nezinto ezinjalo. Emva koko baya kukhangela phantsi kwakho bonke ubomi bakho.
Ngomdla, yidla yonke into efakwe kwisitya kwaye ithululelwe kwindebe. Futhi ungalokothi uthethe amabinzana afana ne "Le saladi endiyifumanayo ingakumbi." Nangona kunjalo.
Ndingathini, ukuba umamazala kamva ...
... wanyulwa ngenxa yonyana wakhe, owenene "wabangenisa abantu"?
Ngoku ngokuqhelekileyo ulindela ukuba umalokazana wakhe makabe olungileyo ngaphandle, kunye nomlingiswa, nangemfundo, nangomsebenzi. Ukuba awunayo le mpawu, awuzange uhlangabezane nezi zilindele, uza kuba nexesha elinzima kakhulu. Ngako oko, iqhinga elihle lihlala lihlonipha kakhulu, ukufumana iimpawu ezintle kunye neenkcukacha ngaphakathi kwakho kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukuba uziqwalasele ngokucokisekileyo.
... phakathi kwala mabhinqa abazondayo ngaphambili zonke izihlobo zonyana wabo - abo babenjalo, kwaye baya kuba kuphela.
Lungiselela ukuphulaphula ibali leentlanga ezidlulileyo zentando yakhe, ngexesha elizola. Ukuba uceliwe ngombono kumntu osuka kwamanye amalungu entsapho oye wadibana naye, nqama kwigama elilumkileyo elinjengokuthi "Yena (a) umntu omhle kakhulu", kodwa ugweme amazwana amade. Qaphela: lo mama uthanda ukwahlula nokulawula.
... umlawuli wangempela.
Inokwenzeka ukuba, uya kuguqula umhlangano wakho wokuqala kwinkonzo yindoda ezayo, kwaye zonke iibrazana ziya kwakha kuphela ngendlela yokwenza umyalelo: "Ngobusuku kufuneka alindele isidlo esitsha esilungile. ! " Nasi isicwangciso esihle kakhulu ukuthobeka. Vumelana ne "jikelele kwi skirt", nokuba ngaba ithoni yencoko iyakuthi, kwaye imiyalelo ibonakala ingenakwenzeka. Xa efika kukutyelela, zama ukukhonza isidlo esishushu ngexesha, bonisa ukucaca okucacileyo nokuchaneka. Ngoko ke kunokwenzeka ukuba kwiintlanganiso ezilandelayo uya kubeka izandla zakhe.
... uthanda ukuziqhayisa kwaye uzibeke umzekelo kuwe.
Nantoni na oyenzayo, uyaqiniseka ukuba yonke into ibhetele kuye, engayi kukwazi ukuyixelela ngethuba le ntla nganiso yokuqala. Nangona kunjalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ilungele ukuba angaziboni, uqinisekile ukuba uyaphumelela into ethile. Fumana oku kunye kunye nokuzibonga ngokukhawuleza ngokubuyisela.
... ngokukhawuleza ufuna ukuba ngumhlobo wakho omhle, uya kuqala ukunikela ngoncedo lwakhe malunga nendlu.
Qaphela: xa unamenywa ukuba ukhange iholide yakho ngenja yakho, kunokukhokelela ekuphicothweni kwiphephethi yakho nekhabethe. Ngenxa yoko, emva kokubuya, uya kuchitha ixesha elide ukufumana ikratshi yakho okanye iirisithi ekuthandayo ukuhlawula ifowuni. Ngoko zama ukukhawuleza ukunyamekela okunjalo.
... ucinga ukuba unika unyana wakhe, kwaye kumntu wakho ufumana udade onobubele.
Ukuba umama wakho wexesha elizayo uyayiphendula ngokuhloniphekileyo "njani" uhamba ngeendlela ezide kuzo zonke izifo zakho, uze uziye kule mibuzo.
... i-snob.
Nangona uvela kwintsapho yasebukhosini, uyaqiniseka ukuba awufanelanga ukuba unyana wakhe avela. Igazi lakho alikho umbala ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqala ukuzibuza ukuba uyazazi abantu abadumileyo njengo-N. noZ. Ncedisa uzuko lwebhendi yakho kwaye ubuze ukuba uyazi kakuhle na, ngo-F., S. no-X. (Amagama ngokukhawuleza, ukuba ngaba babenomntwana kwaye benza ingqiqo - iiparele, i-Erdman, iKrestovnikov, njl.). Nokuba ngaba ngabavakalisi bakho ekuhlaleni, musa ukunqumla - akayi kubazi.
... donjuan kwi skirt.
Ibhinqa, ngokutsho kwenani lemitshato, lingabambana noElizabethe Taylor, lingenalo ukholo olungcwele kwiziko lemtshato. Ngoko ke, xa uqala nomyeni wakho, umthandi wentsapho, uya kumcebisa ukuba abaleke kuwe ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, kunokumkholisa ukuba alungise yonke into ngokuthula.
Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba ulwalamano lwakho nomama-mkhwenkwe luye lwaphuhliswa njani, khumbula ukuba Ukhethile kuyo yonke into ebizwa ngokuba yintsapho yobomi. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kuba kuhle, ukuba yena ngokwakhe wayehlala ekhumbula le nto.
Naphezulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umama wakho unobungozi kangakanani, ngombono wakho, ubuncinci ngezikhathi ezithile ukhumbule ukuba nguye ozalayo waza wakhulela indoda endiyithandayo kwaye ngaphandle kwayo ongenakukucingela ubomi bakho. Ngoko, oku sele kuyenze, nangona kukho konke, isimo sengqondo esihle.
... Ngaba uyaphupha malunga nendodana yakho kunye nonyulwe? Ndiyakuvuyela, kwaye ngolunye usuku uya kuba ngumkhwekazi!
Umbhali: Elena Stepanova