Apha sinika iindlela eziliqela indlela umntu angafunda ngayo ukulibala elibi ekusebenzeni.
1. Iinkqubo ezintathu zokunyuka
U-Igor Matyunin uhlolisise le ndlela ngokwakhe. Xa epapashe iincwadi zokuqala, waphoqeleka ngenzala enkulu ukuba athathe imali mboleko kwibhanki enye. Kodwa iincwadi zazithengiswa kakhulu ekuqaleni, kwaye kwakunzima ku-Igor ukuba abuyisele imali. Wayenenkxalabo, phantse angalali. Ngenxa yamava, wayephantse egula.
Kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa esebenzisa le ndlela kuye, wafumana indlela yokuphuma kwile ngxaki, kwaye ukubola kwadlula.
Eli qhinga ekuqaleni kufuneka lisetyenziswe ngababini. Fumana umntu onokumthembayo, kwaye ufunde olu buchule kunye. Thatha uhlobo oluthile lwemibi. Umzekelo, unengozi.
Kwisinyathelo sokuqala kufuneka ukhulume, kubalulekile ukukhulula ngokukhawuleza ukuxhatshazwa. Kule meko, umntu oza kukuphulaphula, akufanele akhumule okanye abe nesihe kuwe. Ufuna ukuva oku kubi kunye nawe. Kufuneka akubuze imibuzo enjalo, apho ungayi kuphendula "Ewe" okanye "Hayi", kodwa uya kukwazi ukuphendula ngokubanzi. Ufana nokuba ufuna ukuvuselela, ukuba ukhulunywe.
Kwinqanaba lesibini, umnxibelelwano wakho kufuneka akubuze: "Yintoni enokuba yimbi kunokuba kwenzeke kuwe?". Lowo osindayo ngengozi, ekuqaleni uya kucinga: "Yintoni eyimbi kunokuba kwenzeke." Kwaye umnxibelelwano kufuneka ancede umntu ukuba athole into enhle ngolu hlobo: "Kodwa emva kokuba wonke umatshini uhlaziywe, yonke into ayimbi kakhulu - ingalungiswa", "Kuhle ukuba akukho mntu wafa kwaye wonke umntu wayephila", ...
Kubalulekile ukuba umntu ufumane ingcamango ecacileyo ngokwakhe, kuphela ke uya kulawula ukulibala ngokukhawuleza.
Kwisinyathelo sesithathu, sifanele sifunde izifundo kwisiganeko, umzekelo: "Ukususela kwangoku, ndiza kuhlahlela ijubane ngexesha lokujika" okanye "Ndiza kuzama ukuqhubela ubusuku ebusuku kwiindawo ezingalindelekanga zendlela."
Ngenxa yolu hlobo, ukuxhatshazwa kufuneka kuhambe. Awuzange ukwazi ukulibala nje into embi, kodwa sele usebenze ngamava akho kwaye wafunda kuzo izifundo eziwusizo.
2. Indlela ye "Byak-zakalyaka"
Uzakufuna iphepha le ndlela. Kudingeka ukuba zidwetshwe okanye zichazwe ngokucacileyo kwezo meko onokuthanda ukuzilibala. Qaphela ngokucophelela iphethini eliphumo, ufunde kwakhona imigca. Emva koko vala amehlo akho ngemizuzu embalwa, emva koko kufuneka utyhoboze amakhishithi kwiincinci ezincinci, okanye, nokuba ngcono, zitshise.
Umlotha okanye udoti oseleyo kufuneka uphoswe kwaye ukhohliwe. Ngoko unokukrazula imemori emibi.
3. Iindlela "Iicacac tactics"
Yenza iibhodi ezilishumi ngokugqithisa okwehlukileyo-glue i-flap ye-flap kwi-flap enye, kwelinye - ucezu lwesibhokhwe, kwi-third, i-wax yokuxhoma, njl njl.
Okokuqala kufuneka uvale amehlo uze uthinte umyalelo apho balele khona. Emva koko xubusha uphinde ulungiselele ngokufanayo. Umgangatho ngamnye uya kukubangela ukuba ube nembi okanye inkumbulo emihle - nantsi ndaza ndawa, ndaza ndazitshisa ikati, njl njl. Emva koko, faka iiflethi zakho ngokulandelelana kwemizwa - ukusuka kwinto engathandekiyo yinto ebangela ukuvakalelwa okulungileyo.
Ukuphumeza lo msebenzi, thina, njengokuba kunjalo, kunye neeplates, siphumelele imemori, ukugxotha kunye nokulibala zonke izinto ezimbi.