Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ngubani na oomama abathandayo amadoda kubomi bentsapho, uze ufumane oko kufuneka ukuba utshintshe kuwe ukuze ubudlelwane bakho bosapho bude kwaye buvuyiswe.
Impazamo kakhulu abo bafazi abakholelwa ukuba kumadoda, ukhetho lomlingani wezobomi ukubonakala kwakhe kunye nomfanekiso. Enyanisweni, amadoda ayaxabisa kwaye amthande umfazi, ukuba uyazithemba, uzimeleyo, unomusa, uzama ukuqonda umlingane. Zisebenze ngokwakho ukuba uzisondeza kumfanekiso womfazi ofanelekileyo.
Khumbula ezinye iingcebiso ongazithatha njengesikhokelo.
Indoda isoloko iyindoda. Kwaye uyavuya ukubona emva komfazi ozinakekelayo kwaye uhlala ekhangeleka. Akukho nto iphakamisa ukuzithemba komntu, njengomona kwabanye kumfazi wakhe.
Kwinkampani yabahlobo bakhe, amaqabane okanye intsapho, vuyisa kwaye ujongane ekunxibelelaneni. Kodwa, musa ukulibala ukuba indoda yakho iyona nto ibhetele. Makuqonde oku.
U kuqonda! Nantsi into ebaluleke kakhulu eyimfuneko yokwalamano lwentsapho olomeleleyo. Funda ukuqonda umyeni wakho ukuze ngekamva akukho zihlandlo ezibucayi.
Indoda isoloko ivuyisa ukuqonda ukuba umfazi wakhe ukhaliphile. Iimbono ukuba uluntu luntwini luloyiko kwaye luphephe abafazi abaziimfama bayinxalenye yabantu abalahlekileyo. Ngomntu onobuqili, kunokuhlala kukho into ekuthetha ngayo. Akayi kuba neentloni ukuphuma nawe.
Amadoda ayawaxabisa indlela abafazi baziva ngayo.
Ukongeza kumlingane, ngokwemvelo, ebomini bakho kukho izihlobo, oogxa, abahlobo. Kodwa, akukho mzekelo, ungavumeli ubudlelwane obungabikho bentsapho buphazamise isikhala somntu wakho .
Kuyavuma, njengokuba ngumfazi ococekileyo kunye nokwakha ubuhlobo bentsapho obuhle kunzima kakhulu. Kodwa, sihlolisise iimpawu ezidalwa ngabantu abafazi. Yaye yintoni esicasulayo kuthi kuthi?
Amadoda akhathazeke kakhulu ngokudlala ngothando lomfazi nabahlobo bakhe. Nangona ukuba akayena u-Othello, musa ukuzithoba nabangane bakhe. Ekubeni uyifaka kwimeko enzima kakhulu: ngakwesinye icala akukho mnqweno wokuxabana nomhlobo, kwesinye - akukho mnqweno wokuxabana nawe. Xa unesibini kwinkampani, akufanele ugxeke indoda. Iqabane lakho kufuneka ube inkxaso nenkxaso. Shiya amabango akho kude kube ngumzuzu xa uwedwa.
Musa ukucebisa phambi kwendoda ukubandakanyeka kumaski ebuso, iinwele ezihamba ngeenwele. Kwaye, nangona kunjalo, akukufanelekanga kwindlela ecacileyo, ingekho ngesondo, ulala nomyeni wakho. Ukuzibeka ngokwakho, vuka bhetele isigqibo seyure ngaphambili. Yinyamekele i-psyche yesilisa.
Shiya yedwa indoda enemibuzo engapheliyo: "Uyandithanda?". Ngaphandle koko, mhlawumbi umlingane wakho onobubele kunye noqhafazayo uya kuba yindloso.
Kuyaziwa ukuba abantu abathandi abakhulu bokucoca kwindlu. Siza kukuxelela imfihlelo, ukugcina inkqubo yokucoca ngokuqhelekileyo, oye waqala ngeveki, inika unonwabo ngakumbi.
Enyanisweni, umntu angacatshulwa yiyiphi na into enganelanga ukusuka kwakho. Kwaye, ukuba ubuze ngokwenene umbuzo, "kufuneka ube yintoni ulwalamano lwentsapho?" Wabeka iinjongo - ukuba ube ngumfazi ofanelekileyo.
Emva koko, kuyafaneleka ukuphulaphula umlingane wakho kunye neminqweno yakhe. Kodwa, kwaye uzibophezele ukutshintsha ngokwakho, akufanelekanga. Emva kwakho konke, umlingane wakho wathandana nawe njengokuba ukhona. Yaye ukuba ngelinye ilanga akayikukuqonda kwaye akayithandi umfanekiso wakho omtsha, ke ngubani owaziyo umtshato wakho unokuphela.