Kodwa, kwakukho ummeli wesifazane, kwaye ngoku ufanele uphile ngemithetho, eyazibeka yona ngokwakhe. Imibuzo emininzi: "unobani", "kutheni ufike emva kwexesha", "awakwazi ukubiza?", Njl., Iqala ukucaphukisa. Ngoku, ngaphambi kokuba wenze into ethile, kufuneka uqikelele nomfazi wakho, ngaphandle koko uya "zikhukhumeza" kwaye uya kutshabalalisa indlela yakho ngayo yonke into ngokuhlwa, ekwazisa ukuba uyasimangalela zonke izinto ezingaphumeleli. Iindwendwe kunye nabahlobo kwindawo yokuhlambela ithatyathelwe ngokuhamba ngeentengiso, apho bathengisa khona into efanayo, kodwa akakwazi ukukhetha. Nangona ufumanisa into kunye nombuzo: "Ewe, kuhamba njani kum?
Ubomi obudibeneyo kwimbono yamadoda apho kufuneka ubuncinane inxalenye ethile yenkululeko, ukuguqulwa kwamanye amazwe, mhlawumbi kwanomsebenzi omncinci wentsapho kunye nentsapho . Ngoko, ndifuna ukuphuma kwidolophu ngepikiniki okanye i-sauna kunye nabahlobo bam - ndahlangana, ndishiya. Ubomi obudibeneyo, alusebenzi ngale ndlela. Okokuqala simele sixelele umfazi ngale nto, mkhuthaze ukuba avume, ngoko umonde ulinde iiyure ezininzi zokuqeqesha, umamele ukuba uyalibali into ethile kunye nomnqweno wokuya kwindawo ethile.
Ukuchasiswa kwimbono yabantu, kuphela ukuvusa ukwenza into engenakwenzeka. Umzekelo, awukwazi ukutshaya ekhitshini. Ngokukhawuleza xa umfazi eshiya kwindawo ethile, vumela u-ashray kunye neetakiti ze-cigarette zivele kwi-dacha ekhitshini. Kuyafana nokubukela imiboniso yezemidlalo, ukuhlamba, ukuloba, njl. Oku okungaphezulu "akunakwenzeka", ngakumbi ufuna ukukwenza. Ngaloo ndlela, kukho ukulwa. Kutheni ibhinqa iintsuku ezigqityiweyo zingagqiba ukuthenga, zithengise ixesha kwiidonons, zithethe nabangani, kwaye umntu akakwazi ukwenza oko akuthandayo ngenxa yokuba akayithandi.
Ubomi obumbeneyo buntshintsha kakhulu intsingiselo yegama elithi "intetho". Ukuba umfazi uthe cwaka, ke loo ndoda yenza into engalunganga. Yaye zama, qagela. Okanye omnye umxhasi - akanakukunceda ukuthetha. Ukuba umntu uyathula ngexesha lamabali akhe, akayithandi, uyakhubeka ukuba akaphulaphuli. Ukuba umntu ufaka igama, akayi kukuthandayo, nokuba uyayiphazamisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kunye nabasetyhini, ubomi kunye kunye buphela ngokukhawuleza. Indoda ifuna ukuba umfazi amphulaphule aze aqonde. Ukuba uthetha malunga noko akuxelele ngaphambili kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ubonakala eva okokuqala ngqa, loo mntu uphetha ukuba ubomi bakhe abukho umdla kuye, kuba amabali akhe adlula "ngeendlebe".
Ubomi bendoda nomfazi akusoloko "yinqaba". Ukuba abantu babekhe bathetha ukuhlala kunye, koko into iyabahlanganisa. Ubomi obudibeneyo, ukhangele ichweba elithulileyo, apho ungaya khona emva komsebenzi uze uphumule, phumula. Ukongeza, amadoda afana nokutya okumnandi kwaye kufuneka alalane ngesondo, nokuba awufuni. Akubona bonke abantu abakulungele ukuzala. Ukuba, ekuqaleni, ufumane ingqwalasela eyaneleyo, ukufudumala nokuthandana, ngoko ukubonakala ngokukhawuleza komntwana kumkhokelela ekutshitshiseni, kuba uyabuyela kwimvelaphi.
Amadoda afuna abafazi ukuba "bangamaqhawe." Amadoda ayayithanda xa adunyiswa, xa eyanconywa. Abakwazi ukuma xa beqhathaniswa namanye amadoda kwaye bagqibe ukuba le ntokazi ayisigqibo ngokukhetha, kuba ubeka ingqalelo kwabanye. Amadoda alindele kubasetyhini ubulumko, ukuqonda kunye nothando lobuqhetseba.
Ubomi kunye, yena kwaye ufunda ukuba kunye.